We're living in hypercompetitive times - being average doesn't cut it anymore

theultimatewarriors · 2017-02-26T03:16:44+00:00

No, just stop basing your expectations based off of the internet, and base it solely on your own experience and successes. The key is then you focus only on action, and each failure isn't you not living up to "the top 20%", it's just another dumb girl who's in her head, or who's friendly and just doesn't want to sleep with you or whatever your goal is. You decide your goal, and then you become the expert at it. If you compare yourself to someone else on the internet, that's literally not you, that's literally not your environment or your body or your situation, what "top20%" would they be? They're #1 for their life. If you know someone doing awesome in your friends group, that's different. Figure out what they do, become friends with them, follow what they do and be a man and do it better. Success makes for laziness, that's the secret. All the "top" are only experiencing their moment of fortune, that's it, and they can be outdone.

Listen dude, the key isn't that women are actually out there rating guys like guys rate women. There's women out there literally trying to get guys to notice them, that's how having a hidden ovulation works, they don't even always know when they want attention, but they'll enjoy it when it happens.

There's no rating system, there's only your goal. There's no "top 20%", there's only your goal. If things are hypercompetitive, then that means you copied someone else's goals and made them your own, AND you put their life above yours. If it was a woman, you'd understand someone calling that "oneitis", but it's tricky because people won't admit they all do it, because to some extent that's necessary for dreaming. But you have to define exactly your goal, not copy other people's goals, and it should be based on the territory you're in, not based off the internet or social media shit that people post about #winning. Go where the resources are and the competitors aren't and get the easy wins, or go where the competitors are and copy the best and get the big wins, those are two great places to start in anything you go into. There's no ratings of judgement, there's only fortune, and we know who it favors.

stonepimpletilists · 2017-02-25T22:00:32+00:00

chances are you'll find it ever harder to compete when you're 30+.

Men in their 30's have a higher SMV than men in their 20's.

bossplayaintraining · 2017-02-25T22:21:10+00:00

Top 20% is an understatement. More like top 10%

Swole_is_life · 2017-02-26T06:14:58+00:00

being average doesn't cut it.

Good thing being pretty damn far above average is incredibly easy right now. "Average" in our current society is basically Homer Simpson. You're in the top 30% just by not being a fatass.

There has never been an easier time to be a top tier man, because the competition is downright pathetic.

stonepimpletilists · 2017-02-25T22:12:12+00:00

bite size version of the sidebar.

Pretty low effort, flesh it out better

Need2LickMuff · 2017-02-26T00:20:30+00:00

Lay Down and Rot

CallMeHaseo · 2017-02-26T03:54:29+00:00

I just want to live a good stable life with a good supply of pussy at my disposal... So much work I swear... sigh😔

Ovadox · 2017-02-26T19:08:15+00:00

This post is below average. I've definitely seen this topic covered many times before and they did a much better job. Have some respect for the time of the people visiting this sub and try harder before you post again.

Cynewald · 2017-02-27T11:54:06+00:00

If the Red Pill and other relationship forums are to be believed, there is intense intra-male competition for non-obese women. Intense. From my life experiences living in bumbfuck small-minded towns littered with fat people, this is 100% true. A guy has to be in the top 35% of guys at least to get even an ugly girl who's got a small bum. The bar has been risen for male outright all over (face, height, build, hair) attractiveness, and lowered for female (facial-) attractiveness. When skinny girls that have 3/10 faces tell 5/10 normal looking guys to sling their hook, you know somethings up.

goldnhorde · 2017-02-27T18:52:41+00:00

not concerned .....

.... considering how far the bar for "excellence" and "good work" has been moved down. I do not work in a young man's field or maybe I have just been lucky enough to work somewhere that actually qualifies their hires and hangs their hats on proven experience. The few times I have had to work with the 25 and younger crowd, I jump at it. They never fail to make me look like Superman.

SCOWLER_58 · 2017-02-28T02:41:17+00:00

Honestly, there has to be a Breaking Point in your model. The more competitive it gets, the higher the Burnout Rate, thus if you are correct, the System naturally cannot sustain itself much longer...

clonazepam123 · 2017-03-01T04:46:58+00:00

The only person you have to compete against is yourself.

MomentumRising · 2017-02-25T22:52:57+00:00

Don't confuse soft men with hard time

We are living in a soft time with soft men

Title	We're living in hypercompetitive times - being average doesn't cut it anymore
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Date	February 25, 2017 9:50 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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