How to dance with women in the club?

Coolguy1699 · 2020-01-26T19:07:00+00:00

Just turn her around and let her twerk on you. Works for me

__TheDon__ · 2020-01-26T23:29:28+00:00

Most chicks and people in general suck at dancing. You can dance with her, step back a bit, show some skills and go back into grinding/holding her. You don’t have to be glued to her the whole time while dancing. Do your thing, I guarantee she’ll be impressed

MrTrizzles · 2020-01-26T23:53:05+00:00

You can't go wrong with the "less is more" approach when it comes to men and dancing. Learn a little shoulder roll, on the off-beats. Sway a little. You're keeping busy, you obviously got rhythm, you're cool, and you're not even really dancing, just subtly grooving.

Watch a black gospel choir perform a more serious, medium-paced song. Every single person on those risers is in constant motion, but nobody is dancing.

Seems to me that about 90% of dancing fails is trying to do too much, and 0% are because you did too little.

ValorElite · 2020-01-26T23:37:07+00:00

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kybervoid · 2020-01-27T00:48:21+00:00

When you let a girl twerk on you do you just stand there or grind on her while she is grinding on you? Or would that be considered weird and would people be like ew get a room already?

iamRRading · 2020-01-26T19:13:12+00:00

Whenever I approach girls on the dance floor, I mirror their dance moves. I create a rapport with a girl as I still mirror her and thereafter I take the lead. I find them enjoying it.

How do you do it?

palsnotkcots · 2020-01-27T00:25:22+00:00

Just act like an r&b singer having sex if there’s space between you after that when she’s putting her ass on you just swing your hips with her with a hand on her waist and just feel if you need to slide it down the front of her thigh and back up and she’ll usually bend over get down while seriously rubbing her ass on your dick it’s super important that if she bends over at anytime your hand goes on the small of her back and when she comes back move your hand to her stomach and she’ll prob put a hand on the back of your head. You have to make split second decisions if you should be swinging your hips along with hers or against hers like a counter pendulum if she starts getting horny. All in all there’s not but five moves it’s pretty easy, same goes for girls they don’t really use but 5 moves. When it’s over or she goes and dances again with her friends don’t follow her just dance by your self (nod/ sway to the beat and check out girls) or move on to the next girl cause as soon as you’re dancing with a chick all other chicks are watching to vet. Make drinking and having fun a first priority always dance with that drink in your hand hold it out of your way. Pro gamer move is when she does the bend over and your hand is on the small of her back like mentioned above TAKE A SIP it’s a boss move.

its_going_down_ · 2020-01-27T00:26:40+00:00

I'm not an expert at clubs for 20year olds, but I enjoy Salsa parties a lot. So, I'd recommend Salsa lesssons.

rad_dynamic · 2020-01-27T02:04:21+00:00

You have to feel the music, but through her. You can't just do your own thing

VictxrSenpai · 2020-01-27T00:36:32+00:00

Haha i was at the club last night and saw a bunch of dudes who have no idea what they were doing. Granted i dont really know, but ive been grinding on girls since the 6th grade dances so its pretty easy. More or less youll be dancing to modern hip hop /rap so just let her grind her ass on you while you rest your hands on her sides/ass/ waist area. Just move to the beat and follow her movement with your pelvis since it will be right against her ass. If they want to hold hands go for it, last night some chick threw me off by trying to hold hands but it usually doesnt happen. Also It takes time to make it look okay , since itll be awkward and might seem like weird humping till you can teach yourself to keep a rythym with your pelvis. You might also want to learn to grind while your knees are bent because most women are gonna be shorter

chika_paya · 2020-01-26T19:10:58+00:00

Do you know ballroom dancing? I reckon that Disco Fox is pretty well applicable to a nightclub setting. Bachata could work too.

astonboi01 · 2020-01-26T22:37:26+00:00

I usually try to be charming and playful and will extend my arm and do that thing where you twirl them around. Comes across confident and non-creepy. Let them twirl you around too.

PinacoladaSauce · 2020-01-27T00:54:48+00:00

Oh yeah I feel you. I do salsa bachata and swing dancing and a lot of girls can’t keep up outside of those events. Depends on each girl but usually just keep to grinding and then take some breaks, so some spins or a throw out every once in awhile she’ll melt like butter in your arms. Don’t be afraid to dance solo girls will come up to you and grind on you. Not sure how good you are but you can do some body rolls and stuff and that drives them CRAZY

flatbushwick · 2020-01-27T01:23:50+00:00

I’ve been considering taking salsa lessons at this Latin dance studio by my house.

dietstarts_tmrw · 2020-01-27T03:33:33+00:00

do mdma

falconiawillfall · 2020-01-27T04:46:52+00:00

Gotta feel the music man. Keep yourself glued to that ass, and have your hands on her hips. Then go lower while swaying, they love that shit cuz it's sensual af.

Oblivious_cunt · 2020-01-27T05:51:43+00:00

Just let her grind on you. Most of these bitches just wanna twerk nowadays

XXXMersenne · 2020-01-27T12:24:03+00:00

I'm the same.

The trick is to be gentle, smooth rather than flexing your moves & flow.

She's going to be paranoid as to what she looks like to you & others. I goof up on purpose to make a point of it not being a big deal.

If you take it slow it gives her enough time to keep up and if you do the same routine she'll be quick to remember and move in snyc with you.

PUA_Fan · 2020-01-27T15:02:45+00:00

Just eat some ecstasy and talk me later :D

woyspawn · 2020-01-26T20:54:43+00:00

Go to couples dancing lessons. Lead dancing is a skill you need to train by repetition.

Title	How to dance with women in the club?
Author	RuthlessAndMotivated
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Date	January 26, 2020 7:01 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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