What's your personal red flags

Iqbal40862715 · 2020-05-20T13:39:38+00:00

No fatties, no uggoes, no single mothers, no tattoos, no vegans, no piercings (other than ears), no hair colours not found in nature, no liberal arts graduates, no "socialists"

Iqbal40862715 · 2020-05-20T14:08:32+00:00

99.99999999999 percent of female behavior is a red flag for me.

m1ghty_b4g · 2020-05-20T14:26:41+00:00

Girls who drink like a fucking vikings, the ones that are on their cell phones all day long (yeah, basically everyone) and the kind of girls who dress like a whores no matter the situation. I fucking hate those leggings, they use them just to attract men and they know it very well.

Annual-Wonder · 2020-05-20T16:08:49+00:00

If she breathe its a red flag, if not that's another red flag.

_freespeechisdead · 2020-05-20T14:20:47+00:00

I'm sure most people will cover the obvious ones in this thread so I won't bother too much with that. Ask what she likes about you. If she can't answer or lists what you do for her and barely says anything about you as a person that's a pretty big yikes. You have no idea how common this is. Better yet, avoid the shit show all together you're probably not gonna win the NAWALT lottery.

hrm0894 · 2020-05-20T16:29:22+00:00

Has a vagina.

hrm0894 · 2020-05-20T16:30:08+00:00

Her ex was "abusive." I.e. He told her "no" that one time.

capricorn40 · 2020-05-20T14:18:07+00:00

Don't drive or own a car. I don't give a frig if your city has an "excellent" public transportation system. If we have to do anything, I'll end up being the taxi driver.

I also found out people that don't drive have zero respect for people that do. "What do you mean you can't drive cross town during rush hours? It's only 5 miles!"

Syngin9 · 2020-05-20T15:02:15+00:00

Blue hair.

Ody_ssey · 2020-05-20T15:31:38+00:00

No female friends.

Sorikaner · 2020-05-20T18:19:34+00:00

Coloured hair.
Male friends.
Ultra-Leftist.
Debt.
Talks bad about her family/friends.
Is a "victim" of sexual assault.
Was fat and then lost a lot of weight (usually hold a lot of bitterness).
Doesn't like The Simpsons.

TigPlaze · 2020-05-20T16:40:26+00:00

Within five minutes of meeting you, she asks, "What do you do." That's code for "How much money do you make?" Also, tats and weird piercings. If she claims she's a "strong woman," it means she's listened to feminists and thinks it's perfectly fine behavior to be rude and obnoxious to people. Really, any feminist cliche is a red flag. Stupid hair colors such as blue or pink are also red flags, as are hairy armpits.

hankoBreadCrumbs89 · 2020-05-20T18:57:27+00:00

Any woman who displays liberal views

hamburgerstake · 2020-05-20T16:46:42+00:00

If she breathes, she's a thot.

Sexy_McHandsome · 2020-05-20T22:30:50+00:00

I don't date but I would say any sort of disinterest would tip me off. Women would move the world for Chad so if you have to force anything she's not into you. Also, women have limitless options so if they aren't showing interest in you there is a chad on tinder close by.

CertainCrow1 · 2020-05-20T15:09:54+00:00

Eh my stbx insisted right until the end I was too muscular.. although to be fair it was more don't work in bulking up more . Make yourself more like Bruce Lee build. Which is not my body type at all lol but I was closer to that when I first met her.. had been doing lots or circuit training style and cardio so was the most toned I'd ever been with a real genuine 6 pack, but not as strong as I am now.

But yeah I deal with all the big ones.. slut (escort in college, herpes) gone good church girl, all her supposedly toxic relationships before, daddy wasnt there, mommy was abusive, past suicide attempts, and falling into depression before marriage, tried to convince me to get circumcised shortly before marriage (I know....sunk cost fallacy, too committed).. the works..also people asking if I was sure she even loved me, also 7.5 years older... Yeah I couldn't be helped period no argument. so yeah to me if she's a woman that's enough even if I did pick a perfect storm. I'm done, plus it's against my personal religious beliefs to remarry

I-hate-this-place- · 2020-05-20T15:43:11+00:00

Well a nice little red flag game to play when I was in the dating world was the “she not worth dating long term if she has sex with me before “X” amount of dates/time. Mine was only 3 dates or 3 weeks. Now they didn’t know they were playing this game, and I did every I could do make them wanna hook up immediately and the amount of women that failed this test was quite high. The women that passed the test were were usually high quality or had great games themselves.

slamdunktiger86 · 2020-05-20T16:57:28+00:00

I basically run through the Kaiser Adverse Childhood Effect quiz in my head as I’m talking to them.

I’m really trying to figure out their baseline behavior and the real baseline behavior. Looking for the depth or lack of self-knowledge.

How they self-medicate is really easy and fast.

The amount of luxury goods and addiction to their phone is also indicitive of narcissism, hypergamy and potential sociopathy.

Relationship to father is important. If he’s not in the picture, I know I’m talking to a more hyper-specialized individual with more issues as well.

Notch count.

rahmoune7 · 2020-05-20T18:24:04+00:00

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krakizwak · 2020-05-20T16:05:59+00:00

"All my exes are crazy".

CamelTraderOfBabylon · 2020-05-20T16:13:59+00:00

-No hobbies -No goals or ambitions -Easy to get with in bed -Shitty friends is a pretty obvious one but often overlooked -Generally stay away from liberals as they have more extreme political views.

Morb357 · 2020-05-20T19:16:50+00:00

Colored hair.....ohhh a penis, that's a big red flag. ; ) Never know what you're going to find these days in clown world.

thucydides404 · 2020-05-20T19:51:55+00:00

Family tragedy in past (baggage deluxe). Hyperactive attitude. Speaking incessantly. Likes crap music like Selena Gomez, Drake and those talentless prats (influenced but their hedonistic carousel championing). Friends who are not pleasant to be around. Says they prefer dad bods (lying, or if serious, insecure about a fit man looking better than them - more baggage). Lack of basic cooking skills. And most importantly, inability to make a nice cup of tea.

Batman_MGTOW · 2020-05-20T20:49:17+00:00

Read those:

https://www.returnofkings.com/16837/24-signs-shes-a-slut

https://www.returnofkings.com/23539/26-more-signs-shes-a-slut

https://www.returnofkings.com/97863/13-signs-that-a-woman-is-toxic

F-F-FIREBALL · 2020-05-20T22:26:33+00:00

I find girls who are always on their phone to be 100% unattractive. Even if they have a nice body or pretty face their lifestyle completely clashes with mine. The only time I am on my phone is when I have to make a call.

I like to uhhh FUCKEN' run around! Pick up big sticks and bash them into trees! I like climbing on shit (swinging on shit too) and looking at the world through childlike eyes. Most girls I see don't like doing those thing. They're rare over in WA.

tsundokume · 2020-05-20T22:28:58+00:00

From my personal experiences:

Any girl who calls me "daddy" that is a sign of mental instability and I am not going to play the role of guidance counselor
Sends nudes within the first few days of me talking to her, the most this relationship will go is casual
Overly political
Attitude problems
On her phone too much
Is rude to strangers/waiters/cashiers/call center people
Talks about how bad men are even if I'm an "exception"
Cannot hold a conversation or even attempt to tell a joke
Can't take a joke/banter with me
Asks me to buy her things
Is pushy/demanding
Does not respect my privacy or my desire to be left alone
Has no respect for my hobbies and interests (she doesn't need to do them, just don't look down on them)

rahmoune7 · 2020-05-20T23:43:28+00:00

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Perseus_the_Bold · 2020-05-21T00:14:37+00:00

My personal Red Flags are:

Ages between 20 and 35 (most likely to feel entitled and can manipulate her army of simps against you just to fuck with you)
When a woman very obviously tries to be aloof when she is very obviously thirsty.
Good handbag and cheap shoes - it means she is a pretentious hoe that's too stupid to pull it off.
When they soften their voice - this always means manipulation
When she inquires about your relationships with others, asking how you get along with your family, who are your friends and what you do with them or what you think of them. She is mining you for personal information in order to fuck with your mind so thoroughly that it puts both the CIA and the NSA to shame.
When they want to know where you live. Big fucking red flag right there!
When they wear Yoga pants or leggings while they look like they just woke up put on a sweater and just walked out as is.
Long nails, it advertises that she is a lazy bitch who expects you to be the simp.
Hair of any unnatural color.
When they invade your personal space. This indicates that she believes she can manipulate you and it's also communicating "fuck your personal space, I believe I own you simp!"
When they are unaware of other humans in the room.

Just to name a few.

_MCMXCVI_ · 2020-05-20T17:57:31+00:00

You know, I have a lot of tattoos and it always bothers women when I tell them I'm not into women with tats. I just think it takes away from how they really look.

Sorikaner · 2020-05-20T20:26:38+00:00

Anything physical that signals feminism (coloured hair in unnatural ways, clothing etc.)

I don't like women who dresses like sluts (include hooker short pants/skirts, see-through pants/leggings, see-through shirt and etc.)

Too much make-up and long nails (because then they signals that they think they are a 10 when in reality they are between 2-6)

If she have to have her feet on the chair (for me, only children do that)

Tattoos who can't easily be covered or are on her thighs, boobs/cleavage, ass and so on, but I can accept a simple tattoo on the wrist or something like that

Club girls because club girl = high body count and are probably semi-alcoholic

Girls who went to Gymnasium (High School/College in Scandinavia) and didn't know what they want to read afterwards (signals that they just follow the trend of all others and don't think for themselfes) and girls who have an higher university degree (because we all know that women don't date down and they have wasted their time when they where most valuable as potential mothers of a mans children)

Single mothers (especially if they are white and have mix-raced kids with either arabs or blacks, because for me, that signals she have either daddy issues or hate being white, if not both)

sapereAudeAndStuff · 2020-05-20T21:01:31+00:00

Being a woman.

The more I understood women the less I hated them, but also the less I wanted anything to do with them on a personal level.

mypoopsocks · 2020-05-20T23:51:43+00:00

Girl that act rude and say shits like "its me deal with it" and proudly tell it to everyone

BoogersAndSugar · 2020-05-20T23:57:36+00:00

Women who go out of their way to claim "looks aren't important" cannot be trusted. If she's attractive but has a history of dating ugly guys, that's not a sign of "virtue", but exactly the opposite.

Joroda · 2020-05-21T00:26:12+00:00

Any woman who has the rights of men but without the responsibilities.

mesaboogeytool · 2020-05-21T00:43:27+00:00

Alcohol.

Unhappy-Technician · 2020-05-21T01:05:41+00:00

I had an ex with multiple emails, multiple Twitter accounts, and Facebook accounts, she was a huge time cheater too, so I'd consider that a red flag

hankoBreadCrumbs89 · 2020-05-21T01:17:19+00:00

The most appalling thing is when a 20 something year old liberal, ignores her “beliefs” for a guy who’s tall and throws the pussy at him. Fucking hypocrites.

rayedward363 · 2020-05-21T01:33:36+00:00

A subtle red flag is when they say that they also love whatever hobby you told her about. Seems innocent, but then you realize that she never mentions a hobby first. She's merely trying to seem interesting to you without bringing substance.

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-05-20T14:57:11+00:00

Talking people without a Y chromosome. And healthily suspicious to people who do.

simpleguychilling · 2020-05-20T16:09:34+00:00

If a woman is interested in me she wants something anything (not my d&$k either) and I’m over giving them anything.

ImAwakeISH · 2020-05-20T16:28:47+00:00

If you gangbang her to get out of the relationship but she sticks around

CoinSwapTrader · 2020-05-20T17:12:57+00:00

Like reassuring a cow while you walk it to the slaughterhouse...

CeleritySteam · 2020-05-20T18:40:20+00:00

She breathes.

ChooseTheRedPill69 · 2020-05-20T18:54:55+00:00

Being a woman

whatwhatislife · 2020-05-20T22:46:30+00:00

traveling is her only "hobby"
has way too many shoes
wants someone who can make her laugh

Since16 · 2020-05-21T01:52:59+00:00

Breathing. I had red flags but every one set them off in casual conversation.

usnraptor · 2020-05-21T04:29:04+00:00

Nowadays, wouldn't it just be easier to list the Green Flags?

observinginsilence · 2020-05-21T07:45:09+00:00

If she breathes

moriarty_056 · 2020-05-20T18:20:05+00:00

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BudynWymiata · 2020-05-21T14:42:23+00:00

If she doesn’t believe in evolution

Title	What's your personal red flags
Author	rahmoune7
Upvotes	73
Comments	104
Date	May 20, 2020 1:31 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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