Woman Don't Give A Fuck About A Sensitive Man.

SexyDeviI · 2015-10-22T12:15:14+00:00

Not completely. Women don't like weak, dependent and needy men. "I am so glad you are here to bless me with your presence and give my life a purpose" or "life is so fucked I'm so tired of being strong * starts sobbing on her shoulder *" type of sensitivity certainly is repulsive to women.

But if you're a powerful, stoic, successful leader who is always holding frame, and she catches a glimpse of your teary eye after you watched Ryan finding out about his killed brothers in "Saving Private Ryan" you bet there'll be niagra falls down there.

Do not feed the newbies with the notion that any emotion they feel (including sensitivity) is inherently wrong. Being overcame by it and allowing it to make you weak is what's wrong, but having the capacity for even tender emotion while completely controlling them and remaining powerful and stoic shows the amount of self discipline and control that makes you even more attractive.

It should be clear that "weak man" and a "sensitive man" ain't the same thing.

I completely agree about the rest of the post though. Lifting, caring about yourself, your finances and mission is an everlasting advice that can not be repeated enough. It is however important to take it easy on the hyperbole's because of the newbies (who present the majority of the Red Pill) who are deeply in anger phase devouring all the content of the Red Pill, and who may misinterpret "complete psychopathy is the only answer" from the title and post.

T0000009 · 2015-10-22T15:57:13+00:00

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zandd23 · 2015-10-22T15:51:35+00:00

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DarkuSchneider · 2015-10-22T12:36:25+00:00

If you are going to cry do it in private. Its only really acceptable a the death of a loved one.

At all other times it means you have broken down mentally. Its a weakness to be exploited and attacked.

2015-10-22T13:03:09+00:00

It's simple evolution women need a man for provision and protection. Some whiny beta who cries at the movies does not exactly inspire confidence.

Stokestix · 2015-10-22T10:10:09+00:00

Heh, I can relate to this. The same thing happened to me actually. I was confident and had an IDGAF attitude (but far from RP and didn't even know TRP then) when I met this HB9 (in my eyes, we all know how tastes are different). After the honey moon phase I turned so beta you wouldn't believe. I even made the same mistake and told here the exact same words (how hot she was and I was lucky I got here lol). Well I don't have to tell you what happened next. Never again!

bigeyedbunny · 2015-10-22T10:18:02+00:00

This is very true. Women say they want a sensitive man who can cry, but are actually repulsed by this if they see their man ever crying.

Sensitivity shows weakness, which is a big disadvantage in evolutionary fight for the best genes, and therefore unwelcomed.

_whatcanbe · 2015-10-23T06:06:20+00:00

Lol. Emotions? They don't care about emotions. This is from a personal experience, where I experienced firsthand a girl losing attraction for me once I opened up to her (yes, I know, I made a mistake by opening up. I was hugely inexperienced then...) You have to realise: showing emotions means opening up, which means building comfort. Build too much comfort, and you kill attraction. Happened so many fucking times for me; don't make this mistake please.

__ZEAL__ · 2015-10-22T11:26:16+00:00

A little bit of sensitivity is needed for comfort tests, but other than that it has no place. 80-20, both for fuck friends and LTRs. A roller coaster isn't a roller coaster if it only goes down. That's just a slide.

BannedBandit · 2015-10-22T16:05:01+00:00

They do if he is handsome, strong and desired by other women as well.

Problem is that the men they desire to be sensitive are pretty much mutually exclusive from "sensitive" betas.

darkrood · 2015-10-22T17:02:15+00:00

You don't need to be an emotional stone but just don't ever seek sympathy from a woman. Sympathy + tingles = does not compute and never will. You can only get one and if it's sympathy that pussy will be dry as fuck

Linrraba · 2015-10-22T13:55:49+00:00

You reminded me of a day I was eavesdropping two girls talking about dumping one of their boyfriends. They both laughed because he cried like a little bitch, begging her to reconsider. What strucked me was the fact the girl who dumpped him had a burnt taking almost half of her face. I was like "if she's this mean i wonder how fullly beatiful women are". She was hot but who wants to date with burnt face woman?

aherne18 · 2015-10-22T18:49:32+00:00

Rings so true: whenever I complimented a girl, her repulsion of me increased a million fold. It took me many years to understand what is wrong with this but now I think my message was: "you are such an awesome princess I'm too inferior to do anything but praise from a distance". What I did not understand is that some chad was doing anals on my princesses, unaware of the "value" I gave her:)

Lesson: NEVER consolidate their self-worth, especially when you're not on the receiving end of their likings (which means you afford no mistake)...

2015-10-22T14:39:37+00:00

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arcaneadam · 2015-10-22T17:02:37+00:00

The most attractive things a man can have are confidence and self respect.

And money. Bitches love money.

DoesNotMatterAnymore · 2015-10-22T16:20:39+00:00

I found this link in one of the / r / confessions topic, semi related to this post:

Reasons for no contacts (after a breakup): https://archive.is/gkEPT

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-10-22T18:47:25+00:00

There is a huge difference between life dumping a fuckton of obstacles and pain in your path and being a complete fucking pussy who lets a woman break you for fun. In the case of crybaby LDR: guy the girl thought it was so funny to break him she let her friends in on his crybaby voicemails.

Totally had girls play that kind of shit for me.

mrpCamper · 2015-10-22T21:10:13+00:00

Fuck. I cried like a little girl at the end of Hoosiers. and that scene in Band of Brothers where the little kid was tasting chocolate for the first time. oh man. water works.

Solitary_Wolf · 2015-10-22T23:01:20+00:00

i cried the first time i saw Gladiator and i dont mind admitting it.

tallwheel · 2015-10-23T08:16:51+00:00

Those two memes didn't seem all that beta to me (perhaps cause I am already RP). Seems like the kind of things betas need to see in order to begin the process of waking up. The two memes are like miniature red pills for masses of betas. They should only see this shit enough times in real life to realize something is wrong and come looking for answers.

riverfish7 · 2015-10-23T18:47:00+00:00

While I don't disagree with the bulk of your post, your title is misleading, OP. It should read: "Women Don't Give a Fuck About Soppy Needy Men". I'm going to go against the grain of advice on this subreddit and say that traits that are synonymous with weakness can actually give a player more access to better quality tail. I'm talking about being "nice", "sensitive", "emotional" and "compassionate". This is especially true if you want to keep the girl around for longer (whether she is a plate or LTR).

The problem is that we interpret these qualities differently: a woman's version of "nice" does not equal the man's version of "nice".

2015-10-23T21:28:41+00:00

Putting females on the pedestal was the biggest mistake I made early on in my dating/sex life.

Now, all I need to be happy is a gym, weed, and a steady job. Girlfriends are a fucking hassle and I refuse to let a female catch me with my guard down.

evoLverR · 2015-10-22T13:29:39+00:00

On the other hand, aren't women really doing the whole society a favor here? Whenever a beta get his ass handed to him, he might consider changing his ways and he MAY start on his road to improvement.

If women weren't like that, the society would be FILLED with pussies.

recon_johnny · 2015-10-22T14:35:01+00:00

Do my tears surprise you, sir?

Nah, fuckin' A.

Strong men also cry.

Strong men also cry.

This "men never cry" stuff is fake macho bullshit in my opinion.

Shedding tears over death, or loss, or pain, or even the end of Field of Dreams does not make you less of a man.

Just don't cry over a woman in front of said woman.

Thinkcali · 2015-10-22T17:03:39+00:00

Women are fine with sensitive men. But they must feel/know your life could be better if not the same with or without their companionship. Don't be needy, be a good listener, and remind her she's beautiful. But don't tell her she is better than you.

Title	Woman Don't Give A Fuck About A Sensitive Man.
Author	MeatRocket23
Upvotes	186
Comments	87
Date	October 22, 2015 8:09 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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