And I gotta say that attitude should be burned and the ashes thrown into a garbage dump.

There are times in your life will be disappointed. You cannot never take risks just because they may lead to bad outcomes. That is not how life works.

Let me be straight up. If you avoid relationships you can avoid the following things.

•Being cheated on •Breakups •Being emotionally, physically, or sexually abused •Being dead bedroomed •Being divorced •Being forced to pay child support

But you will also be avoiding the following things •Falling in love •Getting married •Having children

And that’s a fine choice to make if you’re an aroace asexual person but not many of you are.

What you want is an answer. You want a specific formula that will guarantee you get a loyal, compatible, beautiful girlfriend. But in life there is no failsafe.

You either live your life getting hurt and making mistakes along the way, or you sit at home and accept your incoming death.