I think my "roast me or rate me" post yesterday showed that attractiveness is subjective and just because some people think you're unattractive doesn't mean everyone else will, too. Personally, I think I'm "okay" but it seems to be a hit or miss with other people. We can't all be attractive to everyone, nor should we expect to be, and just because we can't pull every Chad or Becky that we see out in public doesn't mean that you're unattractive and there's no hope for you. I understand that rejection feels bad and we've all been there (some more than others), but giving up is the worst thing anyone can do for themselves. Basically, a self-fulfilling prophecy. It takes work to be successful. Go out into the real world and start talking to people. Ask questions. Take an interest in others. Your tentacle hentai porn will still be on the computer screen when you return.

Having not had much sexual success myself due to loads of misunderstandings from lack of communication, failure to act/missing the moment, uncertainty, lack of desire from myself or the other person, my introvertedness, and general confusion with the modern dating world and human nature, I know how it feels, but I also know that unless I make the effort to change that, nothing will ever happen and I'll be relying on luck to get anywhere with women. Not the smartest place to be, so I say to anyone feeling lonely or having trouble with the opposite sex: Don't Give Up. There are plenty of people out there that are worth the effort. You have to make an effort to be there and be ready when they show up in your life.

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Take care and positive vibes to all in quarantine. Don't forget to get some sunlight.

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Happy Purge Week.