I never fully understood my red pilled uncle when I was 15. Makes sense now

CoupDeGrace22 · 2017-10-20T23:25:21+00:00

Most RP man I've ever crossed was an old guy in his 60s which I met as a family friend on the promise I would work for him during the summer in his beach bar on a greek island.

Once I set foot there the guy was a freaking hippy, long white curls,didn't wear shoes for some reason, old beat-up car, thought to myself wtf, but welcomed me with open arms. I was kinda suspicious from the get go, but soon it seemed everyone in the island knew him and loved him, so that eased my suspicion.

His business was a train wreck, so I told him I'm not interested yet he allowed me to stay with him, eat with him and even helped me find another job in a restaurant there.After that I helped him by my own free will rebuild his shit.

Ironically my family that introduced me who also stayed at the island wouldn't lend me a room for a while there, while this stranger fed me, helped me find another job there once I told him I wasn't interested and treated me as if I was his own son, while my own family was pretending to be busy.

Turns out mr.hippy had a relationship with my aunt in the past, so my uncle was the one who didn't want anything to do with him and kept me at distance, trash talking the hell out of him on the few times I saw them. Funnily enough as I asked around i found out mr.hippy had fucked most locals and a bunch of tourists throughout his life, and his business got fucked because his own circle stole from him and shut him down.I remember a local damn solid milf greeting him like he was fucking john Lennon while her husband waited in the car, and after asking him he just told me I know the answer.

And there he was, no children or wife, yet he still didn't give a fuck and lived however he wanted without a single sign of bitterness, I was fucking amazed by him.

Jyontaitaa · 2017-10-21T00:52:09+00:00

Red pill is not about solitude. Solitude is being married to a heartless bitch and doing a lot of hard work for infrequent sex with the same woman.

An important thing that is not reported enough here in the red pill subs is to develop good life long friendships with other guys. You can pay for pussy if you want to but true friendship cannot be bought; if you want to be free of solitude make good friends, women make poor friends.

103342 · 2017-10-20T23:40:01+00:00

I have an uncle like that. The more I read TRP the more memories of him popped in my mind, because of the stuff he used to say. You know, when you hear something as a kid and only truly understand years and years later.

One of the things he said that stick with me the most now is: "There is one thing you need to know about women, you either have all of them or you have none."

I think it goes something along the lines of if you get stuck with a woman, you don't HAVE her, she has YOU.

I still give him mad propos, because he is one of the few people I know that lives what he preaches.

Borsao66 · 2017-10-20T22:07:28+00:00

Solitude is uncomfortable because it gives an opportunity to reflect on yourself without exterior validation/distractions.

It's about being comfortable in your own skin which means eschewing much of societies opinions & options and recognising then correcting flaws, which for most people is really tough.

The__Tren__Train · 2017-10-20T22:22:11+00:00

you can have a woman as a life partner.. just don't marry her or have kids with her.

or jointly own property

CeleritySteam · 2017-10-21T01:30:32+00:00

Mentally fortify yourself and you won't need others for your insecurities. This is much harder and more time consuming than it sounds but the instant you need any other person you lose. You can want them, have them, but never need.

tibikush2012 · 2017-10-20T22:37:19+00:00

I think him like many others just had to endure some harsh realities with women to get to know the full pic

Aestheticcunt1996 · 2017-10-21T09:53:54+00:00

Don't be afraid of being alone. At the end of the day, everyone lives for the themselves. It's just logical. You are born alone, you will live alone and you will die alone. Since you can't unify with another consciousness, it just makes sense. However, there's a difference between being alone and loneliness. Loneliness is a construct of your ego, your mind. You aren't your ego. You are consciousness, sir. Learn to deal with it.

Dmva100 · 2017-10-21T11:17:47+00:00

My parents, especially my mother, constantly try to get me to 'settle down' and get married and have kids etc.

My response?

"Fuck off."

Apparently my mother would rather have grandkids that she can use as orbiters as backup to provide for her once she hits the nursing home and is all alone, rather than a son who is living his life freely.

The feminine imperative runs deep.

X-Trem0 · 2017-10-21T07:36:03+00:00

Thanks for sharing. Your uncle sounds as a pretty decent guy :)

Tokestra420 · 2017-10-21T14:48:01+00:00

Doesn't sound like he'd read any of this stuff. Sounds like he just did his own thing, not being a bitter loner like most people here

FREEDNA · 2017-10-21T19:13:07+00:00

Same... when I was a teen my uncle said "there's too many women out there to get upset over just one"

That little phrase helped me so much in life!

utact · 2017-10-21T14:19:59+00:00

I wasn’t there, but bragging to a teenager about sexual conquests as a guy in your 30s sort of reeks of insecurity to me. I’m on a RP subreddit... I’m not worried about the kid,

I’m suggesting that giving a shit about what a 15 year old thinks of your sex life is hilariously low value.

cafeitalia · 2017-10-22T12:29:17+00:00

A threesome these days cost only $300 and an orgy only $600.

jonxxxjj · 2017-10-21T12:06:58+00:00

So is he red pilled because he fucks all girls? Because he doesn't want to marry?

utact · 2017-10-21T00:29:18+00:00

I feel like describing threesomes to a 15 y/o is.... questionable

Title	I never fully understood my red pilled uncle when I was 15. Makes sense now
Author	dipshitdiaries
Upvotes	287
Comments	79
Date	October 20, 2017 10:00 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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