"Behind every beautiful woman, there's a guy who's tired of fucking her"
Happened to me with a few of my exes - a few of them I broke up with, the others - "slow fade".
Every time I slowly faded, the woman would usually bombard my phone with texts, calls, video messages of herself crying "please just say something, tell me you hate me, anything!".
I'm not proud of it. The women I faded on, were usually those who I couldn't care less about, they were "rebounds" or ONS who fell into my arms fully knowingly of what was bound to happen.
I'd like to point out to an article that I found online-
http://www.xojane.com/sex/do-this-dont-abandon-the-slow-fade-meant-to-spare-my-feelings
Everything written there makes perfect sense - except that it fails to address the fact that women do it too, a lot!
I can honestly count on one hand the number of women who ended a relationship with me. All the rest - "disappeared". They stopped replying at some point.
I'm no "Chad", I don't really have the time nor will power to chase tail all the time. If she's hot and the sex is good - I'm fine with being exclusive (LTR).
I don't call myself a sex god but I'm fairly good at it. I can last a while before climaxing and I go down on them every single time until they orgasm before I penetrate, so they have at least one or two orgasms per session.
I've had more cases than I care to admit that the girl disappeared on me either after the first time we had sex, or after a couple of weeks. There's no pattern on this thing since I've also had a few LTRs so it's nothing in particular that I do bad.
I found this to be true with girls who "craved" me, almost tearing my pants off as we were making out - the sex was great, but as soon as I started hinting towards our next meeting - they flaked.
Story time, you can skip it if you want. I can vividly remember one girl in particular who was a stereotypical JAP (I am Jewish as well), who I met online, talked to on the phone and we set up a meeting the very same day.
I took her to a cheap motel and was inside of her about 60 minutes into our first meeting IRL. She had a bombshell of a body, big natural boobs and a cute face. The sex was very good, she gave one of the best BJs I've ever received, and she cried at the end ("I don't know why I'm crying, this never happened to me, I'm sorry") - ahh, orgasm tears, love it.
After our meeting, I tried to keep contact with her but it felt like she was flaking on me. I stopped texting her after about 2 weeks and never heard from her ever since. No explanation, no reasoning whatsoever - she just faded away.
This was just one girl, a similar thing happened to me with countless of other girls.
So, women beg to stop the "slow fade", however have no problem doing it themselves.
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