Actually, title is a bit wrong, but hear me out. Met this new girl, good vibe, no redflags (aside from potentially one that's linked with her not giving BJs, will talk about it after)

Cute,brunette, big tits, nice and really cares about others, no daddy issues, submissive.

One day on discord (playing video games in duo) told her "Gonna fuck your ass" (as an insult because she did bad in-game, but as in playing with her, not actually insulting her, that's how it sounds in our langage (not English) but still implies ass fucking. To which she responds "Well... I'm not against that"

Point is, she is open to trying things sexualy to satisfy me, when we see each other I spend the week end at hers (both 20,at our parents but her dad leaves some weekends) and we fuck all day and she'll cook for me.

But blowjobs...she told me she doesn't like doing it and I asked if it's some sort of trauma and got an unclear anwser but I guess it might be (don't know what exactly, might be related to her ex-bf from what I heard) , I was cool about it but took away attention, her anwser to that was well, sucking my dick.... For 30seconds before stopping, that's the only time she got her mouth on my dick, that was the first time I was at her house and that we fucked.

I still have other plates, that girl asked me "What are we?" after a few times seeing each other, and I managed this by telling her "I like to take my time, I like spending time with you, let's not put a label on that"

She always texts first, is actually funny and has a girly energy, If she'd suck my cock with enthusiasm I'd actually consider leveling her up. She is very invested, she watched 2 shows because I just told her I liked them.

But yeah guys, I'd like to know your opinion, I know she is very into me, her best friends know about me even though I've been clear about not being in a relationship with her (but I'm seriously considering it, been spinning plates for 2 years and never got in a relationship before, could even try to make it open on my side, she isn't against a FFM threesome as well.)

But I will never give her my full attention and the GF title if she doesn't suck my dick eagerly, with passion, on demand or by herself (of course, sometimes we just don't wanna do anything, that's normal, but you get what I mean)

Should I directly tell her? She knows I like BJs but maybe I should be more clear about it?

Should I tell her to suck my cock next time I see her? Never tried again after the last time.

Should I try to talk to her about what makes her not want to/feel bad about it, not sure if it's a trauma but I might be, should I try to talk about it with her ?

First time we had sex and she sucked me for 30 sec I also tried to grab her head (she loves hair pulling) and face fuck her (I barely thusted) that she got angry (but didn't want to show it) and just told me to not do that ever. Really killed the mood as a plate I saw a week before would let me face fuck her violently for 20min without any complaint (but really not interested in her) and every other plate I had would gladly accept it, never faced this situation.

Wouldn't ask the question here if that girl wasn't a sexfriend (I do appreciate the time with her, and aside from that sex is good) , so I want to communicate and would like to know the best way of doing so.

ASKTRP : How do I get head from this girl ? She has already put her mouth on my cock so the Pandora box is open, if she still doesn't want to, I'll have to demote her to simple plate or stop seeing her if she doesn't like the plate title, I'm already prepared for this, so solutions where I must be ready to walk away are welcome.