So basically, my GF won't let me do anal with her because she did it with her ex and it hurt. It hurt me that she would do it with him but not with me. Recently I found out that she used to do it all the time with him throughout the years, and that was when she was 14-16, and she's 19 turning 20 now. It hurt me even more when I found that out, because not only did she do anal with him but not with me, she did it many, many times. I confronted her about it and she told me that it doesn't feel good and that it hurts her, when I ask why she did it with him she said she was never honest with him but she is honest with me, and that I should respect her decisions. He was the one who broke up with her. I respect her decisions and I understand that it's her body and her decision, but I honestly really want to try anal with her and I feel inferior to her ex even though she tells me how much more amazing I am than him, but honestly I feel a bit like a simp. This is my first relationship sexual or otherwise so I have no idea what to do or what is normal. What are your thoughts on this?