Whenever you have a girl that you are plating (this is booty call only, none of the other shit) for 1-2 months or more, and she 'all of a sudden' 'wants something more' you best believe there is a new guy in the picture. If a plate genuinely wanted something more with you, she would gradually make it happen over time via investment. If a plate voices this out of nowhere, 1 of 2 scenarios is in play and it is up to YOU to not be the sucker. Once again, all responsibility on us (burden of performance).
- She found a new guy that is more AF than you (she is just a booty call to him at this point), and she is trying to get 'something more' with you, which really means be my BB.
Or
- She found a BB or a boyfriend, but wishes you could do those things that he does so she doesn't have to be sexually pluralistic.
In either scenario, if you lose frame and show a shred of committment YOU become the BB. She is essentially giving you an ultimatum. If you show commitment, she will:
Scenario 1: Keep fucking the new Alpha guy and be his booty call, while you become BB boyfriend.
Scenario 2: She will get your committment, NEXT the BB guy she just met, so you are now her committed lesser Alpha, and she goes on to swipe tinder for the next unattainble AF.
You lose either way. Unless you hold frame, which will almost certainly result in her leaving anyway (So you still lose her), but if you go NC, she will reinitiate at a later date and try again after her strategy fails on other men (and it will because AWALT). Aka boomerang game.
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