White Knight going down the rabbit hole

tom_salchichom · 2015-08-22T13:08:23+00:00

I only want to warn you about something, because I ve seen it over and over.

I've seen many red pillers turn back to blue pillers once things starts to get better.

Most of the time it starts when they land a long term relationship, they begin to justify they own beta behaviour as "well that's how I naturally am, so... I'm just being myself" and a long list of excuses.

Some people will say that they were never red pillers but as far as I know they were. They were able to the all the same reasonings we do here, they just went through a slow but sustained decadence.

The most important thing is, never overestimate you value -as we have a tendency to deceive ourselves- and keep working on it.

Ed: You've been warned.

NeoreactionSafe · 2015-08-22T13:40:14+00:00

Virtue Signalling

All humans imitate others and then eventually compete against others.

White Knights are people who take the bait given by the Feminists that lead them to think if you get into a competition over "goodness" as the Feminist define it then your virtue will rise and you will get the woman in the end.

You were unconsciously drawn into a competition.

Virtue signalling is the way you present yourself as superior within that system.

Problem

The problem is that White Knight virtue signalling doesn't actually get the girl.

This is a major error for Feminism because if you create a system that promotes certain behavior it needs rewards to keep it going. The Feminist White Knight is never rewarded... in fact in a deep way he is despised by women.

Red Pill creates a new competition. (masculinity)

By understanding how biology operates you can discover how to actually get what you wanted without using the White Knight virtue signalling system.

This is why we are said to be without virtue because within the Feminist mindset they define virtue on their terms.

Red Pill is a virtue in that it reflects reality honestly.

You are also free to choose MGTOW, Plate Spinning, or even LTR or Marriage with Frame, but we suggest you avoid an actual marriage contract if you can because it was rewritten in the 1960's to enable Divorce Rape. (a very ugly situation)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Signalling_theory

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squirrelcuisine · 2015-08-23T02:31:35+00:00

Here is something red pill as hell from when I was a teenager. If you enjoyed Eminem you might love the comedy of this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zmO2UPpb3YY

And welcome..

Sounds like you are becoming a smart consumer. Ive tried to turn 2 of my recently divorced (or almost) friends redpill advice. They wont take it. In fact one of them stopped talking to me. Now he posts pictures of him doing all the feminine shit his wife likes. He just got quiet last week. (I already know what that means.)

Welcome White knight converts

commentatorX · 2015-08-22T14:01:09+00:00

I thought of myself being like the "Captain America" of women.

My man. Sounds retarded but there's actually something to this. Trick is to combine it with a little bit of Loki; thats what women want. The strength, courage and decisiveness of the hero AND the wit, abandon and mystery of the villain.

RPSigmaStigma · 2015-08-22T14:55:12+00:00

Welcome aboard. The comments here are great, and cover most of the things I would have said. The only thing I would add is this:

You're in for a very bumpy ride. You'll go through anger, resentment, excitement, bitterness, liberation, hopelessness, etc, etc. Just ride the waves and learn from each one. But one thing you must do is forgive her. This might seem counter-intuitive, but it's essential to your growth and emotional health. You don't have to accept what she did, or justify it, just forgive. The sooner you can do that, the sooner you can progress past it. It'll be hard, and the resentment will spring up again over and over, you just have to work through it. Don't let yourself become jaded.

Edit: to be clear, when I say forgive her, that doesn't mean you have to try to get her back, nor should you let her back in to your life. You just need to mentally and emotionally get over it.

[deleted] · 2015-08-22T11:02:01+00:00

Greetings. I just wanted to wish you well in your endeavors. It truly is an awesome thing to get started on. I feel like I'm learning to speak a whole new language. One that I've seen 100s of people speak my whole life but that I couldn't decipher. It seemed like magic to me that you could walk up to a girl and be in her pants an hour later. It's transformed the way I looked at the world and I love it.

Lord_shitmeister · 2015-08-22T11:11:28+00:00

"From reading about MGTOW, I found TRP on Reddit and actually rejoiced. I started reading up sidebar content for hours and could not stop... This was the kind of information I was missing all these years."

Hehe same here

rtron36 · 2015-08-22T20:25:05+00:00

April 2015. The catalyst to it all. The events between November 2014-April 2015 have changed my life for the better. As much as I could say I hate that girl I was involved with, I have to thank her for allowing me to find and swallow the red pill.

This is creepy . . . this statement applies exactly to me . . . including the timing. (Well, replace 'November 2014' with 'August 2014', but the rest of the dates are identical). Dated an actual feminist and resent her constantly now, but in a weird way I'm thankful that she was so awful because it pushed me toward TRP. Ha . . . I guess I can say that 'she was the best thing that ever happened to me' after all.

HellbillyDeluxe · 2015-08-22T14:51:02+00:00

I was listening to "Eminem-Superman" on youtube cause that is just what made me feel better at the moment.

"I thought of myself being like the "Captain America" of women"

Rap music is full of tRP knowledge. One of the reasons I love it. Check this track out in regards to your Captain America comment.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dOFYEQ3p7QQ&index=1&list=RDdOFYEQ3p7QQ Captain Save A Ho by E-40 (1993)

DodgedAFew · 2015-08-22T16:01:20+00:00

I thought of myself being like the "Captain America" of women.

Have you seen Captain America: Winter Soldier? I've got news for you pal, not even Captian America can get laid nowadays.

DaphneDK · 2015-08-22T13:28:39+00:00

The first thing you should learn is that it's fucking pointless and that everything will always be terrible.

workdavework · 2015-08-22T14:10:28+00:00

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What is this?

NightwingTRP · 2015-08-22T14:35:03+00:00

I can relate to your story, in my earlier blue pill days I was like this. It almost drove me insane how retarded the behaviour of women seemed. I would frequently ditch women as friends because I felt they were so stupid that they weren't bothering to learn from their mistakes.

Of course, today I know better. It's simply down to AWALT and the cultural impact of freeing women from all responsibility. However, as with women having innate hypergamy, men have an innate programming to fall in love with women and want to protect them. I bring this up because, just as one of the other commenters pointed out - you can slip back to being blue pill again.

You just have to remember that allowing your emotions to take hold and becoming that white knight again because you gave in to that urge to protect women at your own expense... is just as retarded as those women who can't help repeating the same mistakes because of their uncontrolled hypergamy.

Even when you get your attitude right, you need to maintain it. I wrote a series called the TRP Toolkit which covers all basic aspects of how you act in the field. The first part of it covers the right attitude to adopt. Best of luck brother.

akjoltoy · 2015-08-22T15:27:05+00:00

I'm still not sure if I was blue pill to begin with.

I was in a LTR. I've never white knighted or been a pushover or even given an inch to a woman. Relationship ended in flames.

I showed no interest because I lost interest, she cheated, I used it as an excuse to break up. Was happy. Found someone better. I still am my own man and she's changed in almost every way to accommodate me and she's perfectly happy with it because she's not a 3rd wave feminist American bitch. Just old fashioned submissive.

I did get cheated on though (in first LTR). And it did teach me a ton about the psychology and vapidity of women in general. But I never had respect for them to begin with and definitely had an instinctive hatred of white knights from day 1.

So maybe I was purple pill

SComm · 2015-08-22T17:45:32+00:00

A man by the name of Otto Peterson one said about women "They're all cunts, including my Mother & the Virgin Mary". Always remember that & you'll be fine.

antariusz · 2015-08-22T22:35:27+00:00

Yea... I had a similar story, the catalyst that started me down the red pill path occured 3 years ago, when I was 30, dating a 32 year old mother of 3... and SHE DUMPED ME.

I thought there was something wrong with HER. The dissonance in my mind was too great to handle at the time. I had spent my entire life forming myself into the perfect beta. It was only a short time later after finding TRP that I learned that the fault was with myself.

Algernoq · 2015-08-22T22:29:19+00:00

Welcome and good luck.

The world is what it is already. Seeing reality clearly does not change reality. Many (most?) powerful people are already Red Pill but know how to look Blue Pill.

BlackHeart89 · 2015-08-23T05:46:41+00:00

As far as LTR's go, some people just can't hold frame with them. In general, I lack trust. The only way I can do an LTR is to not really give a damn.

I considered going into an LTR with a few chicks recently and the thought of it literally gave me an eerie feeling. The best thing I can relate it to is being very very nervous. Like speaking in front of crowd or approaching a woman for her number when you have approach anxiety.

But for any woman who I intend on dropping, the thought of an LTR doesn't phase me one bit. Its crazy. But it creates a natural frame for me.

Title	White Knight going down the rabbit hole
Author	supersport69
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Date	August 22, 2015 9:05 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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