Recently remade my Facebook and started adding people. There's this girl I used to talk to back in highschool who I decided to shoot a message to see how she's been.
Just going to say right off the bat that I'm not nor have I ever been attracted to this girl. She's one of those chubby notlikeothergirls kind of chicks who thinks she's weird and quirky because she doesn't like the color pink or whatever. She also has a lot of issues and part of the reason we stopped talking was because her dad died abruptly and she spiraled out of it and we just sort of lost touch.
Anyways she used to date this dude who I was cool with in middle School so one of the first things I asked her was if she was still with him and if he was doing alright. I really didn't think much of it but she abrasively gets in my face about it and nearly accuses me of just messaging her because I wanna fuck with her.
Initially I found this hilarious and wanted to tell her not to flatter herself but I kept cool and brushed it off. I told her that I honestly was just checking up on her. She admits to me that she's been messaged by a bunch of other guys who also went to school with us who just messaged her because they wanted to fuck. I told her that I understood but that she shouldn't assume the worst out of everyone especially out of someone who has never even hinted at such a thing.
She calmed down and we kept talking but for some reason she kept bringing this up as if she didn't believe that I don't just want to fuck her I decided to mess with her a little and tell her that personally I prefer mine a little more petite (she's overweight). I also told her that those guys most likely messaged her because they saw her as an easy target.
She was a bit confused by this and did some mental gymnastics about her wearing too much black or whatever and didn't realize that I was trying to tell her that she wasn't conventionally attractive.
She seemed very interested in hanging out with me and wanted to know if I had a girlfriend. I told her that I had a few fuck buddies and girls I was talking to but nothing too serious. All of a sudden she became very interested in my love life and starting pressing me about where I met them and who they were. Also when I mentioned that I didn't really want a serious relationship she tried to lecture me about how I was wrong and how relationships are the most amazing thing.
Ever since she has messaged me out of the blue to tell me about how depressed and bored she is. I always just give her the minimal amount of my attention and don't really put much effort into the conversations. She always does stupid shit like tell me about her bf and how I shouldn't tell him what we talk about because he gets jelouse or constantly beats the dead horse about how I better not make things "weird".
It's so funny to me. It's like these thirsty betas have warped her ego to a point where she can't believe that a guy is talking to her and doesn't want to fuck her, it makes her fascinated.
I know she's not interested or anything but I feel like she intentionally tries to press me and constantly acts needy to me asking why I even bother responding to her or if she's boring to me.
Tl;DR: unavailable plain Jane tries to press me and suddenly gets clingy when I outwardly let her know about my disinterest to her as a percieved high value male.
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