I enjoy spending time by myself and I'm in monk mode for 1 year now and its nice. But people in my family is trying to convince me that I need a girlfriend.

Yesterday my aunt 64 years old and my cousins were talking about a girl that lives near us and is pretty and single and would be good for me, that she would talk with her mother, maybe she could add me on facebook and we could know each other. So, I said I would not accept her friend request and other women also sends me friend request and I ignore because I am not interested. Then I left their house and won't go there in the next few weeks to try to show that this behaviour will not be tolerated and they should respect my personal decisions and mind their own business.

Well, what could I do to be invisible to women in all ocasions like work, party, etc?? Also, how to be invisible to close friends/family about my "love life"??