Long time no talk TRP. Since my last couple posts I have taken my own advice, and have not been reading TRP for a few months now. But I've returned with a simple nugget to share right now, as I've seen it prevalent in many mens lives, and occasionally in my own.
TL;DR: Women will test to see if you are invested in them. Don't be.
Testing The Line - The Orbit Test - The Investment Test
The Investment Test is a form of shit test, or more accurately, a comfort test geared at testing your investment in them. Recently I had a woman text me "Tell me a cool fact, JugglingSoManyThings". I wondered to myself, why would she ask for that? Initially my unassuming mind figured she was bored, but I dug deeper. What makes a woman bored? I realized it must be a lack of validation. So what did I do? Nothing. I put my phone away and went on throughout my day.
Few hours later, lo and behold, another text from her. "JSMT, I'm having a bad day, talk to me about anything?". My mind rattled briefly with the bluepill thought that maybe she is just having a bad day, maybe I should help. I decided against it. A couple hours later I'm on instagram and see photos of her with one of her orbiters, talking about how hes such a great friend. His face was laden with desperation.
Women have lines cast out every which way, all hooked to or attempting to hook some validation. When they are feeling a lack in validation they will test these lines, and attempt to reel in someone who will pat their head and tell them they're beautiful. Don't fall for it. You're not the only person who got that text, but you could very well be the only one that doesnt bite. The men who bite the line arent the ones biting her nipples, ya feel?
The next day she texts me some sexual Harry Potter reference and says she wants to come visit me. Logistics ensued.
Validation doesnt create sexual tension. Dont bite the line.
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