The redpill is many things to different people. At the end of the day I believe everybody here feels that society has taken a path that disadvantages men in many regards, notably in the social sphere of life. While accepting this as truth, it is important to not place the blame for this on women.

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I am going to describe a few things that we, I mean we "humans" not we "men" desire from the opposite gender, evolutionarily.

Sex appeal

Romance

Trust

Children

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That last one is important- and its really the crux that the other 3, and any other desire you can think of, revolves around. We are animals, we evolved to procreate, and we are really good at it. Part of being good at it required forming this man/woman bond thing, so the children we DID have could actually, you know, be nurtured and survive to make kids of their own. Now a lot of people here are saying, "I dont want kids!" I dont either. It doesnt matter. Just because you are able to comprehend the economic and personal impact of having a child in 2020, and choose not to do so, does not mean your brain didnt develop for millions of years with the sole intent of making babies. Luckily we have contraceptives now, and your brain can basically be tricked out of the whole baby thing by busting into a rubber.

So every female and every male (using every loosely here as some people deviate from the overwhelming norm) wants to fuck, and they need (most of them want..) an opposite gender person to do so. The world is roughly split evenly among the 2 genders, so it should all work out peachy

And it did (mostly) for a loooooong time. Really through much of the 20th century there was a clear dynamic between men and women. Man supports and protects woman, woman gives easy sex to man. Simple. Both genders are getting exactly what they need here.

Buuuuut people got really greedy in the 1900's. (rightfully so perhaps) They didnt want to stick with the dynamic anymore. Men with valuable commitment wanted better sex, and women with good sex wanted more valuable commitment. men start leaving their women, and women leave their man too. In the 90's this is okay, both genders are acting somewhat hypergamously. Both genders have value to the other, and both genders are willing to move on from their partner to couple up with a more valuable one.

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the important thing take-a-way from divorce rates increasing throughout the 90's is that some of those marriages had a kid.

The kid will almost always end up with the mom.

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Its the 2000's now, and for 30 years men have been taking a horrible loss behind the curtains. Because see, the only requirement for both genders having value, is both genders actually knowing their value. And for 30 years a large percentage of men are being raised by a single mother.. with no strong father figure. (no a fucking football coach is not a substitute for a full time father)

every boy that falls into that category grows up with a woman provider, a woman as the most important person in their life, a woman constantly telling them how their dad (the villain in the boys life now) is a piece of shit for taking back his commitment and simultaneously lacking a man to tell him all the things his perfect angel mother did wrong, or teach him about what to look out for in a woman, how to be successful, how to be a man, or you know, red-pill him.

These kids turn into beta-males. and there are a LOT of them. Conversely there is no shortage of feminine role models for young girls.

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Its 2020 now and as a gender, men are down so many points in the fourth that they need a miracle. We are now living in a world where a plethora of female role models coupled with an intense and long lasting feminist movement has cemented the female value into every woman-brain. Meanwhile men are now living in a world where most fucking boys know more about the female value than their own male value! Cant blame em, some of em didnt have dads, and most of them that DID have dads were just the betas of the past 30 years that finally got to bust in Susanne after she got too wrinkly for chad dick.

And you wonder why women fuck the same 10% of guys over and over? Because that's the top 10% of guys, and they can. C'mon, all men want to fuck the same 10% of women too. The difference is women have an incredibly high sense of self-worth and even the 5's and 6's will hold out for a chad or at least a chad-lite. Meanwhile men are so desperate and disgusted in themselves that these beta motherfuckers are screwing whatever they can.

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Us as men could do exactly to women what they do to us, only give time to the top 10%. Unfortunately women as a whole are quite solid with their self-worth, where as us men are plagued by a cancer called "beta-orbiters" meaning we effectively cannot institute the same social screenings that women do.

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This is a mans world. Whatever praise or blame you have for it, place it on men. Men are the gender that failed humanity, this isnt a knock, embrace it. Its 2016, your team sucks, and your against Golden State, your down 3-1 already. you could say fuck it, or you could carry the load yourself, like a real alpha.