Man finds gf has been cheating on him for 15+ years. Reddit advice's him not to get paternity tests.

MagnusVeritas · 2018-01-20T22:52:23+00:00

All women advocate and conceal each other's infidelity. Men are painfully naive to the reality of female nature. Women are sociopaths and expert deceivers.

Sol_Install · 2018-01-20T23:00:44+00:00

This "right thing to do" mentality is nonsense. If it held water, then men would never care for paternity tests. And if it never really mattered, then why did no one tell men as boys about it growing up? The idea they keep pushing is to take advantage of good men. If those posts telling him to raise kids that are not his own are so "right", why don't they encourage him to have the wife tell the kids the truth then? Because they will turn on the mother for being a deceitful piece of trash. If a man CHOOSES to take on children that are not his own, that is his call.

This shit is disgusting. These people support cheating and cuckolding. This one idiot argues that it's wrong for the man to leave the kids. The potential real father? Gets a free pass. The cheating whore? A free pass. The only one who gets humiliated is this honest hardworking caring father. WHO DID NOTHING WRONG. This fucking idiot thinks genetics mean nothing. Right. Because we sure do live in a world in which people trade kids like Pokemon cards right? Even wild animals don't support this shit.

Tama_drummer_man · 2018-01-20T23:30:50+00:00

"Although she cheated on me once on a long vacation many many years ago, way before we had kids. It took me a long time, but I forgave her for what really was just a stupid travelling mistake."

No such thing matey! Now, you are paying for it dearly...

boringcarpets · 2018-01-20T23:36:56+00:00

Paternity years should be mandatory, or every man should just get one regardless. why just believe what a woman says when you can have definitive evidence one way or the other?

deuslucis · 2018-01-21T00:13:13+00:00

Well that's depressing. Read this comment -

"What? Nobody is shaming anyone except those men who blame children for their mothers’ mistakes & abandon them after years of care because they think not sharing blood absolves them of responsibility. Sorry, it doesn’t work that way in the real world. He’s raised these kids their whole lives. It would be one thing if they were like 6 months old, but their whole father figure is OP. Biologically or not- they’re his children. ESPECIALLY if his name is on the birth certificate. Then it doesn’t matter whose DNA they actually carry, the law almost always sides with the paperwork and he WILL be on the hook for child support or custody (whichever he’s going after) if/when he gets a divorce."

Seems like they are first trying to use that stalk argument "family is more than blood". Then the second paragraph is them just saying "the law is forcing responsibility on you".

hollybegin · 2018-01-21T00:42:51+00:00

Although she cheated on me once on a long vacation many many years ago, way before we had kids. It took me a long time, but I forgave her for what really was just a stupid travelling mistake.

Okayyyyyy....

We put that episode behind us and I have trusted her wholeheartedly and completely for more than 10 years now.

WTF?

She is generally quite a reasonable person (present circumstances excluded) and I dont think she is especially malicious, so i cant imagine a scenario where she would try to keep my kids away from me or even screw me over in any other way.

Ok. He's an idiot. Nobody can help him.

I have seen messages to her lover talking about the future together and stuff.

......

DarwinianKEKistani · 2018-01-20T23:25:05+00:00

Relationships is dominated by toxic women.... I dont want to read that shit before sleep. Yes im in Europe

Blogginginvicecity · 2018-01-21T00:59:33+00:00

"Stupid travelling mistake"??????

Jesus fuck, you have to be blinded by love to believe that shit. That's such an insulting hamster too

EpicWinningFTW · 2018-01-20T22:52:07+00:00

Poor guy

BigBenIsAwesome · 2018-01-20T23:19:51+00:00

Again? I still don't know why more people Don't mgtow? Seems rational to me.

PantsInBed · 2018-01-21T02:23:02+00:00

I get a shit ton of down votes for simple logic there all the time. For example, a woman working in an insurance company had a customer give her gifts and compliments, which she happily took, but she felt uncomfortable when he made further advancements and didn't know how to deal with it. I wrote:

He paid you compliments and gave you gifts. At 25 you should know better than to accept, so you basically set yourself up for this situation. Don't take gifts from men you're not into. Call him and apologize if you made him think you were interested in more than business, and that he can have his gifts back if he wants them.

That comment has received many down votes and are way down in the negative, because "muh gifts".

Fyodor007 · 2018-01-21T02:36:23+00:00

I feel bad for him. He's trying so hard to not see the truth about his wife. That must feel terrible.

2018-01-21T02:47:21+00:00

Reddit is mainly a leftist overly feminized shit hole populated by desperate numales numbly reciting PC rhetoric so frankly this doesn't surprise me

PadaV4 · 2018-01-21T04:41:16+00:00

Paternity test should be mandatory. I have a suspicion that nationwide paternity tests would turn up horrifying results.

NondeductibleWays · 2018-01-21T02:38:55+00:00

That advice is really fucked up. Occasionally a guy like that stumbles HERE and asks for the same advice and gets told "wrong sub"… but the same members are quick to go there and tag "mgtow" everywhere. This is a best sub for any kind of impartial advice in all of reddit and women have no access to it. Hate to see members treating it like an echo chamber when it is a true male space.

rauletto · 2018-01-21T03:35:55+00:00

wow 15+ years.. how..what..how the f^#$

Million-Suns · 2018-01-21T03:41:20+00:00

My culture values children. I assumed yours did too. What culture do you come from where people only care for their genetic lineage? Are you allowed to care for a spouse even if they aren't a blood relative?

What kind of argument is that? Even if we care about children that are not ours biologically , should we be forced to care about them financially too?

Why X random man does not pay child support for Y random children then?

Stupidest argument ever.

wawakaka · 2018-01-21T01:50:13+00:00

time to call RICK SANCHEZ

2018-01-21T04:52:57+00:00

People saying he should pay child support even if they are not his are fucking retarded. I hate these people.

2018-01-21T05:14:09+00:00

Only idiots ask questions they don't want to know the answer to.

This is the most cucktarded thing I've ever read.

kiwi_like_me · 2018-01-21T06:03:50+00:00

Just try having kids and then looking at a kid you've called 'yours' for years and deciding to explain to them that you're not their 'real dad'.

ITT: people who speak from ivory towers.

Stahlboden · 2018-01-21T06:51:59+00:00

The procreative goal of a man is to spread his seed, to leave his "genetic heritage" thrive after him in the future.

The procreative goal of a female is to choose the best male possible and grant him her 'gina because SHE decided so.

So, when a woman is denied her goal it feels very painful and humiliating just because of how deeply it's ingrained in our psyche, how important is sexuality in our lifes. When a man decides to have access to her gina without her consent we call it rape. And it has been kinda big topic lately too

If a man is denied his goal to spread his genet... actually, nevermind. Genetics doesn't really matter, he should take his responsibility, the child deserves a family and paternity tests are threatening we have to ban them.

MGTOWManofMystery · 2018-01-21T07:00:20+00:00

It's amazing there is even a debate about this. It shows how cucked the West has become.

2018-01-21T09:10:24+00:00

Thread deleted and comments blocked.

Some of OP's last comments:

"Thanks. Good advice. I have no plans to jump into the dating game for the foreseeable future. I'm going to focus on my kids happiness and making bank so that we have continue to have solid financial future. Those two things are my main concerns. Thanks for your comment."

Why do you think she may not have cheated around the time the kids were conceived?

"Because we were with each other pretty much all the time back then. The situation was very different then, including her work obligations. I know the exact moments both kids were conceived, trust me...!"

OP is so much in denial that he doesen't even think about testing them just to be safe.

lexanimata · 2018-01-21T10:58:45+00:00

I can't stand kids and wouldn't want any, but if you raised a little runt for 18 years would DNA be a huge deal? (dunno how old that dude's kids were).

I fully get that from a moral (and at times legal) stand point he'd have every reason to absolve responsibility.

I dunno, maybe I'm a bitch but if I raised a kid from 0-18 and for almost 2 decades he looked up to me as his father, well I'd have a hard time just severing that tie with him. The mother? She'd be dead to me.

Being a bit of an anti-natalist I've always found the idea of a 'genetic lineage' to be a bit of an evolutionary throw back. The desire to reproduce seems to me to be a an adaptation to increase fecundity among a species. Its probably the same kind of faulty left-over neural wiring that leads modern man to get obese, jack off all day on cheap internet porn and believe in a magic sky-daddy.

TL:DR: It's not morally wrong for a guy to leave the kids (it might be a bit shitty on them) but I wouldn't judge a dude who decides to stay.

alamsohel1990 · 2018-01-21T06:55:27+00:00

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fredanderssen · 2018-01-21T08:12:15+00:00

The kid is ALWAYS hers, so she has no idea what it feels like to be cuckolded. If there was some alternate universe where she couldn't be sure the kid was hers after pushing it out, you can be damned sure she'd be getting a maternity test.

Hwga_lurker_tw · 2018-01-21T08:57:43+00:00

Mandatory paternity tests should be the norm. If anything to prevent the state from stealing the kid in the event of female chimaerism (the perfect excuse).

2018-01-21T13:01:11+00:00

To be fair he's probably better off not getting a paternity test.

He will be on the hook for child support anyway. I think the only thing worse then paying child support, is knowing that your paying for someone else's kids

2018-01-21T15:23:28+00:00

Idiot fool didn't cut her loose when she cheated on him 10 years ago. It's ultimately his own damn fault. No pity for him.

2018-01-22T17:22:56+00:00

There's a fool born every second. Till this very day dumbass men ask retarded randoms on reddit for advice. Fucking retarded.

Title	Man finds gf has been cheating on him for 15+ years. Reddit advice's him not to get paternity tests.
Author	deuslucis
Upvotes	226
Comments	102
Date	January 20, 2018 10:30 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/7rtn6c/man_finds_gf_has_been_cheating_on_him_for_15/
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