Getting past the Rage

2stepp · 2019-10-05T05:39:01+00:00

If you really want practical advice,

~Reduce your masturbation sessions to once every 3-5 days.

~Exercise hard. Daily cardio of 20-30 minutes will steady your heart rate, flush toxins, and flood your body with natural feel-good chemicals.

~Abandon the notion that you need to be a Dad, Husband, Lover, Simp to be a Man.

~View women as only good for fucking until their behavior changes at an institutional level. I promise you that's exactly how they view you.

I challenge you to take on the truth about female nature, to go your own way, and to be fucking happy about it.

Seriously though, physical exertion IS meditative. If you are having anger/anxiety issues you need to move your body and quiet your thoughts. Your head belongs to you, bro. Your thoughts... Don't let anybody live rent-free in your head, and don't let yourself/unchecked thoughts be the reason that you can't find peace and happiness.

Control your brain. Control your body. Learn to be happy with yourself, truly. Establish meaningful goals that have nothing to do with the fairer sex. Enjoy your life.

You will feel so much better.

Diogeneplz1 · 2019-10-05T05:16:37+00:00

Accept it and actively work in defusing the rage rather than feeding it. You see a post that pisses you off, check your mood and start letting it go rather than embracing it. This world is yours for the taking now. We have the greatest opportunity if the history of man. Life is easy as fuck now and women being cunty is peanuts compared to genocide, starvation, etc. it’s okay to be mad but it’s better to be indifferent and so your losing your anger for yourself rather than forgiving manginas and bitches. Start making everything about you and anything you do for others is cause you want to or have to.

_crimson__ · 2019-10-05T04:48:32+00:00

Start with yourself then. What do you really value, what recharges you? If you don’t know then make it your mission to find out. Then how can you make those things into your focus and what drives you? People come and go but you can make a good life by focusing on your own ideals and bit by bit becoming more of the man you want to be. It’s a lifelong process.

SelfHatingNiglet · 2019-10-05T05:08:46+00:00

Do the things you enjoy

Be grateful you figured mgtow out before being enslaved to some woman. Most western men don't find out until they're trapped in a marriage they hate so they can be a dad to their kids

Detox from sjw media. Action movies, westerns, hard scifi,

BlackPillPusher · 2019-10-05T06:51:14+00:00

To be honest being angry about injustice is a perfectly valid response as far as I'm concerned, as for the rest, well, you get used to it over the years, it's like coming out of a cult, you need some time for your psychologycal state and lifestyle to adapt.

And get a dog, these are so good, helped me deal with military PTSD and made me a much better version of myself.

Krazyrobus · 2019-10-05T05:53:10+00:00

Yup, you get past the rage when you realise it's not worth getting mad at things you don't control. If you can't change something, then let it go.

TravelingMGTOW · 2019-10-05T04:36:37+00:00

It mostly amuses me at this point. I don't really feel anger. There are a lot of severe things in the world to get pissed at, and female behavior really isn't at the top of the list.

MeGoingTOWin · 2019-10-05T05:01:24+00:00

Dont hate the players, hate the game! In other words your eyes are now open and revel in your new and clear thoughts. You have close a chapter in your life, now its time to write the rest of the triumphant story!

[deleted] · 2019-10-05T06:11:30+00:00

Education and what you can train yourself to build- that's the anti lie. Look at the retards on their phones all around you- men and women. What do they actually produce? Nothing. Most are wasters. Channel that rage you have into learning new things, learning how to create and build. It will make you a rarity and, when you look in the mirror, you will respect the badass staring back at you.

antischool_ · 2019-10-05T06:17:44+00:00

your conclusions are correct you cannot even trust your closest friends

however true happiness comes from within, not money.

find what you love and do it often... ive been going to the beach to decompress 2-3 times a week. something as little as that does wonders

DinDoNuffin182 · 2019-10-05T10:03:22+00:00

Build something. That red pill rage is masculine energy just waiting to be transmitted into something.

I focused my red pill rage into growing Marijuana plants. Fast forward nine months towards my first harvest, thats when I realized the power and potential of MGTOW. I was learning on my own about how to grow and maintain Marijuana on my own terms.

I wasnt spending money to buy material possessions so I can get laid. I was spending money on chemistry equipment because I wanted to balance the PH, and other acidic levels for my plants.

The red pill rage is a once in a lifetime energy that can open a whole lot of potential for a man such as yourself. Its a blessing in disguise depending on how you want to look at it.

801735 · 2019-10-05T06:50:08+00:00

What do you enjoy doing/consuming in your life? Do/consume more of that? Do/consume less of stuff that pisses you off?

transcis · 2019-10-05T08:06:14+00:00

Your observation is mostly correct. Everything does boil down to money. Trust must always be earned and no one can possibly earn a 100% of your trust. Your dream of becoming a good dad will have to wait until you can create a situation where a woman's betrayal will not hurt your dream.

[deleted] · 2019-10-05T12:01:53+00:00

You are still in this fighting mindset. You want to change the world, you want to be a hero. The one that sacrifices himself for the "greater" good.

You now have hit the indestructible wall called reality. It is time for you to understand that there is no greater good.

An example that pissed me off so much: Even if you sacrifice yourself a 1000 times for a woman, she will still be dating another bloke in less than 3 months after your death. And a good chance she will be angry at you for dying.

Stop being the hero man, stop sacrificing yourself for society that doesn't give a fuck about you anyway.

There is a nice comfy chair next to me, have some of my popcorn and enjoy the clown show that is unfolding in front of us. It is time for you to let go. Just let it go, man. Focus on yourself. Be the best YOU that you can be.

[deleted] · 2019-10-05T05:06:15+00:00

You can rage only when you expect other's to behave, lose that expectation, and half the battle is won. The other half is won by lifting weights.

VlogIt · 2019-10-05T10:16:28+00:00

Relationships, society, health and medical advice from major institutions, school, your knowledge of historical events, governments, banking, etc.

Everything you believe is a lie. You have been indoctrinated.

roflcopt0rz_returns · 2019-10-05T10:26:17+00:00

Watch MGTOW videos, some like turd flinging monkey will go over many MGTOW topics, one of which is getting over the "red pill rage" which is what you're going through right now. (link here) These guys will give far better advice than anything I could give you.

Think of this like the Kluber ross Grief Cycle. Right now you're in the rage phase (obviously).

user_miki · 2019-10-05T10:35:01+00:00

Start think more on you than the others.What you like what you want to do with your life.Make yourself full and happy with you.

You should reach at at a level that living alone in the middle of the forest or in the center of a big city should be equal to you.A more Zen living style.

Not going away from social interaction with people but GYOW away from emotional attachment or charge.

IterantImprovement · 2019-10-05T12:32:23+00:00

How have you successfully gotten past the Red Pill rage?

I too found my rage growing and growing. I had kicked the ex to the curb, but a year later I found that I was more angry than I had been at the time when I ended the relationship. I ultimately found that I was extreme mad at myself for allowing what had happened to me and ashamed that I had believed in the pretty dream of it all rather than trusting my instincts when I knew better. I had to forgive myself.

That was the key to letting go of my growing anger. That was two years ago and things are continuing to get much better.

NAILmg42 · 2019-10-05T16:04:41+00:00

You haven't full self actualised yet because your clearly still waiting to resolve hope. Notice how you didn't have any mention of a stoic position or outlook as being dominant? Your not there yet. Perhaps you are smart enough to see through Validation. But hope still poisons your escape journey to freedom and bliss.

One mgtow two months ago asked as you have and I told him to read my post two months back called Psychological Origins of Male Mother Need. He said it helped a lot.

Usually, countless red pills are swallowed and the philosophical depth and origin of a mgtow philosophy are quite often not swallowed or encountered. I think this is you. Go read my post. I'm not smart enough to know how to link it here for you.

anubhav23 · 2019-10-05T17:52:24+00:00

Practice nofap first of all. Second, you can still be a dad. Maybe adopt a kid. Third, your friends have life too, maybe you should reach out and make new friends or if not interested in that, then just enjoy your own company in nature.

carbonblob · 2019-10-05T19:35:52+00:00

Just be happy that you've realized some things now that most people haven't and never will.

You're in the top 5 % of the world's wealth, so be thankful.

You can now fine-tune your situation to be whatever you want it to be.

Chakra_Devourer · 2019-10-05T19:36:20+00:00

You best sink your free time into a hobby that makes you happy. It could be working out, gaming, learning how to play a musical instrument and etc.

You are correct. A lot of things boil down to money!

jd46249 · 2019-10-05T06:54:05+00:00

You are expecting and depending way too much from people and putting them on pedestals. People aren’t perfect and neither are you. People don’t “call you back”? Seriously?? People got shit to do and are busy. Get other friends if you must. Stop begging for attention.

Title	Getting past the Rage
Author	bouldurer
Upvotes	79
Comments	33
Date	October 5, 2019 4:29 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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