Embrace life - how to be "Alpha"

fstrizzy · 2017-03-25T19:45:18+00:00

Alpha is SUCH a bullshit term. It's completely irrelevant. You can be as jacked as Arnold and if you have a Bitch-like mindset you ain't gonna be shit. There's tons of dudes out there who slay all the time and they don't lift or do any of that shit. It's because they embrace who they are. They love life and they love themselves. That is the ultimate key to being content with yourself and ultimately attracting pussy.

red_reality · 2017-03-25T21:09:23+00:00

I like to think of the alpha mindset like this. I have to start off with an example of mind and body. So, it should be obvious that the minds natural state is to be uptight and take control of everything. This drives us in all directions and makes us unhappy. The only way to undo this is to learn to relax; force your mind to let go and take a back seat to the present moment. In the same way, the alpha mindset can only be brought to the foreground when you relax your mind sufficiently. Once relaxed, the present moment is up to your interpretation. This is when you cognitively assert yourself as the leader in the room. You convince yourself that you are the absolute leader. Your back straightens, your facial expression becomes relaxed and pleasant, and you are able to look every man and women in the eye without breaking. This takes practice of course, but it's how I establish and maintain a dominating presence/frame. It is only after I've established this mindset that I can begin to game anyone or control any dialogue.

aanarchist · 2017-03-25T22:54:27+00:00

if you're a piece of shit don't embrace it, work actively to change it because it's not ok, and people who do think it's ok are why we have problems in the world.

StoicSapien · 2017-03-25T20:47:09+00:00

Embrace who you are, but also recognize YOU are your own worst enemy. The toxic people in your life are obstacles not excuses. YOU are responsible for your own shortcomings, and only YOU can change them. It is important to discuss our own self awareness on TRP, but IMPERATIVE that we exemplify said awareness in our daily lives.

bolt892 · 2017-03-26T13:36:24+00:00

"just be urself"

Come on now.

Aesthetikal · 2017-03-25T21:03:47+00:00

So a 300 obese dude who spends all his time in his moms basement playing video games and watching porn is alpha as long as he "embraces" it and accepts who he is? OP just went full retard

OneRedSock · 2017-03-27T17:53:02+00:00

I'm not sure why this is getting so many upvotes when this is literally the JBY mentality that have lead so many men to awful BP experiences and depression, and which Rollo warns about in The Rational Male. This is literally the mentality that lead all of us to TRP in the first place; our weird, quirky selves were failing hard at relationships with women.

This is some empty, feel-good BP rhetoric. Every RP man is here because this type of mentality utterly failed them in the past. This is what Mom says to you when you complain about how no woman wants to date you: "You're so handsome and smart, just be yourself and the right one will come along".

That's not to say embracing who you are is wrong, it's very much a part of the Alpha Mindset: unabashed, unashamed belief that you are the best thing since sliced bread. But that's only half of the equation, the other half is constantly yearning to improve who you are. Without the second half, you're just living in a BP fantasy. This is why we lift, this is why we practice game, this is why we strive to improve SMV; all of these things have one thing in common: constant improvement.

JBY is settling when you should be improving.

DoggiesLoveMe · 2017-03-25T23:54:09+00:00

My friend just introduced me to TRP today, and I honestly hope garbage posts like these aren't the norm. This post was just short nothingness. You contradict yourself: first you say alpha is a "meaningless term" then you say "it's a mindset". Well, which one is it, meaningless or mindset? You're wrong that alpha has nothing to do with your body or smv. It has everything to do with your body and smv. And it's not as simple as embracing who you are. If you're a loser, don't just embrace being a loser in the hopes of becoming alpha. Also Chad is a term of an alpha male, "faggot Chad" is a contradiction of terms.

This post was complete garbage and a waste of everyone's time, especially mine. I hope to never see such a horrible post ever again on this sub.

rdpislove · 2017-03-26T13:57:51+00:00

Be yourself aka the most effective blue pill lie so u skipped all the side bar content and all the self improvement someone's do and u come to finish line and say just embrace who you are ( aka alpha mindset ) how u embrace yourself when u ain't comfortable with yourself in the first place So everything the red pill offers you there's no effect to it lol Just embrace who you are and u gonna be pulling chicks

throw162534 · 2017-03-27T13:33:24+00:00

Shout out to u/thebeginer - thanks for the gold!

PascalAurel · 2017-03-26T15:14:52+00:00

I don't know why you get so many upvotes because I made a post about this a year ago describing how a fellow student who is an overweight ginger with glasses who is a total jerk still gets pussy - because the only thing he has going for him is his 'I am who I am and you have to deal with it or fuck off'-mentality and I got downvoted into the ground for telling the truth.
Maybe this sub moved on to a higher level of enlightenment.
Good post. Bookmarked as a reminder.

ChadThundercockII · 2017-03-26T08:10:24+00:00

Want to be Alpha? Be like Bill Murray.

Title	Embrace life - how to be "Alpha"
Author	throw162534
Upvotes	156
Comments	44
Date	March 25, 2017 7:30 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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