Ok, so I almost was willing to let this go but the other night my wife demonstrated she didn't understand "The Wall." Even though we've had this conversation more times than I can count (in fairness we've been together over seven years).

I'm sure this was a shit test but I gave zero fucks and put her in the place she needed to be. Reality.

So she starts talking about one of her good friends who is 32. Said friend moved to Chicago to get away from her friends and family who were enabling her self-destructive and infantile behavior (they did do this mind you, albeit reluctantly at times). Said friend has never had a healthy relationship. She was raped once while going to college and lost her full ride scholarship and just never got back to reality. She took jobs working in day care till she couldn't because of a series of DUIs (thus moving to Chicago so she wouldn't need a car and other reasons), and wound up working full-time in restaurants.

In Chicago she had zero luck finding boyfriend till a short and balding 44 year old guy came sniffing around. My wife's friend was admittedly a royal bitch to him to try and get him to go away since he was not "hawt" enough to date. Going so far as to tell him that his wife who died of cancer was better off without him (this is what my wife is telling me).

Well she relents at one point because no other decent suitors are coming around to start a relationship with her. Just the usual drug abusing, woman abusing, stealing money from women, scum bags who she had a habit of banging for the longest time. She doesn't want to be so superficial. The guy is a college professor and after a few months of dating, takes her to Costa Rica for a vacation.

During said vacation she's posting to FB about how pathetic and fat he is, and that he's a sissy (this happened). So less than a week after they got back he tells her he's done, via text (his only smart move to date), and that he still wants to be friends (be the better person).

Friend is devastated, doesn't understand what she did wrong, blah blah post-wall hamstering post-wall hamstering post-wall delusional dumb fuck reality defying hamstering (nothing new from any woman over 30). So my wife joins in claiming she doesn't understand what happened.

I chimed back, "the guy grew a set of nuts and realized your friend was a bad investment."

"But he took her shit for so long and all of sudden he's done. That's stupid."

Me- "Eh that's how life works, you treat people poorly, they are bound to leave. I love you, but I got a pre-nup, and setup my Trusts because I know one day you could get sick and tired of me and leave. And I'd be stuck dating younger women, exploiting them, and debasing them for my own amusement. You know what I do now without you in the picture."

Of course my wife got an annoyed look on her face but i had to remind her what our reality was. Didn't want her claiming ignorance, ignorance isn't a defense.

"It's just stupid, for him to put up with all that and decide he's done."

Me - "No, what was stupid was dating your friend after she was a bitch to him. He was paying mansion prices for shitty shack value." Women are typically depreciating assets like houses unless they are maintained and improved on occasion.

"It's just stupid, to break up with her after their vacation like that."

Me - "He was done babe. Your friend had every chance to love this guy, treat him well, be affectionate and give him every reason not to leave her. She chose not to and made his decision to leave as easy a flamethrower goes through butter. I now have drop of respect for this guy and want to give him a hug for finally manning up and doing the smart thing."

"I don't know man, that just seems stupid."

Me - "No, dating a woman over 30 for more than a few months if she isn't bringing additional women to the table is stupid. Dating a woman who insults you is stupid. Dating a woman who doesn't like to give head is stupid [friend claims to hate giving oral]. Dating your friend is stupid. Getting the fuck away from your friend like his testicles would fall off if he didn't is nobel prize genius. He's the victim, your friend is a stupid bitch who never listened to me, her father, or her mother about cleaning herself up and finding a decent guy to date that would love and appreciate her."

"I guess."

"Guess all you want babe. Facts are facts. Women over 30 are typically far less desirable than women age 19-24. You and I have history, loyalty, substance, and having each others' backs. If I met you today without knowing you, I'd walk right past you and you know it."

"You can be an asshole sometimes."

Me - "Of course I am because I'm telling you the truth most women refuse to understand or hear. I love you but I can live without you. And guess what, most men can live without a woman over the age of 30. I choose to live with you because of who you are and who you continue to be. You turn into your friend. Well fuck, I'd rather pull the pin on that grenade than keep waiting for it to go off."

Wife tried to use her friend's actions to parallel compare her situation. Obvious shit test. Wife wanted me to have sympathy for a woman I told would die alone for the last seven years if she kept the act up or she'd end up with a worthless piece of garbage that abused her. Wife tried to pretend that if a man makes a mistake in how he engages a woman, he has no right to correct and move on. So I shut that shit down and called out her attempt to game me into feeling sympathy for her friend.

Pussy is low value and abundant, and if you invest well in your body, earning potential, and game. It's also easily replaced.

But women will try and paint you as an idiot or as fool if you get on with a bitch and then proceed to dump her after you exhaust your attempt to building a loving and affectionate valuable relationship. While also calling you an idiot and pathetic for being in said relationship. So the biggest lesson is to not give a fuck what women say if they aren't sucking your dick.

And yes I fucked my wife like I owned her and made her swallow my cum lie she was in a desert searching for water for days. The next day my wife agreed that her friend was an idiot for not appreciating such a guy willing to take such a chance on her.

Give no shits, reinforce the truth, fuck like you are a god.