Do you guys believe love?

General_Fear · 2019-12-09T05:17:12+00:00

There are 2 question here. Do you believe in love. Then are women basically sluts.

I'll answer the love question. There are 2 theories about love. One is that it's a chemical reaction in the brain. Chemicals are released into the brain and gives people the feeling of falling in love.

The other theory that I have seen is something that Jungian Analysts talk about. Falling in love is a projection. You have good qualities in yourself that you don't see and you project it onto other. When the other person does something that breaks the illusion then the projection is gone. That's when people say something like, "The honeymoon is over."

Falling in love can be explained away. Some say it's chemical. Other say it's psychological. But in the end, it's illusion.

Flashmode1 · 2019-12-09T05:19:04+00:00

Depends on the type of love you are taking about. Do most parents love their children? Of course. You have brotherly love and I would argue that divine love exist.

But, you are likely talking about romantic love. I believe it exist but is very rare. Even if people don’t want to admit it modern marriage is still about money as it always has been. Genuine love is exceedingly rare and I’ve seen a good examples with my grandparents who have been married for 50 years now. I think people often LT mistake lust for love in modern times.

goingmyownway_ghost · 2019-12-09T05:48:50+00:00

nope it's a dopamine, norepinephrine and phenylethylamine we're releasing. Dopamine is thought to be the "pleasure chemical," producing a feeling of bliss.. in other words u we're pussy whipped.

Sekiro78 · 2019-12-09T05:18:33+00:00

It is real but only from your mother (not always though) and from your dog(always).

IceyBear988 · 2019-12-09T12:25:58+00:00

I do believe in love, i love my pets for damn sure. But i made a mistake of loving a woman though.

Starter91 · 2019-12-09T15:46:36+00:00

There is only one love and it's between you and God whoever God is.

Mgtowindia0 · 2019-12-09T05:10:18+00:00

Its not. Here is my theory. In past women knew that men are stronger and more capable of them in regards of survival. They had to invent something that would lower the power of men and divert their minds from this truth hence Love was invented. The things men starting appritiating in a women were copied by every women to enhance this power example shyness , sweet voice , innocence . Love is a trap there is nothing as love and the misery itself is an answer to this question. Had there been love we would had all been harmonic beings.

Insanitystreaked · 2019-12-09T06:38:13+00:00

No I don't believe in love. There may be a few decent women sprinkled in with the billions of horrible ones but I have no intention of wasting my time on them.

Mamsplained · 2019-12-09T06:54:34+00:00

The only true love is between SOME women and their children. Anything else is a manipulation tactic and means to that end.

[deleted] · 2019-12-09T07:07:09+00:00

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no bro. no.

softbeats · 2019-12-09T07:21:28+00:00

I believe in love, totally. Love is interesting because it’s possible to love someone that hates you, doesn’t love you back or maybe doesn’t even know you exist.

The love you generate and give to the person of your affection is real to you if you believe in it.

And if that’s the case (which it is) I’ll just continue to give my love to perfect anime waifus.

21354641654684 · 2019-12-09T07:23:20+00:00

“There is no reciprocity. Men love women. Women love children. Children love hamsters. Hamsters don't love anyone; it is quite hopeless.” ― Alice Thomas Ellis

blacktortoise69 · 2019-12-09T07:35:36+00:00

Love exists. Just not the romantic type of love perpetuated in the mainstream. Disney love? False.

I love my dog, I love my parents. Women I date? No. I like how they look and I like having sex with them. They like my confidence, drive, money, and things I do for them.

Tldr: romantic love is a sham, people only love you for what you can do for them, sometimes family loves you unconditionally.

Woolyshark · 2019-12-09T08:00:20+00:00

Many people tend to think that the chemical reaction of lust is love. This is not love. This is your animal nature telling you to reproduce based on genetics.

Love is a choice, the conscious decision to have someone involved in your live and be involved in theirs. You choose to love or not to love.

Love yourself.

kayfab · 2019-12-09T08:08:00+00:00

25 you better start reading about the red pill brother, because love is the biggest myth ever, look around you and tell me how many couples you know are still together there is a great chance that 99,9% of all are separated.

For a man to have any kind of happiness in life he must go is own way..... and stop chasing women.

Once you realize that no women will never make you happy your set 4 life.

GrisBosque · 2019-12-09T08:49:37+00:00

Love is your own brain going hormonally insane.

So you can be used to spawn....

Salmon just love beating themselves to death on the rocks in rivers and streams to do the same thing....

In humans, we just survive the beating longer.

BadWardrobe · 2019-12-09T09:15:19+00:00

Rollo Tomassi's articles on love are very insightful if you haven't already read them.

https://medium.com/@RationalMale/men-in-love-a898dd127a65

[deleted] · 2019-12-09T10:03:28+00:00

I found out that the only girl I have ever felt anything close to love for is basically a gold digger and only cares about money.

Well good. You've learned one of the most important things in life is that there are two types of love. Conditional love like gold diggers and unconditional love like what you actually want. Now you just need to realize that dogs give unconditional love and women always give conditional love.

Most marriages end in divorce. Divorce is the end result of conditional love. Literally, "I only want to be with you under such and such conditions, otherwise I don't." the weddings vows don't mean jack shit in a world of no-fault divorce.

Also, it's very important to understand that as a man you will highly value things like loyalty, respect, dedication, honor, and so on. That's a natural part of your biology that women do not have. The second she finds better opportunities, she is out of there.

Women, by an overwhelming majority, are the ones that file for the divorce.

As a man, you work hard to generate long lasting wealth and success for yourself which will naturally attract women. Since it's a lot of work, it's biology that a man would not keep a woman around that is not loyal or does not treat him with respect because she would just be a leech. Men don't like leeches. They drain resources, take advantage of your many years of very hard work, and so on.

Women naturally are very good leeches and like to keep male friends around to leech off of. Sometimes it's just about the tinder dates just so they leech a free meal. Sometimes it's just about keeping men around so that they get that confidence boost, ego boost, and social status from other women when they have so many men around available to them to leech off of. Sometimes they leech off of your happiness and use it to cheer themselves up. Sometimes they leech off of your wealth to enrich themselves. Sometimes they leech off of your confidence so that they can have confidence too. Sometimes they leech off of your humor so that they can have fun and laugh too. In any case, she's gaining something for having men around but the men don't get any benefit if she's not exclusive.

So if a woman is leeching off of you, she better be providing something in return, or you'll naturally want to get rid of her. Don't be a sucker. Don't give any women your very valuable time, attention, or money, if she's not loyal or respectful to you.

Understand that very desirable things have very large price tags. Whether that's the latest iphone or the hottest women at school/work. Whether you pay that price with cash, or you pay that price with your own sanity, or you pay that price with many many hours of dedication and hard work, writing poems or love notes or "woo-ing" her or whatever, there is always a price to be paid. The only difference is the currency involved. You could have spent those hours of your time working a job and getting cash, or you could spend those hours of your time in front of a desk writing all sorts of poems, love notes, drawings or whatever else. Or, worse of all, you spend those hours being dragged around by her on endless shopping trips or other places that you never wanted to go. Next time you go outside, look for the unhappy husbands being dragged around by their wives for hour after hour. That is the only price that they can pay now, because their wives have already drained them of all their money, confidence, happiness, self respect, and everything else.

Congrats on completing your introductory course on being a real man.

r8001 · 2019-12-09T12:39:45+00:00

Love is a chemical reaction that forces our brain to shut down and makes us do things that we're later going to regret, all with the single aim of multiplying. Do I believe it's real? Sure. Almost caught it myself couple of times. Thankfully it just went away after a few days, like a common cold. But it's dangerous and honestly we should never allow it to creep in our hearts. Alas, it's not always possible.

TheBrokenSigil · 2019-12-09T13:18:53+00:00

I wholeheartedly believe in love. I have deep respect and love for my mother and father as well as my sister, niece, and nephew.

I believe love has been distorted by advertisers in order to make money. love is not love without a diamond, marriage is not a union, it's an event.

everything love is has been turned into a cash cow. they took your love away and they are selling it back to you with a purchase.

AliceGaveMeTheHerp · 2019-12-09T14:07:41+00:00

Only betwee man and dog. I would even go as far as to say that women love their children much more conditionally than a man will love his dog

FewActinomycetaceae0 · 2019-12-09T15:04:33+00:00

All Love is unrequited - Commander - Babylon 5

mightymigtow · 2019-12-09T15:51:40+00:00

Take a look at this video.

To me, it is a very accurate description of Love & Friendship.

https://youtu.be/AFlZJ0dqZ-w

Mythrobo · 2019-12-09T19:32:03+00:00

I do. Thousands of years ago it may have existed. There is spiritual evidence of it and sadly AWALT happened because of todays society. If all this shit just stopped and if women were raised to not be spiteful, and if men were raised to not be so violent it would be so much better.

Love exists, but for earth sadly love has left this planet long ago

KazuyaAmon · 2019-12-10T01:54:54+00:00

What is love?

tw-1234a · 2019-12-10T12:55:53+00:00

A man's love is different than a women's love. Their love is based on what they get out of the relationship.

[deleted] · 2019-12-09T10:17:35+00:00

Love is real, but it’s not what people think it is. Love is not a feeling. Love is the Universal energy that people refer to as “GOD”. The loneliness that you feel is your lack of connection to our eternal creator. Without this Relationship, no relationship will ever work. Women are not capable of that connection, but men are. We are the bridge between the spiritual and the natural. We are responsible for how this whole thing works out. If we don’t lead in this regard we will continue to have the shit we are dealing with now. The devil is real and The only games he plays are sex,drugs and rock and roll. First came rock and roll In the fifties, then came drug culture of the sixties, then sexual revolution of the 70’s. Go back to Sumer, Babylon, Egypt, Greece, and the current Roman Empire that continues today. It’s all the same game. It never changes. Just the characters playing the game. This division between men and women is intentional. The further we divide the further we go into hell.

frabgas27 · 2019-12-09T10:59:42+00:00

I only believe in the 'love' that exists between men that have fought together in war/battlefield. Literal, blood, sweat and tears have formed these men into the closest of friends and they exhibit the ultimate level of love.

Title	Do you guys believe love?
Author	Bubbly-Meringue
Upvotes	16
Comments	42
Date	December 9, 2019 5:05 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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