Single mom wall is real

ihuntewoks · 2017-08-26T07:43:31+00:00

From the comments:

Imagine an unemployed man saying all the women he dated are horrible. And that there is nothing wrong with him, and he should never have to settle for anyone. All you ladies would lose your mind.

Silly single moms. You don't want to lower your standards or settle for any man? Ok, fair enough. BUT BUT BUT, don't expect any decent man to settle for you either.

I'm sure all you single moms have a 100 points check list of what you considered a good man. Let say if such a man were to appear in front of you. Ask yourself this: why should this man choose you instead of a childless younger woman. What do you have to offer that other women can't.

It's always funny how modern women will give away their youth to the bad boys and the players for free, and then demand a premium from the good men when they are old. Wake up ladies, no decent man will pay a premium for somebody else left over.

andreas-mgtow · 2017-08-26T04:58:42+00:00

I got drunk out of my mind and fucked the ex-convict bartender bareback behind the bar's dumpster and now I have a fatherless little rug rat, but...

men don’t even know what a real date is anymore! No, I do not want to go out to a bar and get hammered with you. How about a nice dinner and some chit-chatting, and you take me home, not expecting to get in my bed after the first date?

Reeeeeeeeeeeeee

Teflon0819 · 2017-08-26T07:10:17+00:00

She's experiencing firsthand why culturally discouraging promiscuity in women was not actually a patriarchal ploy to oppress women. It served as a means to encourage men to invest the level of effort that she is complaining doesn't exist anymore.

She blames men for it, but it wasn't men who drove the value of pussy into the ground, it was women who decided to trade long-term value for short-term gratification.

If my goal is to get my dick wet, why would I invest so much time in her if I can have a girl sucking my dick within 10 minutes of meeting her?

If my goal is to settle down and start a family, and I meet her criteria of acceptability, that means I will also meet the criteria of countless younger, more fertile, more attractive women who haven't had a kid yet.

Either way, she has set her standards too high, and that's her problem, not men's. Men have simply adapted to the sexual landscape that women brought about. It turns out that women are terrible strategists because everything about the "sexual liberation" they demanded, other than the short-term gratification it provides has been to their detriment.

frankyfa · 2017-08-26T05:15:34+00:00

I've seen this so many times: She's studying "Human Services/Counseling-Psychology" and her Facebook is full of selfies. She thinks "she's not the problem at all". Fucking men who don't know how to treat a real woman!

Silver-Noxx · 2017-08-26T05:06:45+00:00

Dated for eight years, dear lord. Maybe your insane standards are astronomically high. And maybe stop looking for a beta bux that looks like Chad and go out and make your own self successful and rich. I like how she complains about not going on real dinner dates. Oh and who is going to pay for that? Let me guess? Not you right?

And welcome to what it's like to date for every single flipping guy out there! We have always been sick of women losing interest if we don't text immediately and blow up their phone with text messages. And where is he decency? Oh come on, at least those photos aren't actually on their actual profile like the little skanks nearly naked on the girls profiles.

Keep waiting for Mr astronaut ceo millionaire actor. In the meantime I'm sure she's probably riding the carousel screwing all these guys and her complaining about not finding Mr perfect is an excuse to not look like a slut.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2017-08-26T07:01:59+00:00

Gentlemen I leave you with this quote...

"In the end though, I realized I am not the problem at all"

B_P_G · 2017-08-26T06:08:28+00:00

"Where has the decency in people gone? I ask myself that almost every single day."

Well, there was a time not long ago when women in her situation were shamed. Where did that go? She of all people shouldn't be reminiscing about past times.

With that said, this chick looks fairly attractive and because of that the dating market was almost certainly very good for her up until this point. But I don't think she has fully grasped just how much her stock has dropped by becoming a single mother. It's like night and day. She can hold out for the guys she could have easily bagged two years ago but she'll be waiting a long time. And the fact that she clearly isn't willing to put any time into a relationship is definitely not going to help things.

cyborg_type_darkness · 2017-08-26T06:13:18+00:00

"Men are harder to find if you are a single mom"

I think in the past it was the same. How about working or not leaving your man.

exit-stage-right2 · 2017-08-26T06:42:11+00:00

Women do not get the concept that men do not want someone else's children and when dating we do expect to be put first. Hmmm, date a woman where the child comes first or a woman where the man is first, duh.

bjred78 · 2017-08-26T07:11:00+00:00

What a fucking loser. A typical degenerate lemon investment. So she wants a man to look after another mans pleasure??? Next time close your legs you vile filth. Or in 12 months time, you will be pissing and moaning that you now have two kids, to two different fathers, and complain "where have all the good guys gone?" I will tell you where they went, the vasectomy clinic.

slyn69 · 2017-08-26T06:25:35+00:00

something that doesnt get talked about enough is the body changes that occur in a women after she gives birth. they are not good. and contrary to what female friendly medical literature will tell you, more often than not your vagina does not return back to its original state. how could it? just use common sense people, all the kegels in the world are not going to bring you back to your teenage tightness after a fucking kid rips through there.

MTGOStark · 2017-08-26T06:17:20+00:00

"Why is being a blight on society and a child abuser so difficult???"

Gump_Worsley_III · 2017-08-26T08:30:47+00:00

I have never dated nor would want to date a women with fuck trophy's. Why would you sign yourself up to being 2nd, 3rd, or possibly 4th-10th most important person in her life. Why would you invest 100% of yourself in the relationship but get way less in return.

RedFoxOnFire · 2017-08-26T06:12:24+00:00

The cell phone thing in the beginning is pretty spot on.

I have a cell phone for my convenience, not anyone else's.

I'm not going to reply to you right away.

I'm not going to answer the phone in my car, or when I'm doing something else.

I'll answer the phone at my convenience and won't get upset when someone doesn't answer when I try to contact them.

diggerbanks · 2017-08-26T09:13:13+00:00

You’d think that having a child during this time would be easier. “Oh everyone understands what it’s like to be a single mother nowadays.” That would be great if it was true.

They do love, that's why they are staying the fuck away.

mthrowaway52 · 2017-08-26T08:44:52+00:00

You know what the craziest thing is? I'm sure that after reading this article there is actually some cuck beta bucks who will actually reach out to her in an attempt to date her according to her standards.

Of course since he's not Chad Thundercock but rather some average guy working an average job she will dismiss him immediately. While still wondering where have all the good men gone.

Cabshear · 2017-08-26T09:30:26+00:00

Dating isnt that hard for women, they have chads at their beckon call! Armies of beta orbiters that will feed the attension monster.

Even in the online dating world! Compare a woman's Tinder, Okcupid, Pof profile to a man's. The ratio of messages men get compared to women.

The argument is, now they want to wrangle someone to help raise their kids. I got burned on this with a woman I truly loved. She has 3 gorgeous daughters, all from different dads (strike 1). They were full of life, smart, and fun to be around. The irony is that her narcissism led her to blow the relationship to shit because, used up single moms are wonder woman (strike 2) and they deserve some fantasy shit ripped from the pages of beauty and the beast. (strike 3)

Teal854 · 2017-08-26T11:10:22+00:00

How about a nice dinner and some chit-chatting, and you take me home, not expecting to get in my bed after the first date? Now that sounds like a good time to me.

So basically you will have to pay for an expensive dinner, do the usual monkey dance to entertain her while she can only talk about her kid or her "career" as a blogster. And the next day she'll find a chad on tinder for quick tingles. No thanks honey, I'm out of that game.

robowriter · 2017-08-26T10:13:22+00:00

Worst she has one of those wrinkled patches of skin on her stomach after the kid flopped out or a C-section scar. It's not as bad as pulling out a tucked surprize but still makes you want to look for the exit.

GranularInsecurity · 2017-08-26T15:51:08+00:00

Yes, I spread my legs and let a complete loser fuck a child into me but now I have standards. You have to support me and my child because the father is not going to pay any child support. He will however demand visitation every other weekend and a month over the summer and you'll have to interact with the Chad and pretend to be polite for my sake. We will also be going to court periodically and trust me that is just loads of fucking fun. I won't have any time or energy for you because it's being drained by my child and while I may let you fuck me from time to time I am not about to let you pop another baby into me. One is enough. Oh... and I need a new car.

SRK_Tiberious · 2017-08-26T11:02:11+00:00

1 cumdumpster and 1 future cumdumpster by the looks of it.

chasingsnow · 2017-08-26T11:25:17+00:00

hamster spinning so fast

hollybegin · 2017-08-26T11:49:51+00:00

Half of the masterpiece is about her complaining "peoples" on social media aren't patient enough 'cause she's so busy taking care of the little bundle of piss, shit and snort. Other half is complaining about how hard it is to find a suitable wallet and how better she could be all by herself. Good luck with life Kupkeek!

Reprogramming_Life · 2017-08-26T12:11:07+00:00

Married mom wall is real too. lol They married beta-bux and now they're stuck. No one wants their used up vaginas.

cleats4u · 2017-08-26T13:43:15+00:00

Man she is lost in her song. Someone tell her to go make us a sandwich!

fuckyouredditcunts77 · 2017-08-26T17:11:48+00:00

"Independent woman."

So how much tax free child support do you receive each month?

taxandstuff · 2017-08-26T18:07:47+00:00

didnt read the article at first, then decided to read it to see her position. exactly what i thought it would be. her position is that she isn't going to settle, yet she has no leverage. no smart guy is going to settle either. so she loses.

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thewatisit · 2017-08-26T16:21:39+00:00

How about a nice dinner and some chit-chatting, and you take me home, not expecting to get in my bed after the first date? Now that sounds like a good time to me.

Because you get a free meal?

In the end, all I want, and probably any other single mother wants, is the best for their child, and for myself as well.

And the guy?

While having a relationship is great and all, and seems like it’s becoming one of the most “important” things you hear about today, I am perfectly fine with me, myself, and I (and of course my mini-me), until I feel it deep down that I have found someone worth my time.

Excellent, now live up to it.

In the end though, I realized I am not the problem at all, I am perfectly fine the way I am, and there is nothing wrong having high expectations for my daughter and I.

The higher the expectation the harder the fall.

So if there are any other woman out there, single moms or not, just know you don’t have to settle for just anyone or anything. You control your happiness, and no one else is going to make you feel happier than yourself.

If only they would just follow this LPT.

knightwhosaysneet · 2017-08-26T18:02:05+00:00

Hahaha they are trying to pawn it off on the people of this generation. Geeez...can they hamster any more?

Fact: No dude wants to raise the spawn of another dude.

2017-08-26T15:04:43+00:00

Just as B.A. used to say: 'It's the wall, fool!'

secant128 · 2017-08-26T16:10:06+00:00

If she can say that she's perfectly fine and she's not the problem, its perfectly fine for those men she "dated" to think that they are perfectly fine as well.

I doubt that those people even know she has a child or they know and they were just asking her to join with a group of friends for some drink (not a date) but she got triggered the guys didn't take into consideration that she has a child. Well we are adults and we expect you just say yes and plan ahead or just say no, plain simple.

Wraith29 · 2017-08-26T22:31:45+00:00

muh keeds!

lexanimata · 2017-08-28T06:39:42+00:00

Now, I am not trying to bash men here. I’m sure there are plenty of great guys out there that I just haven’t come across yet, but I am just speaking from my last eight years of experience being a single mom.

This. I cannot believe people are this fucking stupid.

Title	Single mom wall is real
Author	PabloEscoba
Upvotes	76
Comments	80
Date	August 26, 2017 4:49 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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