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Marriage with a red pill woman worth it?

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April 12, 2020

At some point of my life (iam 26m) i would like to get married and have kids, i want to marry 1 time and do it right or not do it at all so my question is: does it work? are the men not afriad of divorce rape? and if it does work how did you meet a red pill women?.

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Title Marriage with a red pill woman worth it?
Author Altaris01
Upvotes 6
Comments 38
Date 12 April 2020 03:52 AM UTC (10 months ago)
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[–]maljo245 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Marriage is way worth it.

If you never want to pay alimony, marry a woman who makes more than you.

If you never want to pay child support, don't have children.

A good relationship is fantastic but takes an effort.

Insecure men are afraid of divorce.

[–]man_in_the_worldRed Beret27 points28 points  (9 children) | Copy

how did you meet a red pill women?

Your question reveals your reactive bluepill mentality. You ask how to find a redpill woman (in whose frame you can operate). RP men operate in their own redpill frame and lead their women to do the same.

RP women are made and maintained, not found.

[–]RicoDunne5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

this reply is your answer. As Rollo says in his blog, you have to set and establish your frame for her to enter. If not you'll have the famous main event in order to get her into your frame. You are at more risk before and during that compared to just having her enter your frame properly at the start.

There are ways to mitigate divorce rape. Divorce court screws the higher earner, so only marry a woman that makes more $$ than you. Family court screws the higher earner and lessor parent, which typically is the man. Once again marry a higher earning woman and be a good father, so if it hits the fan you can get custody (assuming you want it). Alimony depends on the state, so plan on moving to a divorce friendly state.

[–]Chump_No_More4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed. The idea that RP women are easy-mode is absurd. They are quite the opposite.

Regardless of a woman's mindset, you still have to give them a compelling reason to accept and enter your Frame.

[–]RedPillGlasses2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

He’s looking for ways he can vet a red pill woman.

A red pill will draw a lot of female attention, he’s looking to differentiate the trash from the less trash.

[–]man_in_the_worldRed Beret1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

He's looking for ways he can vet a red pill woman.

Why would it be different from vetting any other woman?

[–]RedPillGlasses1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Why wouldn’t it be different from vetting any other woman?


[–]TheBlockedUser0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Your process stay the same regardless. If she was RP, it would just increase her chances of getting picked.

[–]skizzum97Can't Handle The Daddy3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

This. If successful she will welcome the metamorphosis and thank you for being the catalyst for it.

[–]Manesthesist0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Absolutely true, 'though my wife - before I married her - acknowledged many redpill truths before I did.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Red Pill women are just women whom have not been Alpha Widowed yet.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

work how did you meet a red pill women?.

7-11 is your best bet. Hang out there all day until you find your future snowflake

[–]Over60_FireTempered3Red Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Kum & Go is good too... Many snowflakes. High prices and dirty floors... A real mood setter.

[–]dilberryhoundog6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy


  1. Women aren’t red pilled. Most of them already are well versed in sexual strategy.

  2. “Does it work?” For who?

  3. Being monogamously married reduces options and abundance, hence the recommendation not to enter into it. But being afraid of marriage or divorce, you gunna get slaughtered by her bro. Men don’t really do well when they operate out of a frame of fear.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

Women fill the container you provide.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ever the optimist to think a woman could fully handle something I gave her.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fickle web they weave.

[–]jakethesnake50000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Very true

[–]ManguZa2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Depend of you (your attractivity), the woman you choose and how you manage her. It could work and worth it.

[–]RStonePT2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

Define redpilled woman for me so I can laugh at it

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

I think he is asking if earning Red Wings are important.


Yes they are.

[–]RStonePT1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

A rare non ass based comment?

I feel blessed

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I am appalled that my anal training post is not on the sidebar.

[–]Grimsterr-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

It sounds like OP's anus needs some training.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Remember to stay safe, and wash you hands!

[–]stoicstephen1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is this your purpose?

Is your mission in this world to marry and have kids?

[–]IATAsshole0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Why do you want to get married?

Because that's what people do?

People change. After 5-10-15 years the sweet caring sex bomb you married might be an old dry hag. Why would you want to bring a contract into a relationship that is going to fuck you in the ass without lube if it goes belly up?

Because that's the standard? Because the Disney princes' does it and live happily ever after?

I don't understand people who have the goal of getting married. Just trying to understand your reasoning.

[–]Altaris011 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because i want to have kids, having children is something i want to do. And a family structure is the best you can do for your kids.

[–]Balls_Wellington_Main Event + Coronavirus0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Why did Sherlock Holmes want Watson? Watson didn't have his genius. He didn't have his direction. He wasn't even as good in a fight.

Holmes wanted a Watson because having a competent and trusted right hand man is fucking awesome. In a good partnership, the whole is more than the sum of the parts.

If your wife is a talentless, stupid, useless partner...yeah, I don't know why the fuck you'd want to be with her. But a smart, competent woman is the raw material for a partnership that can amplify your own success.

If, of course, you're man enough to lead the way to your vision.

[–]IATAsshole1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

For sure, I'm in a LTR myself. I just don't want to bring a contract into it and she knows that and chooses to be with me anyway.

If she ever leaves because she wants marriage, well then she chose being married over being with me. Simple as that.

[–]johnmic070 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If you want to have kids, then ya getting married makes sense. I love being married and I would definitely do it over again.

However, you can't be afraid of divorce. If you commit to red pill marriage principles you will enjoy marriage much more than if you don't. But it doesn't guarantee you won't get divorced because that is an unpredictable thing. It could happen and you should be prepared to deal with that if it does.

[–]dll1420 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Most women are for lack of a better term "redpill" aware on some level. They naturally fit into a redpill world and respond to redpill men in a positive way.

For example, my wife knows that she doesn't want a needy, supplicating, or submissive man. She may not know why that turns her off or even care why it turns her off, she just knows it's not supposed to be natural masculine behavior and responds negatively toward it with desert dry pussy. Therefore, she is hardwired (like most women) to instinctively live in a redpill world, and happily follows a redpill man. She wants to be in your redpill frame and will love you for that. The fake world exists to fool YOU as a man. Neo feminism has polluted western society and attacked masculinity. We are fools when we buy into it like getting pissed at women for acting like women because we believe something that is a lie and not natural. Anyway, will a marriage succeed??? Maybe... maybe not.... but enabling its failure is up to you as a man. Decide what you want and go get that. Kids and a family are great! I personally love my wife and kids but life is full of obstacles and challenges. A man welcomes and faces challenges.

[–]Praexology0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Marriage never works and there has literally never been a single verifiable instance of it working so give up on it and become gay.

[–]wkndatbernardus1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I mean, I do like butts...

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

But do you like anal?

[–]BootySlayer911-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're a man, look at the stats. Spend your life studying writing creating and die with an 18 yr old HB9 on your jock. Don't get married in America its a racket now

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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