Like many of you, I was a blue pulled simp dating a 32 year old single mom with two kids. Her ex was still paying a large portion of her rent and expenses, and she was pretty much a classic case of anti depressants and BPD behavior.

She was the type that literally went crazy when I finally ended it with her nearly 6 months ago. A non-stop assault of text messages of “how could you” “fuck you” “you’re a heartless asshole” and so on. I blocked her and changed my phone number.

Fast forward to last night, I receive a long email from her. Basically her asking me for her apartment key back (it’s a copy). I never gave it back because we live about close to 45 minutes apart and she told me not to bother, but suddenly now she wants it back. Along with this, she proceeds to basically give me a life update of her I didn’t ask for. Telling me how she’s doing, on one hand going her the qualms of how she’s dealing with our breakup and how she’s in so much pain and how she sacrificed so much for me, to the very next few sentences of how she met so many “new amazing people in her life” and how she walks with “God” and how “God loves her” ... she’s doing the God thing right now, if you hadn’t guessed. I wouldn’t doubt she gets showered in attention, despite being 32 she’s a solid 8/10 thin brunette.

She tells me that she doesn’t deserve being ghosted by me and how dare I do that to her how it’s so childish, blah blah blah.

Also proceeds to tell me how she’s paying her way on her own now, is going to buy a house soon and loves her new job and manager. (Which I think is total bullshit but I could be wrong).

But then at the very end of the letter tells me not to be offended because it’s “not an angry letter”.

I’m not going to lie, I struggle with the breakup too. But I’ve been doing much better. Reading this sub everyday helps a lot, but we were together for 4 years and it’s a lot to absorb. I know I’m better off without her, but I hate receiving emails from her, it always brings all those feelings back up again.

I’m not going to respond though, I’ll mail her key back certified mail. I just don’t think responding is going to help or solve anything. I don’t even know why the fuck she’s emailing me to begin with.

Just thought I’d post this here. This place is pretty much my outlet where I can project my inner thoughts on this kind of subject matter. Thanks for reading.