What the hell do I do?

cryptotim70726 · 2019-10-28T22:56:17+00:00

It's a scam to get money. Don't fall for it. Let her husband know, anonymously, that she's been cheating and she may be pregnant. Why should he suffer for her infidelity? Ghost her. I hope she doesn't know your name or where you live. If she has the child, sue her, not in family court, to force a DNA test. She created this problem. Let her deal with the consequences. Always wrap up your dick, and take make sure the condom is properly flushed down the toilet when done.

DangZagnut · 2019-10-28T22:48:27+00:00

Do nothing. If she's married I doubt she'll come after you for child support.

It's not your child, its hers. So next time use protection.

monkensteinxstupido · 2019-10-29T09:20:47+00:00

This is all a headgame (and not the good kind). You are being manipulated. GHOST is the best answer. If you can live with it.

Questions to ask yourself - Are you her only SIDE LOVER? Is it even YOUR child? Or are you under the SERIOUSLY STUPID impression that..

She was "Loyally" "cheating on her husband" with only 1 guy? And that guy was you?

If you actually honestly utter the words, "I think she was only cheating with me" You deserve to get your balls beat by baboons wielding wiffle bats for at least 30 minutes straight, take a smoke break, and then come back for another 30 minute session.

If you can't live with it, the the SECOND OPTION is to GET ALL THE ANSWERS so you can be at peace and set the stage for the WOMAN TO RUN AWAY ON HER OWN.

STOP HAVING EMOTIONS RIGHT NOW. Why?

Because right now, All you have is a PHONE CALL from some OTHER WOMAN whom you DID NOT GET PREGNANT WHO COULD BE TELLING YOU LIES. Women play headgames, lots of them. She might be using her friend to gauge your reaction to find out if you would take her and all 3 of her babies. You know, that new one that isn't even YOURS, its from the OTHER guys she's having an affair with too.

Invest emotion ONLY in the truth. Here's How you find out the truth AND get HER to leave the situation (if you must).

GO to her. BRING YOUR OWN PREGNANCY TESTS. Ask her to Pee (I bought 3 of my own, and barged in her house and camped in the bathroom with her and stared at her urine stream to make sure the pee was legit) Find out right then, nip it in the BUD.
If she flakes or DECLINES TO PEE>She's lying and straight gaslighting/manipulating you. Either way you do move 3.
Tell her YOU want nothing to do with the baby unless SHE GETS A DNA TEST WHEN ITS BORN. You don't want to hear about it , know about it, etc. If she DOES NOT PEE, HER BULLSHIT ISN'T FOR THEE!
Last (Nail in the coffin) Say you DO NOT want anything to do with this baby whether it lives or SHE KILLS IT - and THAT YOU WILL NOT be taking in her and her 2 kids from her current husband as she is a filthy liar. BUT YOU ARE A MAN, SO YOU ARE GOING TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT FOR YOUR KID. The check will be on time, she'll never have to come looking for her court appointed check. BUUT. You want nothing to do with that child, and her ever again. No visitation, no pictures, no phone calls, NOTHING. You will wave all rights, send money, and SHE WILL GET THE WALL OF SILENCE FORM YOU FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE.

Now, you may not be this mean, and you may want something totally different, but I told you to do all this for a reason.

WOMEN LOVE TO TORTURE, MANIPULATE, ABUSE, AND CONTROL MEN, - ESPECIALLY with something they care about - Something like BABIES.

When this evil demon of a woman realizes that she's got the ULTIMATE TRAP SPRUNG -18 years of torturing and making a man miserable, and you take it all away by saying, "that's fine, keep the baby, I'll mail a check, but I never wanna see it or you again"

Her jaw will drop and her fangs will sag like somebody shit in her oatmeal. WHY?

You will be denying a woman THE ONE THING THEY WANT THE MOST - POWER - power to torture. And right there you are removing her power and DECIDING WHAT YOU WILL DO FOR YOURSELF IN THE SITUATION.

Women EXPECT every man they choose (or should I say MARK they choose) for this pregnancy BS to be a Captain Save A HO. Throw her and her Games off By NOT BEING ONE.

What do women do when you beat them at their own game? They throw a tantrum and THEN THEY QUIT THE GAME. Because they don't like losing. Here she was all fixed to torture you for years to gone and milk you dry, and you just told her NO. Now what does she have left?

SHE ALONE has to raise ANOTHER BABY, ALONE, 18 years, 1-3 Years of sleepless nights, countless time and money and sleep loss, ALL CAUSE SHE TRIED TO TRAP YOU.

Once she learns that her plans to take the kids and JUMP SHIP TO YOU ARE ALL GONE AND IF she really is pregnant, She is gonna be stuck raising a 3rd baby alone because her husband is going to leave...

She is gonna NOPE right out of that. SHE DOES NOT WANT TO GET CAUGHT IN HER OWN TRAP.

So your gonna find out, or you gonna get a phone call that "it was a false alarm" and it's magically all over , OR MY PERSONAL FAVORITE "she had a miscarriage at work, or while home doing some Yoga, and SHE Couldn't tell anybody, it was so horrible, TM"

Either way you're out and your mind, conscious is clear.

STOP BEING CAPTAIN SAVE A HO. I ALSO NEED YOU TO CALM DOWN, and Put on a new Superhero costume. Please DON THE MANTLE OF...

Captain "Stop being emotional over a fictitious baby and get proof if you need it, and then take my advice Man and get gone"

Harden your heart and make yourself immune/nonreactive to EVERYTHING She says. Make it a game. Show emotion and you lose. The little Drama Gremlin inside her will GIVE UP, GET PISSED, and run away rather than lose at its own game. All the better for you.

I haven't even stopped to address the Can of worms that her being married presents. Keep all your proof in texts and get ready to email them to the hubby for when the other shoe drops. It may be enough leverage to keep you from getting shot AND set you free.

50% Chance she ain't pregnant. The fake abortion racket is a favorite scam for broke hoes. They stir up some drama AND they get to pocket the fake abortion cash. AND if they're really a shitbag, they'll bring up the fake abortion later in arguments to STIR more drama and cause you more emotional pain about something that never happened in the first place while they TRY not to laugh inside. Think about tailoring what I wrote to your situation and if you get backed into a corner, give it a try. It works.

Sauce: ME - I did this in my 40's with a 28 year old.

She wasn't pregnant, and I never seen somebody LEAVE my life so fast.

Wardedbilledanteater · 2019-10-28T23:09:38+00:00

Most likely they are fucking with you. Ghost the bitch

red_matrix · 2019-10-28T23:23:04+00:00

Do nothing.

expendablekerosene · 2019-10-29T00:31:44+00:00

Fecking hell, it's the Kobayashi Maru. There's no way to win.

Do you want to raise a kid?

icbint · 2019-10-29T02:27:05+00:00

Wise up son

hugaddiction · 2019-10-29T06:34:09+00:00

Wether she is lying or telling the truth you will never know, but the result is that she is manipulating you either way. You have no say in her keeping the baby, disengagement and make better choices going forward. Don’t trust a women to not accuse you of getting her pregnant if your having unprotected sex and she needs leverage. It’s a weak position to put yourself in and I’m sure you don’t want to go through this again.

omg_ppl_are_stupid · 2019-10-30T01:23:12+00:00

First off..... STOP FUCKING WITHOUT A CONDOM YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!! Second off!!!! There's nothing you can do if she wants an abortion, your a man and you have no rights. Third, let her have the abortion............. and then sever all ties with her........... AND STOP FUCKING!

Title	What the hell do I do?
Author	Sloppy2ndseater
Upvotes	13
Comments	21
Date	October 28, 2019 10:39 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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