Is it more likely that there's a well-oiled pussy cartel designed to deny pussy to the bottom 80% of men, thus forcing most men to accept infrequent starfish sex from women who aren't attracted?

Or is it more likely that women are actually attracted to the men they get with, but the couples experiences some hardships that eventually cause the woman to breakup/divorce? These hardships will usually involve fights over money, sex, and housework, with the man wanting to control the money because "he earns it" while the woman just does all the housework and has sex on his schedule.

For the record, I think it's probably the second one.