Don't talk about fitness with women.

executedigging · 2017-12-01T13:46:58+00:00

I don't like to talk to anyone about fitness. Them: "You are obviously weight training" Me: "Nope, 100% Jazzercise" I used to talk to people about it and then human skeletons or obese people start lecturing me about weight training. Tell someone how much you bench press, they say they used to bench press some number higher than that.

Traphead09 · 2017-12-01T15:44:27+00:00

I've been into fitness and nutrition for going on 7 years consistently. I've studied it in college as well as learning on my own. Working around women I am asked often for tips about weight loss. Give them solid scientifically proven advice. Every single one of them immediately claim that I'm wrong it only works and is easy for you because you're a male, or because you're not 40-50+ years old yet. Lols, provide examples of women who overcame the exact same situation they're in who applied the same advice I gave them. "Well she just has it easy , you just don't understand." I have the knowledge as well as the appearance of someone who clearly knows how this works yet all the women who ask for advice and clearly in desperate need to lose weight are suddenly experts. I avoid those conversations like the plague. Have fun being fat ladies.

scotFree66 · 2017-12-01T14:40:35+00:00

NSFW: This is what an obese wymmen looks like when given an autopsy. There is no such think as 'fat but fit' whatever landwhales 'feelz'

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8jn67tdEGY4

Slaide · 2017-12-01T16:18:52+00:00

It's way easier to call people fat shamers and demand that being fat be respected rather than taking accountability (which women are incapable of) for being overweight due to your actions.

BenchoteMankoManko · 2017-12-01T16:01:52+00:00

On you last paragraph about fad diets, ever notice how they all buy fitbits like they will magically make them lose weight and then complain when they don't?

R00TT00R · 2017-12-01T16:50:25+00:00

Bro science > Hoe science

RadicalAsceticMonk · 2017-12-01T16:17:08+00:00

If you want to develop muscles, you obviously need to work them out.

If you just want to lose/keep weight, running is a better exercise overall.

I don't know why women think this is complicated.

Averageeurodude · 2017-12-01T18:21:55+00:00

Women love to project their own failures onto other people. Never ask them for advice on anything, their answer will always be linked to feelings or emotions in some bizarre way.

It's hilarious listening to or reading women's conversations with each other where you're like "There's no way she just gave that advice to her friend".

TigPlaze · 2017-12-01T15:14:47+00:00

My sister is amazingly fit and has even been featured in news articles on people who lost a bunch of weight and got fit. I can definitely talk fitness with her.

I get it though. There are plenty of obese people with whom a conversation about fitness would be pointless.

Darth_Toenail · 2017-12-01T18:12:33+00:00

The women at my workplace hate me because while they're obsessing over Slimming World and all the latest masochistic diets (and have almost nothing to show for it), I'm eating pizza, burgers, curries and whatever else I feel like eating, and staying slim just by walking one and a half miles into work and back again every day, and doing an hour of bodyweight exercises four or five times a week.

TheObelisk · 2017-12-01T18:34:02+00:00

I have a know-it-all in at one of my jobs who is awful when it comes to this topic. She interrupts my conversation with someone else to chime in with nonsense or things that go without saying. I did Keto and lost 40lbs by watching carbs and following certain percentages of protein, fat and carbs. This coworker who is a good looking 28 year old blonde interrupts me with, 'You NEED carbs!' Which again, goes without saying-- you have bodily functions that require carbs, but it's a no-brainer that you're not ingesting absolutely 0 carbs. You're cutting it way down to 20-50g a day. But to argue that sort of thing with her is maddening. I had disagreed with her some other time about something and i emailed her sources and evidence and she just got pissy. That threw me for a loop because i thought she'd be happy to have actual data and proper information, but rather she was just upset she'd been debunked. Which is why i no longer argue with people like that.

Just like my gf's sister who saw me drinking a diet drink and was like, "You shouldn't drink that-- it gives you cancer." The most maddening part there was that she smoke cigarettes, so you can just imagine how hard it was to not choke myself to death right there and then. But then if you just google 'Does diet pop cause cancer?' the first thing that comes up is a Mayo Clinic thing saying that it hasn't been directly linked to cancer, and that moderate drinking should be fine. But i knew better than to provide evidence because these girls don't want to actually be right-- they just want to shut you down with their superior opinions/intellect which they almost never have. I went on a while there and sure the diets and the diet pop thing can still be debated and you can find different articles saying different things about each, but the point is these girls never entertain the possibility they're wrong.

Best_coder_NA · 2017-12-01T18:00:41+00:00

Is "calories in calories out" accurate for weight loss?

2017-12-01T18:01:48+00:00

My mom usually brings me down when I mention to her my accomplishments. With that said - I think she's right. Running keeps the flab down and while lifting is good it's probably best (as far as keeping potential flab away at a later date) to do the high reps/low weight thing two or three times a week or so. Then again ..... if you're wanting to be a body builder you're doing the right thing.

Prometheus444 · 2017-12-01T16:29:34+00:00

I don't get how she can like Chris Hemsworth but talks shit about how you will get fat if you don't keep at it. Shouldn't she encourage you to keep it up? FUARRRRRRRRK.

Sorry to hear about your mother.

Anyway I congratulate you on your new max. Keep at it man. Take care of yourself and keep improving in all aspects. YEAAAAAAAAAAAAH!

Talkytalktalk · 2017-12-01T17:23:05+00:00

Yes. Triggering women for fun. R/triggeringwomenforfun. The first mgtow spin-off sub.

NewLife_2017 · 2017-12-01T18:49:53+00:00

They all follow fad diets. Bullshit about watching carbs, "cleanses", and other bullshit.

Don't forget the Adderall and/or Coke diet!

Griever114 · 2017-12-01T18:53:32+00:00

Congrats on that 2 plate squat. That's a big deal. You are slowly moving up. I'm heading towards a 3 plate myself and word of advice, shits getting heavy :).

Regarding your post, cant say I didn't tell you so. Accountability is like speaking a foreign language to them.

officerkondo · 2017-12-01T18:53:42+00:00

I decided to share my achievement with my mom

This was your error. No one wants to hear you talk about your latest gym PR. Your mom does not give a shit about how much Chris Hemsworth can squat - she just cares about his abs and boulder shoulders.

So shut up, take off your shirt, and let them stare. Let it seem effortless. If anyone asks, something like the Jazzercise remark of another comment is nice. You can also feed into most normies' internal biases by saying something like, "it must be genetic. I eat what I want."

CadeyrnDragheim · 2017-12-01T19:44:32+00:00

Just saying, but for fat people, like i was, carbs are bad. Keto and intermittent fasting is the only thing that helped me, otherwise they were all not useful or at least not as useful. I think i kept it more or less for 5-6 months now.

ANYWAY, what i dislike about women is that, you say oh you do this and that and they always say oh yeah i work out too doing some yoga from time to time... They probably just do 1 or 2 days a week some silly stretching and call it exercise. Meanwhile, even if i train at home, i train pretty hard (for ex i trained just 3 days this week because my muscles still felt weak), but i doubt any of them ever did pushups until they just couldn't anymore.

(and yes i don't go to a gym because i think i'll just make excuses not to go, oh it's winter, too hot etc., working out at home, no excuses)

TedioreTwo · 2017-12-01T21:16:39+00:00

I have literally only met two women who said any of this trash..

Itisforsexy · 2017-12-01T21:39:20+00:00

I decided to share my achievement with my mom. Just a general conversation thing. Instead of being congratulatory she instead proceeds to lecture me about how i shouldn't lift so much because if i stop ill just have flab and that i should just run because it's better for you.

So much "bro science" in this, I can't even.

That's not how the body works. Your mom is an idiot.

I lift 5 days a week too, and also bike every day. (15-45 mins). It feels great, my mental acuity and general happiness was skyrocketed over the past 3 years. However, women don't appreciate hard work and have no idea what your numbers even mean. Get a male freidn into fitness, train with him if you can. That'll motivate each other as you progress and hit PRs, and context will be noted between both of you.

I know a 135 lbs OHP is very impressive. Took me a while to get it and boy was it a grinder.

Toffifee_BeiFjong · 2017-12-01T22:10:37+00:00

I had, pretty much the exact same thing happen to me.

My mother's overweight, yet insists on giving me fitness advice and health advice.

Women in a nutshell - Can't take thei own advice.

fruguy · 2017-12-01T22:19:38+00:00

Do you eat before training that early? I tried training early mornings once but when the weights got heavy, I couldn't do it fasted. I went back to training later in day so I could get some food in.

Curthurley · 2017-12-01T22:46:19+00:00

As ive said on here before im a personal trainer (my secondary fun job) and i only train men. I have 2 college degrees (one in biology). Most people dont know jack shit about fitness. Ive been lifting for over 17 years now. Im 6-2.5 and when i started i weighed 147 pounds. I know weigh roughly 202 to 207 pounds (currently bulking). 1st off running is absolutely not healthy for a persons body. Its hard on your knees and most times people go into catabolic state. Low intensity cardio is safer and healthier for overall gains. Im not saying to completely remove H.I.T. However, L.I.T. combined w T.U.T (time under tension) weight training is the recipe for serious muscle gains w minimal fat. That plus proper nutrition and sleep are litterally the fountain of youth.

Futureman999 · 2017-12-01T22:47:28+00:00

The reason land whales get so butthurt when you talk about your fitness program is because you're undermining one of their religious beliefs, with facts. It's how they live with themselves by shifting blame away from their own weak wills and laziness to "society and stuff" or "genetics".

Here's at least two of their axioms:

Everyone eats approximately the same amount of calories per day.
Some people are fat, some people are thin. It's all down to "metabolism".

There are many more, like it's OK to go out and eat a large pizza after ten minutes on the treadmill if you really work hard and sweat.

Prepaying for a whole year membership at a gym counts as 20-30% of your workout, as long as you plan to actually go one of these days.

Beverage calories don't count.

comptejete · 2017-12-01T23:37:01+00:00

Most people don't care about the journey, they care about the results, and if it appears that the former was a lot of effort they are going to be less impressed with the latter. We're predisposed to favor the "natural".

247spyz4life · 2017-12-01T23:42:51+00:00

I guess this is why obese women are obsessed and also think they can get with and even deserve these 2% body fat washboard-ab having models and bodybuilders. Opposites truly attract...or at least one side does.

1UPZ_ · 2017-12-02T05:33:32+00:00

you're bagging your mother... I dunno... if she was mean to you in other ways fair enough, but her not knowing about fitness and you putting her down is a bit of a cunt move.

Traphead09 · 2017-12-01T16:06:22+00:00

Sounds like a mom. I think your mom just doesn't want you to deal with the flab in case injury or something prevents you from lifting. But I'm wondering how true this is. When I stop lifting I notice atrophy after a week and a half.

Title	Don't talk about fitness with women.
Author	capnmurrica01991
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Date	December 1, 2017 1:29 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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