The Guardian: Sahara Desert dry loins edition

2015-12-18T21:56:08+00:00

"Divorce is very frowned upon in our social community, but I can’t imagine spending the rest of my life with somebody who I view as a brother. "

This is the money quote, right here.

She's posing the question because she wants to cheat, but can't find a way to square her desires with the prevailing social mores .

Insofar as the Beta is concerned: ashes to ashes, dust to dust.

Whisper · 2015-12-19T04:18:04+00:00

She very helpfully lists what he did wrong:

He is a hard worker
a good father
a loving husband
we share similar tastes
He is no chauvinist
and always treats me as an equal when it comes to housework and money.

Here's what to do to keep your wife passionate:

Make her do most of the work at everything but your job
Make her do most of the parenting
dread game
have your own hobbies and often ignore her to pursue them
Be a chauvinist
treat her like an inferior
make her do the housework
control the money

or, if you haven't already screwed up your life:

don't get married, dumbass.

2015-12-19T00:37:22+00:00

'we are in our early 30s and I still feel young' HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA AHHH AHAHAHAH

Jeems21 · 2015-12-18T22:16:39+00:00

Thanks for sharing, women will do crazy things if they don't have the "feels".

I'm betting she divorces the husband and goes to "explore herself" for awhile, screwing up the kids and the husband in the process. If you ever get curious, read the book "Wild Oats Project" sometime and you'll see what "bored" women do once they decide beta bucks isn't performing in the bedroom.

Also, the husband got himself into this mess, but the kids are not at fault here. I always feel really terrible for the kids in these situations.

BrunoOh · 2015-12-18T22:37:45+00:00

Can you blame her? She can't negotiate her own desire.

Dicksajanitor · 2015-12-19T00:54:25+00:00

You know the Guardian make these things up, right? I know someone that does it for them.

MattyAnon · 2015-12-18T23:18:11+00:00

Feel free to criticize my writing

Oh we don't need your permission...

But seriously... the writing is fine, but do provide a summary introduction and a conclusion and as this is a link, a synopsis of the article you're linking to.

niceguy_gone_cad · 2015-12-19T10:49:32+00:00

Remove cash and prices from divorce and suddenly a lot of wifes will be less eager to leave their "brotherly" husband to bang the chad next door.

2015-12-19T19:51:54+00:00

"It is worrying that you have addressed the issue with your husband, and his reaction prevented you from mentioning it ever again for six years. Instead you are expected to just deny your feelings and make everyone else happy, your husband, children and community. I personally am of the opinion that if someone loves you they are interested in your happiness, and your husband does not sound like he is, or at least not at the expense of himself feeling good about himself. A good marriage should work for both people, and if you have been unhappy for six years at least, and have not been given the opportunity once in those six years to address and work out the issue, then something is seriously wrong. I personally would figure out exactly what I would be prepared to do, and address the situation and then suffer the consequences. On an (important) side note: knowing that you have caused lifelong unhappiness is not a nice thing to know and carry as a child, especially when they reach adulthood and grasp this fact. And if you're husband is truly wonderful he would help to work out a happy family life even in divorce."

this is one of the top comments

Notice how he is a bastard for making her live this awful life.

Sdom1 · 2015-12-19T19:05:29+00:00

WOW, the comments in that thread are hilarious. It brings back the quote from "As Good As It Gets:"

How do you write women so well?

I think of a man, and then I take away reason and accountability.

ReasonFreak · 2015-12-19T15:13:20+00:00

I always find reading these sorts of things to be tremendously gratifying. For all of the Nice Guy bashing the feminists love to do that's exactly the kind of man most women will end up marrying. It's not as though any significant amount of them can con an Alpha into marriage. It's worth remembering that even the most obnoxiously proud Strong Independent Woman TM is almost certainly just a sad wreck of a human being at her core.

Jaded_to_an_Edge · 2015-12-19T17:51:06+00:00

I find it interesting how the author admits that she lost the feels years ago, mentions it once, sees the visceral reaction, then "We went on to have two children as I felt I should just get on with life." She knew things were not on a stable track, and just continues to bumble forward with no communication, plan, or concern for the family she probably should not have created

tb87670 · 2015-12-18T22:01:48+00:00

This is a reminder to anyone copping a feel, you are walking on thin ice. Check yourself before you wreck yourself.

What's the meaning behind this? A guy copping a feel isn't going to wreck himself in any way, he's not walking on thin ice unless he's been threatened with violence for touching said woman and even then an Alpha still has advantage over a limp beta.

Title	The Guardian: Sahara Desert dry loins edition
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Date	December 18, 2015 9:41 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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