For most men, sex is a form of manhood/masculinity validation

MaGeTOW · 2018-12-24T10:39:07+00:00

Ask yourself this:
How does having sex make you a better man?

DJDickJob · 2018-12-24T09:46:06+00:00

I have a friend that's always been like this. He'd rather see a pair of tits than know the secrets of the universe. He thinks MGTOW is retarded.

He's helping his girlfriend raise her two kids she has from two other guys, she's hitting the wall, he lives with her in her house, they work together and he'd lose his job if they broke up because the place is run by women and she's got seniority.

We'll see how retarded MGTOW is when he's moving in with me one day and looking for a new job.

[deleted] · 2018-12-24T13:39:14+00:00

Just think about how your life would change if you stop trying to validate your existence by how much pussy you've had or can get.

You wouldn't be buying expensive cars to impress women, taking women out to dinner for a free meal just to watch them go "thanks, now onto the next Tinder sucker", buying a brand of beer you hated because it had cachet, etc.

You wouldn't be buying larger houses, killing yourself to get a top tier job you can't stand, working long grinding hours, etc. all in the end for an entitled parasite who will never truly love you for who you are.

Trots04 · 2018-12-24T11:28:34+00:00

I agree 100%

I know myself biologically I like getting a root, but emotionally I have trust and intimacy issues so I usually just try and avoid the whole situation because it’s always more then just an orgasm...

Mgtow_troaway · 2018-12-24T15:00:11+00:00

The only winners of the "sex = manhood game" are women.

gkp1985 · 2018-12-24T15:45:26+00:00

I don't respect men who can't handle liquor but keep drinking, can't control their weight but keep eating, can't control their sleep habits but keep staying up late, can't handle their current status but refuse to better themselves... Yet society acts like men who can't control their sex drive and and become slaves to pussy are the pinnacle of manliness.

rockorbe2002 · 2018-12-24T11:06:21+00:00

It IS a confirmation of manhood. It means my junk is functional. But joking aside, there is a sense of "empowerment" for me, but that's mostly because, unlike women, I don't get laid that often. Or at least not like when I was in high school. But eventually most of us grow out of it. We still want to get laid, but if we get laid, good, f not, oh well, better luck next time.

cleats4u · 2018-12-24T17:26:32+00:00

It's the dominance/competition model. Men want to out do each other in sports, in school, in who can fart the loudest. That man gains rank in his tribe/social circle. It starts in the sand box. Johnnie has a nice toy and I want it. I can either kick Johnnies ass and take his toy, steal his toy when he isn't looking, ask him for his toy, or figure out a way to get my own toy (trade, barter, work). Women just fuck the guys with the most toys.

tramese · 2018-12-24T17:33:12+00:00

most men are raised with the feminine doctrine...wanting to be approved and validated by society.

this is why I keep saying, cut your fucking umbilical cord with your momma. stop being a momma's boy.

Be a man.

Lavendercrimson12 · 2018-12-24T19:58:37+00:00

I think this is a main component of GYOW. Sure, have sex, as long as you understand the risks and liabilities, (and there are MANY!).

However, do your best not to make it priority #1, don't let it be the be all and end all of your daily life, don't give up on other ideals and goals just to lock down a tight pussy, because "She doesn't belong to you, it's just your turn."

GamingYourMom · 2018-12-24T23:11:17+00:00

And the irony is that women's standards, and thus their validation, are complete shit. I'm at the point now where if a woman is attracted to me, I get offended. If she wants me because she sees me as a provider, I'm offended for the obvious reasons on this sub. But even if she sees me as Chad, Chad is a fucking idiot. He has no impulse control, and is only good at sports. I'm offended either way. I prefer to judge myself by my own, better standards. Her validation is only validating my worth to her for using me. It's like a price tag on an object.

NotMyWomen · 2018-12-24T17:15:31+00:00

Men have to understand that who they are as men, and/or as humans, is not arbitrarily decided upon by States or Females.

It is decided by our character, and our achievements.

That’s it.

And that’s what the philosophy teaches young boys.

Friendlyfire8102 · 2018-12-24T09:54:11+00:00

Is that why we all fap?

Noobie_solo_backpack · 2018-12-24T09:59:24+00:00

I think like this, help me..

ScratchThatItch__ · 2018-12-24T19:05:25+00:00

That’s because they never got their fill

teslaistheshit · 2018-12-24T22:10:47+00:00

I wouldn't say it validates me but to be real it does mean something to have a connection at some level even if it is sexual. It's empowering to bring a woman to climax, hear her moan, see her legs shake afterwards. Once that's over though you realize it's just biological urges and note some built up Disney story.

thompsonh2 · 2018-12-28T06:37:03+00:00

Honestly this kind of culture always made me fall out in laughter. Guys can brag and talk that bullshit all they want but in the end, the joke is on them. Who is really the winner? The simp ass blue pilled tool who is controlled by some self righteous bitch using her pussy as a control device? Or the real man who answers to no bitch and doesn't give a fuck about pussy, and lives free to do what he wants, wherever, and whenever?

Oh and by the way: THE REAL MAN HAS MORE MONEY TOO.

Gentlemen, the answer is obvious.

Title	For most men, sex is a form of manhood/masculinity validation
Author	andrei1989tm
Upvotes	143
Comments	62
Date	December 24, 2018 9:13 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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