This post is different from my usually post. I just started reading into Machiavelli behavior so I am no expert yet. But I realize from what I’ve read it’s me to a tee. I want to use this to get some thoughts or ideas from my experience out there about it.

I’ve always been pretty much a natural when it came to women. I felt I had this power to lure women in to me. And then watch them never be able to let go. I’ve never been dumped. I’ve never been cheated on (as far as I know).

Before discovery of the red pill I also was a bit naive to the true nature of women so who knows, none the less it wasn’t until I read about Machiavelli did I understand why this stuff worked and that it actually had a name. I’m not here to brag (too much 😏) but I have a pretty long track record with women.

Upon further analysis I realized what I was actually doing. I was selling women the fantasy, sell them the women version of the fantasy we have been sold. We are told in Disney movies we find the one true love who will love us forever. They are sold on finding the bad boy no one can tame but them. Both are a lie so roll with it.

I was the alpha “bad boy” who had abundance and a asshole dgaf attitude. But in each one of their presence, I’d show them a soft side they didn’t know existed, not only that I would play it overtime as they were the ones bringing out this soft side and I wasn’t sure what was happening.

Now I do believe you can’t really teach Machiavelli behavior (I may be wrong about that) because it is very easy for the average guy to try this and fuck it all up. She will see your true side. She will see the cracks in your story. And something just won’t line up. It’s almost an art form that If could be taught would have to be learned over time from a lot of trial and error, experience. Most men will fuck this up by actually becoming too beta, too needy, or not the true alpha male they present themselves to be. etc. That shouldn’t happen. This is just an act.

I wasn’t living a lie. I meant most of the things I would say to them. The only thing was this is just who I was to every woman. They didn’t need to know that. It made them feel special.

Now you can easily fuck this up by going overboard with this behavior she will see you’re actually a chump/needy and lose interest really quick. I think the key here is to NOT have your actions line up with your words.

Tell her you don’t know why but you catch your self thinking about her a lot. You’ve never had this happen before. You never get emotionally invested so you need to figure out what’s going on. Then pull back. This will cause her to go fucking wild.

She will think. “Wow I am special I’m making the bad boy act in ways he never has before. He likes me. But he said he has to figure out what’s going on. Now he’s being distant. WHATS GOING ON. I need to find ways to please him.”

I literally have had women obsess over me with this shit, do crazy shit for me I never would have ever asked them to do.

Sell her the fantasy. The fantasy that you’re the bad boy alpha (which most guys aren’t) that no body can tame. But make her think she might have that ability. Note I say. Make her think. She shouldn’t actually ever hold this power, nor should she ever know she does. But she should believe that there’s a chance she does. You should always be willing to walk away regardless if this shit works for you. Or if she leaves.

Another thing I noticed is, if you are high value enough you can get away with a lot of this type of behavior. (This is more for fwb). Most guys here think women will leave or cheat at the first sign of your betaness. And they will if you’re low value.

If you’re high value and no matter what you literally do not care if she stays or leaves. You can’t be seen as needy. Because when push comes to shove and she starts to fade off on you. You won’t care, you’ll let her fade. And this will show her what she’s really dealing with.

The problem is when women start to fade off. Men sense it and become more needy. More clingy and it pushes her away.

This works because your unpredictable, you’re giving her a rollercoaster of emotions, she never will get to comfortable,

I’d like to hear your opinions on this along with your own experiences with this type of behavior. I find it very interesting.