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Is trp for people like us?

lonelyrock49

July 9, 2015
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Title Is trp for people like us?
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lonelyrock49

Upvotes 13
Comments 38
Date July 9, 2015 4:23 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
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[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 59 points60 points61 points 11 years ago* (16 children) | Copy Link

No TRP member left behind. This is what you need to do...

1) Read the archived top post, If Your SMV is Low, EG: you're fat, poor, unpopular, or whatever then forget women/socializing/doing pointless shit for a good 6 months to a year - just be utterly selfish, forget everyone else and do your own thing.

2) You're going to go into monk mode as written by the same author as number #1.

3) During monk mode, you're going to lift weights, not optional. I explain why, here (you will read it, not optional), and the system you're going to implement is listed in the weight lifting section of the Red Pill Video Compilation Nuke (not optional). Watch the weight lifting section first, you'll watch the rest (not optional). Make sure to visit the comedy section every once in awhile, the other videos can be depressing.

After Monk Mode

4) You said you texted the girls everyday, stop that. Electronic communication is for logistics only. Read the following online dating guides

  • Part 1
  • Part 2
  • Part 3

When you emerge from the monastery, I wanna hear a field report from you and see how you're doing.

[–]AureliusThunderkok 19 points20 points21 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

< No TRP member left behind.

Huh. Just when I am doubting the utility of sharing time on this sub I see OP's post and this response. This is the sort of action I can get behind. Good luck OP.

[–]lonelyrock49[S] 12 points13 points14 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Thank you for writing this. I will definitely post my field report. I dont know how it will go but yes i will!

[–]randomuserwot 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

A good start would be getting a different nickname. Lonelyrock49 just cries out "desperate" and "needy"! Edit: Leaving the noob average nice guy behind would be detrimental to the utility of TRP. The very existence of TRP is based on the (true) assumption that most men aren't aware of the sexual market place dynamics and makes an effort to teach them a deeper understanding of said SMP. An a different note, I do notice that "oldbies" tend to sometimes lash out at newbies. If you really can't be bothered to interact with the newbies, then maybe an "Elite" TRP would be beneficial for everyone? Just my 2 cents, being a newbie myself.

[–]stonescythe 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good luck! Invest in yourself so that others will invest in you

[–]glottony 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is gold. Wish I had this list years ago.

[–]Modredpillschool 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Monk mode is rationalization. Start you now. The more shame you feel, the faster you progress. The better you can do ugly and fat, the better your game as you progress.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

That's easy to say when you're not ugly and fat, I've never been that but could only imagine. You have to start out with a foundation first, you need something to work with. People in his position would just incur needless suffering by approaching any more, unless he'd like to fuck fat and ugly girls, which would probably make him feel like more shit. It's best to invest that time into himself, then as you said, go out and take chances, enevitably failing along the way, but that's the natural result of learning.

[–]jimmy_toes -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

That weight lifting link isn't working for me. Can someone point me to what that link is? Why isn't there something about weight lifting in the side bar? I'm currently in monk mode running and doing pushups. It's difficult for me to justify a gym membership only for the sake of women, especially since I work a sedentary job and I have no use for larger muscles.

[–]The_Man11 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

only for the sake of women

It's for you, bro. Who cares what women want.

[–]jimmy_toes 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, that's the answer everyone gives on RP. I was looking for an elaboration of why. But now I have been given the link to the material and the Rollins essay.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

5.6 Indian Male? Sounds a lot like Jesse from Simple Pickup lol.

Man if he can do it, so can you. There's no excuses.

[–]lonelyrock49[S] 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

i will check out his channel.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's all about becoming "the best possible version of yourself".

Don't beat yourself up trying to become 6.2 Jack with the hand measurements of Atlas. You're playing the 5.6 Indian class and you're gonna own at it.

[–]AK27ABROAD 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I got a number of a girl from okc. I befriended her. Talked with her every single day.

Were you getting anything from that conversation- did you even enjoy it? Or were you just putting in whatever effort you thought necessary to get in her pants?

Look, my prescription for you, right now, is MONK MODE. Forget girls- what you're doing isn't helping you with them anyways.

Go WORK OUT. Lift weights like a madman, until your frustrations dissipate. It won't feel good right away, but a promise, it will feel good eventually. Think of the men you admire. What are their hobbies? What makes you admire them? Do they rock climb? Build stuff with their hands? Think of a hobby you admire and GET STARTED. You'll suck at first. So what. Just keep at it.

When you're feeling better about yourself, go ahead and give girls another try. But right now, you're just building up rejections, which is worthless to everyone and a waste of time and energy.

Lift. Find a hobby. Lift. Practice said hobby. Repeat. You'll know when it's time to get back in the ring with the women-folk.

[–]lonelyrock49[S] 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Were you getting anything from that conversation- did you even enjoy it? Or were you just putting in whatever effort you thought necessary to get in her pants?

No i did not enjoy the conversation. I was just feeling like i achieved something as i was able to hold the conversation so long with a girl online. I did not think i was going to get laid anywys.

You know i slogged all the time. Stayed away from girls and thought i would achieve something. I got moderate success. Now i am desperate i cannot find girls that easily. I dont know where to. I am already average if i lose my age i am down to nothing. I cant even get girls who look average if not good. This girl was also average. 6 i guess

Yup that is the cause of my fear and disenchantment. I will be doing what you say. Mostly because i dont have a choice anywys.

[–]AK27ABROAD 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Start because you have no choice. Continue because you see results. Keep it up long-term because you're in love with your own fucking transformation.

[–]henry-jest 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Watch this. "Too Much Texting Lowers Attraction" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PkLbhYm30Yg

Read this guy book...


“Women are more attracted to men who are mysterious, fascinating, interesting and somewhat of a challenge to figure out. Since feminine energy is all about bonding, connecting and opening up to receive love, women typically will start to reach out and pursue more and more as their attraction, curiosity and interest grows in a man. Most men who don’t know any better, get themselves into trouble when they start texting and chatting on the phone constantly with women who they have a lot of chemistry with and just started dating. They reveal too much and talk too much, and when the women predictably start to become a little bored and too familiar with them, they start backing off. Most men erroneously assume that they need to text and do more, which actually leads to their texts and messages being ignored. The phone is for setting dates only, not getting to know someone. Men who violate this principle will inevitably talk and text women right out of liking and being attracted to them.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

[–]lonelyrock49[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This really hits the nail on the head. I can and have seen this happening to me.

[–]FangoFett 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Frame, Frame, Lift, and Frame.

Become a man of abundance. The more you don't care/IDGAF, the easier it is to accept reject/cause girls hamsters to spin.

Make the prize about you. You are successful, career focused. Never stick to one girl, it's boring, and you become boring.

[–]JakeWakefield3 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You need to completely change your inner self.

Talking to a girl every day is not going to attract her.

If you can change 2 things, you will see better success with women.

1) Fix your outer self: lift weights, gain muscle, wear stylish clothes, get a better haircut, do everything you can to look good on the outside.

2) Fix your inner self: I can already tell that the way you are relating to women shows that your core beliefs are not correct. You need to read red pill literature (like the sidebar or the recommended books) and internalize the information. I would recommend starting with "No More Mr. Nice Guy" for you.

I know of guys who were virgins later than you and still got laid by changing themselves, so don't count yourself out just yet.

Stop approaching and pursuing girls until after you have read some red pill literature and fixed yourself up a bit. The rejection only makes you feel bad about yourself and the situation. It's obviously making you want to give up and we don't want that, now do we?

[–]RedPillRedditAccount 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup. Read the sidebar. Workout. Put the effort in. It's going to be hard, but you can do it. Anyone can, all it takes is a willingness to change.

[–]Matharon 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Let me tell you a story my friend. As true as my plates are whores. The other day I was standing in line at a restaurant, waiting to order at the counter. I hear a voice to my left "excuse me." The short (shorter than 5'6") Indian kid who said it sounded pathetic, looked pathetic as he scurried past me to the drink machine.

As I'm watching this pathetic little human I start giving thanks. I'm grateful for my European ancestry, my fair skin and green eyes. I'm grateful to inherit my father's tall frame and my mother's athleticism, and I'm grateful they taught me to speak with conviction and presence.

While I'm giving thanks in my mind this little brown kid is getting his drink and I wonder how lame his life must be. How he'll never know what it's like having multipe hot plates on standby. And while I'm thinking this, he carries his two drinks over to a table and sits down across from one of the cutest little redheads I've seen in a while. She's an absolute 8 in my book and she's in love. Her bright eyes and undivided attention say it all. God damn.

This man probably has it harder than me, but I can't say I wasn't a little jealous of the tail he had pulled. I could learn alot from a guy like him. This sub is for you, that's why you're here. Stop complaining and get to work.

[–]NeoreactionSafe 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Lifting weights forces you to get out of the dreamworld consciousness that happens to Beta virgins. Your lust has been building up and that distorts your mind into thinking all kinds of sick romantic thoughts. Romance is the symptom of repressed sexual desire.

So the lifting basically releases a lot of energy and gets your mind back into your body.

Even things like yoga can help.

Masculinity does not have all the repressed romance in it.

No Charm, No Love means that if women aren't Charming you (desiring you) your reaction must be to not Love them. It's difficult for the romantic mind because rejection just hits you when the lust is in full swing.

Ancient wisdom teaches you that Lust must become under your control.

You hurt because you allow Lust to become romance.

The root of all your problems is unrecognized Lust.

[–]moneyandsexislife 2 points2 points2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

RP is for every man.

Your first step is your body. It make things so much easier, so do nothing but work on getting abs.

Lift and avoid carbs & fats and even synthetic fats like sugar alcohols. Your fat will melt.

You don't have to be big to see an immediate change, but you can't be small.

Don't work on the psychological tricks until you've reached that goal, but you need to get your head right, so skipping to the anger phase makes progress that much easier since despondency will get in the way of the progress of your body.

Once your body starts inflating, and your 8pack is visible, start reading the sidebar like mad and send questions to askTRP.

It's simple but not easy, so be prepared for the workload, and don't quit.

Success is 100% if you work the system, results guaranteed.

[–]michaelconnery1985 -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Carbs are an important part of one's diet though

[–]moneyandsexislife1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

They serve no purpose for someone with abundant energy stores, someone fat or fatter than they'd like to be.

[–]redpillcynic 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Your mistake with that girl is talking to her everyday. Let them initiate conversation. You need something better to do. Man, you're not even close to your SMV peak. You get more attractive in your 30s. Have a little faith, and go lift

[–]antariusz 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The average woman is only 5'4"

You don't have to be tall, you just have to be taller than her.

Much like how you don't have to be rich, you just have to make more money than her.

You don't have to be a social butterfly you just have to have more friends than her.

etc etc.

Your biggest problem is mental, lack of experience. You don't know how to attract women because you haven't ever done it before.

Red Pill knowledge is truth itself. You won't have as easy of a time as a 6' NFL player, but DID YOU WORK OUT 4+ HOURS A DAY 5 DAYS A WEEK FOR YOUR JOB? Then why are you expecting the same results as someone that has put in more effort into their appearance/body.

[–]lift_mdfk_lift 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You have to be the best version of yourself that can ever exist. It works for everyone, so for you it will work too. Be better. At everything. As some other posters said, lifting is number 1 on your list. Keep at it, and a year from now, you will be a different person and not only physically.

Guaranteed.

[–]TheRealMewt 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

TRP is for any man who wants to be better than he was yesterday, no matter what cards he was dealt in life.

[–]SirRobini 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If you really cant get a woman, you are at late 20's and a virgin, you could consider a prostitute. There is no need to torture yourself with dusty moral or ethical codes. Inexperience is only a handicap and getting laid really gets the pussy out of the pedestal. This is only if you cant get a woman normally. You can, and should still get sex.

A prostitute is like any other woman They all trade somethin' for sex and they do it well.

[–]beachbloke 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

you could consider a prostitute.

I think this is good advice. Get the V card off your chest. Its baggage that is weighing you down. You are not special because you are a virgin -- get that out of your mind. Women just think you aren't good enough for their baby -- like hundreds of millions of other guys. But wait and see what happens when you are a better you.

Lift and see the difference. When women start approaching you, you will think "WTF, I am the same person I was a year ago you vein whore", and that's the anger phase. You will be happy because not only are you a better person (physically and mentally), you are rewarded for it by people who want to be around you. Women are some of those people and they will also want your dick because they want their baby to be like you.

[–]Sir_Shitlord_focker 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You're basically the least genetically attractive male (group) on earth. Still, it will work better for you if you are fit, dress well and act manly. But no you'll never be full alpha in the eyes of women, unless you manage to make a TON of money of course (would make a limbless paraplegic attractive).

[–][deleted] 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]lonelyrock49[S] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I am in india brother. Not an nri

[–]iamaguythrowaway 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Do dating sites work in india? I thought they were sausage fests? I thought only matrimonial sites worked in India.

[–]lonelyrock49[S] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Girls are average here. Many have crossed 30 and hit the wall. Most are lonely and depressed. Happy ones dont reply at all. They are beautiful too.

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