I lost my virginity well into my twenties. I had a general fear of rejection due to childhood trauma, therefore avoided physical intimacy altogether. I obsessed how my virginity devalued and emasculated myself. Each "missed opportunity" reinforced the delusion that I was a loser.
It's all bullshit. In fact, chastity is a strength. It shows you are emotionally healthy and mentally stable. Hoes don't think like that; they're feasting at the table with tinder, hookups, cheating, and orbiters.
By the time I was in my mid-twenties, I had lost my virginity. Most women have a double-digit body count by then. You think they "loved" all of those men? Women have sex to prove their self-worth, distract from introspection, or just general gluttony.
Our society is degenerating; antibiotic resistant STDs are spreading. Women will cheat on you in one form or another: emotional, physical, it all hurts. If you confront them on it, they will blame you for their behavior. There are no societal repercussions for women behaving badly, only encouragement.
If you think having a girlfriend or fucking a wet hole is going to improve your life, it's not. Relationships will take away years, money, children, even your life. The amount of stress I've endured before MGTOW trying to please women drove me to the edge of suicide.
I could have read many books, learned new skills, formed friendships with likeminded brothers, saved, or created artwork. My need for sex was an addiction and justified my procrastination.
I willingly victimised myself entering abusive relationships because I didn't have the courage to GMOW.
You might say, well, I can just do hookups, prostitutes. I'd say that's a safe route if you bag it up, but it's not emotionally fulfilling.
If I knew what I know now, I'd choose to stay a virgin. The net benefit of fucking is a brief dopamine rush and an instinct to care for the woman if you're not a sociopath. We're at a point in time where relationships aren't tenable. Women have too many escape routes, temptation, plan B's, whatever, and men left with the emotional, financial, physical wreckage from failed relationships.
Just my thoughts.
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