Is MGTOW just the logical thing to do if you have Asperger's?

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-01-05T10:38:54+00:00

Please wait at least 12 hours between posts.

ANRthrowawayABF · 2021-01-05T07:07:19+00:00

Yes absolutely, I also have Aspergers and am MGTOW.

YetAnotherCommenter · 2021-01-05T08:25:55+00:00

As an aspie MHRA whom is essentially MGTOW myself...

It depends on your specific situation. How socially 'bad' are you? Are you introverted/shy or are you more bull-in-a-china-shop? Are you exclusively heterosexual in the first place? Can alternatives to real-life romantic relationships with women (such as porn etc) help you feel better? Are you or could you easily make yourself physically handsome? Could you possibly learn how to mimic neurotypical social skills without incurring excessive costs? etc.

Certainly for many asperger's men, MGTOW is the best alternative. For those more mild cases and/or for those aspies who look good, it may not be.

abaxeron · 2021-01-05T08:03:59+00:00

is it just reasonable to consider that no matter how hard you try you might never find a mate?

It is reasonable to consider no matter your circumstances. Finding a partner is a random process; it's something you may hope for, but should not count on, even if you won the genetic lottery. You don't need to be personally successful or unsuccessful with women to observe the world, analyse, and make conclusions about marriage and cohabitation.

felinemasterrace · 2021-01-05T07:06:53+00:00

I dunno, I’ve got a friend on the spectrum who gets mad laid. I personally am probably on the antisocial spectrum and was undersocialized, so I’ve had to get really clinical and granular in how I deal with people, but it seems to be working. I don’t think you should give up.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-01-05T07:25:03+00:00

I would say maybe go tryhard first to see if it works. It's worth a shot, no? You don't wanna be regretful about what might have been.

Now if you're bad aspies and your tryharding isn't working and the rejections pile up and you're really sad because of them then definitely at least take a break if not full MGTOW

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-01-05T07:27:27+00:00

not have to share a bed.

Tbf sharing a bed is not a bad thing. Imo it gets me so much closer romantically to my gf when we do sleep together. If/when we go halfsies on a house, it's gonna have 2br+ though. You always wanna have separate beds for work related sleeping

felinemasterrace · 2021-01-05T09:15:36+00:00

I have Aspergers..My diagnosis was probably one of the fastest at my clinic's history in North Germaany..My aspiedom is kind of severe....I donot have any resentment towards modern dating culture or sexual practices of modern women..I just love engaging with the data provided by German Health MInistry or Insitute of Family Studies, GWAS,OKCupid and as such..Derive a lot of pleasure from identifying the sexual selection mechanism that women employ when freed from the contraints of religion, social mores, biological limitiations,finacial pressures.......I prefer to be single for a few years between relationships..so at the moment in MGTOW phase...by the way my latest ex helped identify that I have severe autism and pushed me to get the diagnosis

onestH · 2021-01-05T08:34:29+00:00

I’ve got Aspergers but have no issue getting women. I’m sure I’ve fucked more women than most (based on statistics), despite my proclivity towards a relationship partner as opposed to just screwing around. Wits along with big muscles and D is what gets me laid (and LTR if I so desire). I can assure you no one perceives me as being childish — even if I react to and deal with some situations differently than others. I’m currently in a relationship with a woman who outearns me by a large margin and who’s in incredible shape (a much more decorated pro athlete than I) with glutes bigger than that of any other girl’s I’ve seen in the gym.

I have an old friend who’s got asperger’s too but he’s in an LTR himself.

MGTOW isn’t for me — but neither is marriage.

I’ve got several female friends, most of whom have had my dick in their mouth, the rest just have a picture of it (unknown to their bf/ father of their child).

I’ve never met someone in my adult life that even realized I have asperger’s let alone dislike me for it. I’m just not very agreeable but a conservative and that makes some people dislike me (while many others appreciate my honesty and logical nature).

Should I ever have a child, I’ll make sure sure its mother is on an nutrient dense, animal-based diet, making autism etc. much less likely.

Asperger’s only makes your start in life harder, imo. My friend and I got past it by putting ourselves in difficult situations, going outside our comfort zone and learning by doing. In the long term, your looks and height are much more likely to make women be repulsed by you than a few quirks you have as a part of being an “aspie”.

octocombo · 2021-01-05T08:32:57+00:00

There are differences between accepting the possibility that you won't find a partner, stopping your efforts to get a partner, and opting for MGTOW.

Accepting the possibility that you won't find a partner is healthy for everyone regardless of how attractive they are.

Whether you should stop your efforts to get a partner is a matter of weighing the costs and benefits for you individually. It depends on how attractive you are, how much success you have had, how crazy the rest of your life is, etc. This also could change from year to year, e.g., if you are busy with a new job maybe it's not worth it to try finding a partner, but if you have a quieter year and a mental break from the dating cycle it might be worth it to you to jump back in.

MGTOW is for people who think that finding a partner would be a negative and would want to avoid dating even if it was easy to find a relationship. The community is a circlejerk of hating on women to try to convince themselves that women are not worth having in their lives.

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2021-01-05T08:41:42+00:00

Neuropsychiatric disorders aren't great to have. Water is wet.

r32_skyline · 2021-01-05T09:17:23+00:00

Yes, being aspie is the low end of the gene pool and not at all lady killers. Women want Jocks not aspie nerds.

Carloverguy20 · 2021-01-05T07:38:19+00:00

Can you walk, can you talk to people, can you move your body, then you are fine, if you can type and talk to people, you don't have to join these stupid acronym groups. They love to prey on emotionally vulnerable men, and lots of guys on the spectrum, fall deep into these rabbit holes, because of past bullying, rejection etc. I don't care what anyone says, but anyone can find a partner if they tried hard enough. There are guys and girls on the spectrum who have significant others, are married etc.

Mimoxs · 2021-01-05T09:19:44+00:00

Even Aspie women don't seem to like us very much.

What makes you think this?

Title	Is MGTOW just the logical thing to do if you have Asperger's?
Author	felinemasterrace
Upvotes	9
Comments	44
Date	January 5, 2021 7:03 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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