Stats: I am 6"4. Not in the best shape of my life but getting there.

Got a good "band of brothers" and we brought a good amount of girls together to hang out with. Absolute bombshells, Instagram models and the likes. Mostly 8-9 and young. When I asked one of them "where are you from" she answered "heaven" lol. My friends are late 30s and I am actually late 20s.

One of the dudes is a musician and was doing another concert today. He is a very good entertainer and it gets wild (and he also gets laid the most by far). Now I wasn't really intimidated by these chicks, I talked to them and some really hot ones were throwing me big IOIs and were just waiting for me to talk to them, which I did.

But then the dancing started. It was especially weird since my man does country music and the dudes are Brazilian and were doing Latin dancing over it. I felt completely lost and started to get nervous and to sweat. At some point I went to the table with the "ugly and boring ones" and I felt defeated as my friends all hooked up with these hotties and I was stuck once more with mediocrity. Although I am the tallest and strongest dude in there it made me feel weak and even effeminate.

I am kind of torn. If I think about some of my "fictional" alpha role models, e.g. Henry Cavill or even the late Sean Connery, I could not imagine them dancing extremely sexually and getting twerked on by chicks. Did/do they struggle with women? Probably not.

On the other hand, I would like to be in the middle of these hotties and not just continue to date "boring" women. I like to think that my game is okay but I end up being described as the guy "who is a good talker" or "who is philosophical" and that obviously means not fun.

Maybe some of you would say fuck it and just join and dance awkwardly, but I think many here can relate and know that it is extremely difficult. What I did think, however, is that I would go and take dancing classes in different styles so I could be better prepared for these situations and actually start to enjoy them and feel comfortable. These guys all have more than 10 years on me and that is plenty of time to learn this stuff properly.

How would you handle this kind of situation? The reality is that almost all high-SMV girls "want to have fun", so I feel that you can't get around learning how to dance and how to let loose. Also, my friend group of dudes might start to think that I am a party blooper and stop inviting me to this stuff.

I should also add that I'm limiting my drinking which doesn't make it easier.