So I have read the sidebar and the rational male, to bad I got into an LTR before this and to be honest I was not ready for it. I have not developed strong enough frame for a redpill-LTR relationship the way I want it to be, and my LTR is not as submissive as I wish her to be. And to be honest she also has some red flags that I didnt took my time to check.

So this is what happend- I broke up with her telling her that I dont think she add enough to the relationship for it to be worth it (On the phone, we have been in an LTR for about 7 months)- She talked me into having a walk to "talk this out" I actually did this and was arguing alot that it just dont work and "How can you dont see that" arguments from my side

- She was sad/crying and telling me that her school and personal life had took up much energy and that we was spending much time togehter so she didnt have energy to give me as much as I wanted, she put up the idea to try and see each other for about 1-2 times a week to see if she could be able to give more to the relationship and maybe later try to step up or something

Since then she has been better, telling me that she miss me more and stuff like that but... it feels like theere are alot of talking and little action here are 3 big questions

Questions

  1. Who actually controls the Frame right now? Me for be able to "walk away" on her, or her for putting up the idea of the new relationship that include try to see each other 1-2 times a week? I buyed in to this idea becouse we have really been seeing each other every other day and sometimes 4 days a row and I have also felt it was to much...
  2. Becouse of her economic state of the corona virus she is living with her mother for some week/weeks, another city far from here. But it looks like she coming back soon, but the thing is. If she "Miss me" so much and everything. Why dont she just try to study her anyways and figure out the economic situation (she is 25) if she was really that into me it feels like she could have got an extra job or something, lived with a friend, or I dont know. I dont get the "miss you" + "See you in some weeks" together.
  3. We have been calling each other like every 3-4 days or something, I think it is boring if we cant see each other so I dont really see any point to call that often, but today she didnt pick up the phone and wrote me an sms 3 hours later "Sorry I didnt see your call, and I guess you sleeping now, I call you tomorrow kiss". If she "Missed me" that much and cary, woulnt she just call me anyways? I know how girls are supposed to act when they find their Chads and it feels like she is using me for some plan B shit or something.
  4. If she really dont let me walk away on her and break up, and all the miss you, kiss and talk like that. She would be more into me if the talk was legit, can it be so that she is trying to use me for some plan b shit and will give me some light switch effect while she find her real chad or something?

Ok I know that a 25 year old girl is supposed to have a life and it is possible that they dont pick up the phone for natural reasons, but I also know how girls are supposed to act around their real Chads. They dont miss out on calls, and they dont travel to mothers place for 1-2 weeks if they dont really really have to.

So is she using me for a plan B while she screen for a Chad or what is this about?

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