Real men want old women instead of young ones

ClockworkOrange92618 · 2018-08-21T00:03:54+00:00

Men attracted to emotionally unstable women, preferably no older than 18, studies show

Given our choices are between that or older women that are also mentally unstable, can you blame us?

While these studies may focus on sexual relations, they’re yet another reminder that we’re facing a crisis of masculinity that is reverberating across every aspect of our society. The far right is dominated by men, many of whom seem to be searching for a sense of identity. For feminism to get anywhere we must seriously address how we think about masculinity.

TRANSLATION: Feminism so far has bit us in the ass as far as happiness goes. We'll blame Republicans because they're usually white males and it's taboo to defend them nowadays, so we'll say they're searching for their identity which is why they don't want insufferable 30-year-old cunts as partners. For feminism to get anywhere we must seriously address how we can spout anti-male hate speech, and still get Chad to want us to marry him.

escalover · 2018-08-21T02:20:13+00:00

Author is 35, is it any surprise that she's trying to browbeat men into dating older women?

Fat women do the same exact thing, and use the same exact language. Watch here:

Can I just remind you that 18-year-olds are teenagers, and so this study is basically saying that straight men don’t find women attractive; they like girls.

Right, and men who want women with healthy bodies "want women who look like teenage boys".

To reply to the quote: for some reason if women hit their prime at 20, I doubt the author wouldn't still complain and find some way to insult men over it.

Last I checked, an 18 year old "girl" is called "a woman", because "woman" is what you call an adult female human being...

“the median 30-year-old man spends as much time messaging teenage girls as he does women his own age”

Yeah women have turned OLD into a numbers game. Best to cast a wide net. Men date across and down...

While these studies may focus on sexual relations, they’re yet another reminder that we’re facing a crisis of masculinity that is reverberating across every aspect of our society.

How is men doing what men have always done "a crisis" - implying that it's something new - "of masculinity"?

Isn't this more a... crisis for old women???

For feminism to get anywhere we must seriously address how we think about masculinity.

That's right, feminism hasn't gotten anywhere guys.

NetherIndy · 2018-08-21T04:31:16+00:00

They may find unstable eighteen year olds hot, but most would be very, very happy to settle down with a 27-year-old grade two schoolteacher who smiles a lot, likes kids, and doesn't have a bloody Guardian blog entitled "This Week in Patriarchy".

where_muh_good_mens · 2018-08-20T23:53:38+00:00

Surprise surprise. Men don't want ripened pussy, they want to squeeze fresh fruit.

p0rnpop · 2018-08-21T02:30:03+00:00

Guess I'm a broken male. Young women are my kink. Don't kink shame me. Accept me for who I am or you are a bigot.

oirectine00 · 2018-08-21T00:23:12+00:00

"Women's fixation on money and status is another sign of business as usual"

orcscorper · 2018-08-21T03:28:52+00:00

Researchers looked at nearly 200,000 heterosexual users and found that while men’s sexual desirability peaks at age 50, women hit their prime at 18.

Weird how she doesn't complain about young women liking older men. If every woman dated a man her own age, every man would have to date a woman his own age. But, she is a feminist. Women have no agency, and everything is men's fault.

50-year-old men aren't even the most desirable. The OK Cupid study simply counted responses to initial contact. Every man on the site contacted every young hot woman, but only the old guys bothered messaging old women. The young hotties ignored 99% of guys because they could. The old women returned the old guys' messages. It's pretty simple if you know anything about humans.

kevin32 · 2018-08-21T00:34:17+00:00

The week in patriarchy

lol!

moorekom · 2018-08-21T02:18:55+00:00

//A depressing new study about online dating indicates a problem that is reverberating across every aspect of our society//

Notice: Depressing. Problem across society.

I don't want to change myself to fit with nature. I want to change the situation so much that reality becomes what I define.

//Men attracted to emotionally unstable women, preferably no older than 18, studies show//

Blame shifting to younger women. Trying to portray herself as a better option with the wrong idea that men want and like what she likes.

//This week’s peer-reviewed portrayal of fragile masculinity//

Shaming language

//which recently published a depressingnew study about online dating. //

Depressing.

//Researchers looked at nearly 200,000 heterosexual users and found that while men’s sexual desirability peaks at age 50, women hit their prime at 18. And then it’s all downhill from there apparently.//

Pffft. Like we're gonna believe that. Don't you believe it either.

//Can I just remind you that 18-year-olds are teenagers, and so this study is basically saying that straight men don’t find women attractive; they like girls.//

Maturity(actually baggage in her case) must be attractive to men since it's attractive to me.

//#NotAllMen, I’m sure. //

I'm an asshole but I don't want to look like one.

//However, this isn’t the first study to find men are fixated on women a lot younger than them. A 2010 study by OKCupid found that “the median 30-year-old man spends as much time messaging teenage girls as he does women his own age”.//

This is a wide spread societal level problem. Nothing to do with me missing my window.

//I promise you I’m not here to promote the gay agenda and undermine heterosexuality,//

I'm just here to rewrite everything to make them fit to my wants and needs but no, I'm not actually trying to destroy anything.

//but I’ve got another alarming report to really top things off. A recent study, published in the Journal of Sex Research found that “men whose partners had less emotional stability reported better sexual function”. Sounds really healthy, guys.//

Men who had girls with low n count and were young, reported that they had better sex, were more aroused to her and were happier. That is actually healthy.

//While these studies may focus on sexual relations, they’re yet another reminder that we’re facing a crisis of masculinity that is reverberating across every aspect of our society.//

Because only women can define sexuality and determine how the other gender can operate. Only we can weaponize sex. I mean, that's all we've had from sexual revolution until now as an advantage. Shit, does this mean men are going to weaponize sex via picking virgin girls and only giving them commitment?

//The far right is dominated by men, many of whom seem to be searching for a sense of identity.//

As opposed to me, who was a genius from birth and knew everything there was to know about anything.

//For feminism to get anywhere we must seriously address how we think about masculinity.//

For us to win, they need to lose.

pixelies · 2018-08-21T05:43:21+00:00

A woman writing about a crisis in masculinity.

Westernhagen · 2018-08-21T06:59:34+00:00

Real talk, I have NEVER seen a woman's preferences be shamed. They're allowed to openly state that they want a sugar daddy or 6 foot+ 6 pack 6 figure man with the entirety of society backing them with "You go gurl!" But these same women foam at the mouth when men state they prefer younger women.
Sorry ladies, but Men have stopped giving a fuck what you think and don't give a shit about what you want.
Sorry feminism sold you a bunch of lies, but we aren't responsible for your throwing away your youth and your options when you had them

[deleted] · 2018-08-21T02:40:34+00:00

You’d think it would be self-evident that this lady is a catch.

It’s not.

Her mental vomit on The Crapian proves it.

Don’t date her. With an attitude like that, she’ll confirm your worst fears.

Cheers. Love me some hot young ass.

PhotosyntheticChad · 2018-08-21T09:09:42+00:00

Heaven forbid that women ever realise that they are the problem.

No no, double down and blame men for something else women have failed at.

I also think she fails to understand what this study actually shows. It doesn’t mean ‘men are attracted to 18 year olds the most’, it means 18 year old girls get the most messages.

There was another one done that showed, self reported, that men find women aged 22-24 to be the most attractive, women report that men 3-4 years older than their current age most attractive. So, women are only attractive to men for a fixed age period. Men are constantly attractive to women, depending entirely on the age of the woman.

It actually makes perfect sense evolutionarily for men to be attracted to the most fertile women. It also makes sense evolutionarily for women to be attracted to men who, while slightly older, are essentially their peers. In a small tribe, that would represent shared life experience, emotional attachment and a higher likelihood that the man will protect the woman. Men’s fertility is never really an issue since men are fertile until they die.

But what this does mean, is that there is only a brief period of crossover where these two different ‘systems’ align, and that is when women are in their early 20s and men are in their mid-20s to early-30s.

After that, men are still going to be attracted to women in their early-20s, and women are left ‘wondering where all the good men have gone’, because they’re attracted to the men around their age that they see, but those men are not attracted to them. They missed the window. We used to have a cultural tool that mitigated this happening, but a certain female centred movement did away with this institution, and pushed women into careers that they don’t want, and thrust them headfirst into the wall.

YamYoshi · 2018-08-21T05:23:10+00:00

I mean most dudes who want older women are under 23 and have a MILF fetish

twdziki · 2018-08-21T06:41:12+00:00

It's almost like humans evolved to reproduce...

TheRealEtherion · 2018-08-21T08:43:53+00:00

They call it "Depressing studies" because it makes them realise that they're used up old whores with decreasing market value by the day and there's no way they can compete with fresh young 18yos.

I remember them calling 18yo Women and now they're suddenly girls? It's you who called them adults who can do whatever the fuck they want. Now they want to fuck older richer intelligent Men. See how that backfired? You did the same when you were younger. Now take the L and let them be.

It really makes my day seeing idiots panic. Bwahahahaaha

For feminism to get anywhere we must seriously address how we think about masculinity.

No bitch. We don't need you to fix anything for us. We've been taking care of civilization for thousands of year. Don't act like you can "Fix" what we do best and you do worst. That's like me talking about how periods feel. You can't know without first hand experience.

Marlakai · 2018-08-21T07:21:06+00:00

AWALT

I read the same BS spouted by Korean feminazis the other day on this same topic.

Truly confirms that AWALT is a law.

Stahlboden · 2018-08-21T10:31:32+00:00

Can we just stop for a moment to appreciate the sheer egocentrism of this broad? if men so happen to like someone that's not her it's the literal societal damn crisis! Women should have the right to decide for men who they are, what they should be, what they should like (used-up thots). If masculinity doesn't serve this particular broad then it's "fragile" and "in crisis", because what else masculinity is for? Add some hamster-science and random mentioning of alt-right, because using Literally Hitler ^tm is a sure way to give an opinion more weight.

All the while I'm pretty sure she has a long, superficial, shallow and unrealistic list of demands for her mr. Right she woudn't compromise on, even if society would be collapsing because of it.

It's not surprising that such people exist, it's surprising that such delusional people are given platform that makes them look like some "journalist" or "expert".

Diogenes-- · 2018-08-21T10:04:07+00:00

Sure, hon. It's got nothing to do with biology and millions of years of evolution. And it's got nothing to do with older women being no more mature than their younger counterparts, but with an even higher partner count, blown out snatches, and kids + other baggage. No, of course it's gotta be everyone's favorite bogeyman, the patriarchy. Smh lol.

And the same OKCupid data showed that women think 80% of men are below average, I wonder why she didn't mention that?

DeeplyDisturbed1 · 2018-08-21T12:37:26+00:00

Brought to you by the clearly unbiased, totally truthful, and always open minded editors of "The Week in Patriarchy"

Men attracted to emotionally unstable women, preferably no older than 18...straight men don’t find women attractive; they like girls.

This sounds like an attempt at painting heterosexual men as closeted pedophiles...and emotionally unstable. But I could be wrong...

...studies show

Well, that's a trustworthy source.

This week’s peer-reviewed portrayal of fragile masculinity

Well, that's better. Wait, what?

Researchers looked at nearly 200,000 heterosexual users and found that while men’s sexual desirability peaks at age 50, women hit their prime at 18...

NO! (Gasp) Say it ain't so. In related news, women prefer tall good looking men with a lot of resources.

...And then it’s all downhill from there apparently. Can I just remind you that 18-year-olds are teenagers, and so this study is basically saying that straight men don’t find women attractive; they like girls.

Well, peer reviewed Scientific journals sure are different these days. I wonder what methodology they used to determine the downhillness coefficient.

we must seriously address how we think about masculinity.

Who is this "we"? Are "we" the overseers of sex and gender? Do they carry badges, like police? Perhaps a business card?

Joroda · 2018-08-21T11:06:38+00:00

Cats already prefer older women.

XirallicBolts · 2018-08-21T11:30:22+00:00

Women become less desirable the older they get.

This is men's fault.

ok.

You know that old adage when you were a teen about how 'girls can sense desperation' and you need to be confident? It works both ways. Just as a desperate guy is a turn-off to women, a post-wall woman desperate to lock down a man is a turn-off to men.

person1_23 · 2018-08-21T09:50:53+00:00

Yet older women don’t like younger men make up your fucking mind then.

[deleted] · 2018-08-21T13:34:26+00:00

Basically it says what all of us men know. Youth and beauty are what we're attracted to. Also, the crazy chicks are the best fucks. Also, water is wet.

[deleted] · 2018-08-21T16:40:09+00:00

"This Week In Patriarchy"

And I am absolutely sure that the head honchos at The Guardian have absolutely no idea why they have to e-Beg at the bottom of every article.

BiggusDickus- · 2018-08-21T19:59:11+00:00

The most offensive part of all of this is how these fem-bitches have decided to demonize natural male instincts and desires.

There is no crisis in masculinity. The "crisis" is among women who are too stupid, arrogant, and delusional to find a man when they are young and attractive.

Men like what they like. It is normal and nothing to be ashamed of.

This is a problem for old women, and stupid young women. Successful men, and smart young women are doing just fine.

TomahawkSuppository · 2018-08-21T14:12:11+00:00

35 year old Indian woman. In that culture that is the equivalent of looking at dried up cow shit. This bitch tried to have Soviet conform to her ideas and it turned around and slapped her. Now there are no marriage proposals and certainly no one interested in her. What else is left but trying to shame men. Well sweetie, as a man I make no apologies for what I find attractive and my desires. Now fuck off.

starkfuture · 2018-08-21T06:38:51+00:00

Deluded cunts being stupid. Nothing surprising here.

frikabg · 2018-08-21T09:42:39+00:00

Thots like this do not know what a real men is and what is to be a real woman so they should be ignored.

BluepillProfessor · 2018-08-21T14:32:17+00:00

A problem reverberating throughout society. LMFAO!

while men’s sexual desirability peaks at age 50, women hit their prime at 18. And then it’s all downhill from there apparently. Can I just remind you that 18-year-olds are teenagers, and so this study is basically saying that straight men don’t find women attractive; they like girls.

I bathe in female butthurt. 18 y/o's are "girls" when she hits the wall and wants to shame but they are STRONGINDEPENDENTWOMEN for those magical 9 years from 18-27.

Yes Carol, we like WOMEN. YOUNG WOMEN. YOUNG TIGHT WOMEN! For a LTR we like them without the attitude, appreciates men, and is eager to focus on him and make his life better.

Nope? K, guess there is Call of Duty....

AllahHatesFags · 2018-08-21T15:20:25+00:00

Maybe this lesbian feminist should STFU about all topics pertaining to men and masculinity.

Pastelitomaracucho · 2018-08-21T15:20:34+00:00

I go to /r/gonewild18 to bathe myself in this depressing state of affairs.

zestytacoz · 2018-08-21T18:43:37+00:00

shaming men for their sexuality

A strategy that didn't work, doesn't work, and won't work. Maybe except on the agape mouth soyboys that they don't actually want

[deleted] · 2018-08-21T16:45:52+00:00

Just because she goes to the gym once a week and isn't a landwhale, she suddenly deserves a hunk with abs of steel, 6 figures a year and 10 in the bank.

FWIW she looks like she was pretty hot in her 20s and she likely could've found a good man and worked with him towards that cash & lifestyle.

But nope, she deserves her CC and her Mr. Right. And don't you dare tell her otherwise.

Xxtourlife · 2018-08-21T11:29:15+00:00

Am I being Punk'd? 😂😂

worldtraveller200 · 2018-08-21T20:22:50+00:00

The Guardian articles and opinion pieces are really vile, patronising crap. According to them: if you are "white, male and straight; you should be apologise for everything while some over paid journalist tells you want to think

While this twitter page has not been updated in over a year,

https://twitter.com/SoMuchGuardian

also you will love this example

r/https://twitter.com/SoMuchGuardian/status/766505460899966976

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2018-08-21T21:32:58+00:00

Peer reviewed by a panel of gender studies phds.

Motherfucker reading that whole thing pisssd me off.

Makes me want to buy a hamster and eat it so the entire thing passes through my asshole.

Bestoftherest222 · 2018-08-21T23:32:00+00:00

An interesting part that is being over looked, even by the analyst on this esteemed /r/, is that young women have no issues putting out and getting access to older mens money.

These old hag females browbeating older men for not "dating in their age bracket" are wrongfully taking out their old hag frustrations on men.

Also gentlemen, notice the lack of "maybe if we old hags focused on being in fruitful relationships as younger girls we wouldn't be in this spot!" God forbid these old post 25 year old hags admit the bed they made is the bed they are laying on today!

Forget taking responsibility, forget that these cunts were the young thots of today, no lets blame men!

boop2boopy · 2018-08-21T14:23:35+00:00

This title is confusing

hardlifeman · 2018-08-22T12:37:02+00:00

Well, we don't want to "settle." You understand, right ladies?

GSFleming · 2018-08-22T19:20:19+00:00

These findings are only a surprise to someone who has bought into the feminist myth of the sexes being equal. For men, freshness and fertility are considered most attractive in a mate. Hence men seek out younger, lower mileage women.

For women, security and stability are considered most attractive in a mate. Hence, women seek out emotionally mature, more financially secure men. This is not toxic masculinity. This is nature. This is the way it has been. If anything, toxic egalitarianism is what has ruined relationship dynamics in the first world.

Tookthemethpill · 2018-08-24T19:45:46+00:00

its almost like people being attracted to qualities you have no control over kinda sucks. I'm really looking forward to the parabolic rise of spinsters coming up in a decade.

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