Gird your loins. Grab your spears. Cock your clicking finger. You're about to be triggered.

Lesson: Many of you are being just like the women you harp against most often.

Here are some observations I've made over the past 2 years about some hypocrisy in those that come through Red Pill. People who are:

Looking for reasons to get angry every day rather than just accepting the anger they already have and experiencing it without grasping (Think about women who wake up every day to hop on their favorite blog or subreddit just so they'll have something to bitch about - yeah, that's a lot of you guys. It was me for a while, too.)

Solidifying a viewpoint religiously and creating a fake ideal they could never live up to, rather than working realistically with their situation

Ripping each other apart for the slightest miscue or perceived 'mistake' rather than forming a community

Not enjoying this gift of life with graciousness and amused mastery, always needing a reason or outside validation

Using the internet as a means of gratification and escape rather than engaging the real world on your terms

These are all things I've seen and experienced with feminists and Red Pill subscribers. The same thing I dealt with from my feminist girlfriend years ago before RP, I often dealt with from other subscribers while posting on other accounts here.

Hardest thing in life, the one thing most women will never do:

Become aware of who you are without shitting all over yourself and others.

Many of the Kagyu lineage of Buddhist masters were fucked up. One was a madman, one was wild and abusive, one was a drunk, one was a murderer, one was ugly as sin. Did they become perfect? No. They became perfectly aware of who they are through philosophy and arbitrary trials set forth by their "master." They were still farmers and laborers and normal guys. They were just supremely aware of their limits and deep motivations, which put them in touch with the limits and deep motivations of everyone else as a result. It was very simple.

It's ok to be pissed. Just realize that the more you solidify and pursue your anger - rather than amusingly and humorously working with it - the more you become like women who are tossed to and fro by their emotions. Responsibility for yourself can be a subtle and accepting thing, like treating your own emotions as a child. Not harshly, just with a gentle sense of knowing.

Your anger is both the source of your neurosis and your wisdom (borrowing from Pema Chodron on that one), so trying to "fix" it would be ruining what's energetic and attractive about yourself. But feeding it and pursuing it just to make yourself feel angrier and more resolved, that will fuck you up. I know everyone harps about meditation, but that's the answer here. See yourself without needing to shit on or change yourself, and then you can do the same with others.

Summary: If you're going to be a giant angry dickhead hypocrite, be self-aware about how similar you are to others in that regard, and learn to laugh at yourself. That's how you can gain eventually gain freedom from it.