How many of you have been cheated on?

Docbear64 · 2018-01-24T18:22:01+00:00

TLDR; Yes my highschool sweetheart cheated twice before I dumped her, years later she admitted to me my absence showed her how much value I had brought to her life , Schadenfruede accomplished.

Full story : I was with a highschool sweetheart , my first girlfriend , the one I lost my virginity with and blah blah . Important note she and her family are very religious . At the time I was 20 and we'd been together two years, she told me that God and a prophetess told her we needed to take a break for one month from each other. Me being young , stupid, and truly believing she was more in touch with God then I was thought maybe she was onto something since things were getting stale and committed the next month to improving myself and eagerly awaiting our reconciliation .

The day we got back together was underwhelming at best and come to find out over the next few days she had grown awfully close to a guy who attended her church who she told me she'd always considered a little brother. We break up , she occasionally fucks me while starting to date him , and eventually they fall apart and I being a blue pilled simp at the time welcome her back with open arms.

The second time is right around our 6 year anniversary , I thought things were going ok and the past cheating and fucked up love triangle we had was done. Again things are getting stale but not bad . She comes over to my parents place and we have a great night together. She proceeds to tell me how ( completely unbeknownst to me) she had been having second doubts about our relationship and how through this night I had "won" over her potential other suitor ( a man I didn't even know about).

For that first night I felt incredible I'd won a game I hadn't even known I was playing but after that I was reminded about how shitty I had felt and how I'd promised myself the first time she cheated if she ever pulled some dishonest sneaky shit like that again then we were fucking done. So two days later I broke up with her and have absolutely no regrets. I actually am a better man from that experience .

Blue pill simps get on my nerves because I had to be one of the most sacrificial blue pill boyfriends in existence, whatever she wanted I gave her, she was plastered all over my social media, we talked on the phone whenever she wanted to , hell I remember a valentines day where I rented a hotel room with her , and ate her out and when I asked her to reciprocate she scrunched up her face and told me no like I was a vile creature and not her boyfriend of 4 years and I went along with it .

Being a slave to pussy is just that being a slave to pussy , it doesn't make you a " real man" . The amount of money , time , and energy I burned on her and her social circle has really taught me how valuable my money , time , and energy is and why there's a very small pool of people who get to enjoy any of it with me .

A few years ago ( after our relationship) we had dinner and her admission that me not being around helped her realize just how hard life was without me was all the schadenfreude I needed . Also she tried to " casually" ask me if I was making more money and I as indirectly as possible said " Oh hell yeah " .

stoopididoit · 2018-01-24T19:06:09+00:00

I know they didn't fuck

Yeah, they never fuck it's just secret dirty emails and texts all day long..............

mthrowaway52 · 2018-01-24T20:51:19+00:00

Let's make this simple.

If you've been in a relationship with a female, you've been cheated on.

AWALT

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2018-01-24T19:01:50+00:00

Me too

Raggs2010 · 2018-01-24T20:40:40+00:00

Two decades ago my first wife did while we were married and was pregnant from the guy. I didn't know that when I left her. It came out later and to my surprise the Judge made her give a statement that the child was not mine. When I found out I wasn't that upset. I was glad to be away from that wreck. The other guy could have her(they got married).

stoopididoit · 2018-01-24T19:44:59+00:00

Okay. First though I would say you'd be hard pressed to find any man over 30 (that actively pursues relationships with women) that hasn't been cheated on at some point (whether they know it or not).

My first love cheated (we were teens) and I learned some pretty painful truths from it, but not enough to over ride my desire for sex and companionship, and of course I still believed that nawalt.

Years later in my late 20's I was living with a buddy and his wife, they were friends (I thought). We were pretty social so we had typical parties that any younger crowd will. One late night after one of those parties I woke up on the living room floor (not uncommon since I lived there) to my friends wife performing fellatio on me. I should have stopped her but I was a young horndog so I didn't. I did have something of an internal battle over it as I thought myself to be of better character, but in the end I kept it to myself. While I did regret it I also realize now that if it hadn't been me it would have been someone else. They later split anyway and it never seemed like an appropriate thing to bring up after that.

tearteto1 · 2018-01-24T20:42:32+00:00

Dated for two years; cheated after I had put her back together in time for her pre university exams - spent so much effort and wasted time I didn't study as much. Dropped 5 grades and missed all my uni offers.

Dated during my last year at uni - she cheated - I had to drop out for therapy required medical reasons. I'm still in said therapy.

No more.

Notmyrealaccount733 · 2018-01-24T19:03:07+00:00

A total of 4 relationships in my life, one involved marriage. Cheated on in all of them, dozens of times.

2018-01-24T20:54:26+00:00

Yup. No proof, but her actions after going home for her Christmas break spoke volumes.

ChrisBrownApologist · 2018-01-24T18:38:53+00:00

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TheoTasty · 2018-01-24T19:00:33+00:00

Never

As far as I know

phathack · 2018-01-24T19:54:53+00:00

.. #Metoo

nunhgrader · 2018-01-24T23:10:40+00:00

Yes of course - with a scare of a venereal disease (luckily avoided) - disgusting. AWALT

Tehbailiff · 2018-01-25T00:33:58+00:00

Yes, born 1991

My first few HS girlfriends did not but my longest relationship of three years cheated with me twice during that period.

After that was mostly fine except for one other GF that cheated.

I have always more or less believed that a cheater will always cheat so I cut off contact and never went back.

The first big cheater really tore me up though.

2018-01-25T11:16:34+00:00

metooo

Every serious relationship i've been involved in resulted in lying and cheating. The bitch two bitches ago, as i was moving out and packing up all my shit... she looks at me and says "oh, you're taking all your dishware, those are really nice.. i figured you would just leave them for me". At the time, i didnt yet know she was cheating but fuck if she won't try and squeeze out every last penny or favor from you while she can. I laughed and said no.

Don't fall for their lies, don't even give them the opportunity to g et close enough to start on the manipulation tactics. just don't fucking do it.

Edit: Women aren't a nike commercial. Quite the opposite.

NoodleeAppendage · 2018-01-24T21:53:33+00:00

Last girl I dated (only for a couple months, wasn't anything serious) told me she went and fucked her ex but we should still be friends. LOL nope. Told her to have a nice night and dropped her off at her place. I was pissed but didn't yell, as much as I wanted to. She tried to contact me a few times after that but I ghosted her.

RedNyerson · 2018-01-24T21:58:46+00:00

YO, I have...after I "saved" her by getting a place with her, paying for it, and then spending most of the winter alone, watching horror movies while she fucked her junky ex.

2018-01-24T23:15:33+00:00

yep. ex wife did it (4 people that I know of). ex gf did it (1 person that I know of). I've had a few other casual relationships but those 2 are the only serious ones I've ever been in. Pretty certain the casuals were fucking other people too since I was. wouldn't really call that cheating since we were nothing more than FWB.

Watchingcluturefade · 2018-01-25T09:40:59+00:00

6 "relationships" over 6 months, 4 have cheated. I have never cheated. (I am now 37)

Yashugan00 · 2018-01-25T12:00:10+00:00

For me being red pill means realising we've all been cheated on, whether we know it or not.

Bitches ain't loyal.
She's not yours it's just your turn

somuchluv2give · 2018-01-25T00:18:06+00:00

metoo

poapratensis · 2018-01-25T00:51:12+00:00

I've had 17 dates in my life. Of those 5 could be considered steady girlfriends with an expectation of exclusivity. One cheated, I found out, and dumped. But this was all before 2007. Yesterday is another country as they say.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2018-01-25T02:05:31+00:00

#metoo

I’ll need to dig up the treasure trove for fun posting sometime.

2018-01-25T15:10:05+00:00

Ex had a huge drinking problem and minor schizo. She was perfectly fine until she started drinking. Could go through a handle in about 2 to 3 hours. Anyways we used to live together at her apartment. Got drunk one night,got into a argunment, I left. Found out about 3 hours later she called her ex boyfriend over drunk amd fucked him then drove him home the next morning. He had the nerve to call me up and tell me this WHILE at her apartment. Told him id snap his fucking neck and leave him in the woods for his mother to find him if I ever saw him. Apparently he beat her face in when they were together after getting drunk and knocked her front teeth out. So she goes and fucks him after me being gone for 3 hours. 2 years down the drain. Fucking shows you how women really are. Luckily this is how I discovered MGTOW. God opens the doors I guess lol

turbospeedsc · 2018-01-25T19:07:44+00:00

Long Story:

I had a 6 year relationship with a single mother ( huge mistake) and had my daughter with her, we went thru all the stuff couples go thru, we went from a small house to living in a beach house during 3 years, i got beta to the max, she had iphone,ipad,$500 sunglasses,$300 boots, DSLR camera,english bulldog, a decent car, $500 knives, heck the house had everything we even had a chest freezer ( you buy those once you run out of things to buy). Then i got a very good job out of town, so i slept 3 days out of town, something started to smell fishy, long story short i put a keylogger on her ipad. I found a shithole of the size of texas, with guys sleeping over with both kids on the other room, she even had dates with the guys and invited my 4 yo daughter over, and teached her how to lie to me about them, she even got mad at a xmas present i gave my daughter because one of her lovers was planning to give her the same thing.

I got out of the house with a trash bag with clothes and my laptop.

She ended up keeping 10 years worth of my work ( in México were conditioned that in divorces women keep everything for the kids), that lasted her a full 2 years. She now lives with one of her lovers (who used to be my employee), in a shitty neighborhood, even had to sell the fridge at one point, now she has plastic chair with a folding table, guess karma is a bitch.

Myself , well i had some financials ups and down, but ended up with a 23yo Gf, a decent 7-8, no kids, autistic kids teacher, while i had some ups a downs like everyone, shes now my happy wife, and in the same time it took my ex to waste all the money and things she kept, i rebuilt my life and im almost at the same level i was before.

Title	How many of you have been cheated on?
Author	IslandicFreedom
Upvotes	52
Comments	43
Date	January 24, 2018 5:52 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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