Men who are violent in their views or speech might be more virtuous than men who appear virtuous but are violent inside

I've seen this time and time again how women feel uncomfortable around men who display contempt for women in general.

But usually what we say and what we do aren't correlated.

Most shrewed people know how to manipulate their interactions to appear more trustworthy to others and show your true colours only when there is maximum reward in front of you.

There are plenty of people who act very nice untill one day when they go 360 and come out as biggest asshole.