I was INSULTED.

I didn't understand how he thought I could force men to behave and not be douchebag fuckboys just looking for one night stands. There is also the fact that things have gotten so much worse with dating since women started giving sex to LVM for nothing in return. Thanks "Sexual Liberation" for men and Sexual Loberation 2.0, "Sex Positivity" for men's boners.

But I get it now. You may not be able to get the relationship you want from a particular man, because we simply can't force people to do things they don't want to. But I always have the choice to leave. To put out different energy and toss them aside until one steps up to the plate and WORKS to be with me.

Men are DESPERATE so make them work.

WE DON'T HAVE TO SETTLE.