FSW got banned from r/trollxchromosome, though I feel like it is a little bit of my fault, they ban me before I can reply to all the comment

Lookadoggo · 2020-01-06T04:38:45+00:00

How dare you hold women responsible for how they choose to dress. Sexist!

/s

SoundBruhEffect · 2020-01-06T04:23:44+00:00

Well I mean to be honest... You're not wrong.

mendokusai99 · 2020-01-06T07:45:13+00:00

Wants all the rights, but none of the accountability.

empatheticapathetic · 2020-01-06T04:54:00+00:00

Shouldn’t have opened with an apology. Women don’t have as much integrity in their words as men do. They’ll rate your argument more on how passionately you express it instead.

Damocles94 · 2020-01-06T04:52:45+00:00

Well you’re not wrong…

heraclitus_ephesian · 2020-01-06T05:34:10+00:00

This is an argument I can't really get behind. It rests on four bad assumptions:

Women who wear revealing clothing want to be raped: this obviously isn't true. Women who wear revealing clothing might be inviting sexual attention, but there is a huge difference between sexual attention and rape. This is a distinction that feminists have tried to erase, but we shouldn't let them.
That there is a correlation between the clothes women wear and their likelihood of getting raped. This is the main point of analogy between wearing certain types of clothing and not locking your car: obviously your car is more likely to be stolen if you don't lock it, so if women don't want to be raped - the argument goes - they would not wear revealing clothes. But according to actual data, there is no such correlation [1], [2]. Rapists rape whoever they feel like raping.
That men are mindless, brute beasts so lacking in self-control that they're driven to rape by the very sight a woman's body. This is silly and insulting: most men will never rape a woman under any circumstances, no matter how they're dressed. The few men who will rape a woman won't be deterred from doing so by modest clothing.
That we want to excuse people for committing crimes because it was easy for them to do so. Sure, people should lock their cars, because if your car is not locked, it's likelier to get stolen. The person who stole the car should still be held accountable for their actions; do you want the law to dismiss a case of grand theft auto because you weren't cautious enough with your property?

Bear in mind that the vast majority of rapists have a prior relationship with their victim [3]. If a man sets out to rape a stranger, that is a pre-meditated act, and - if the clothing of his victim has any impact on his choice of girl - it's not reflected in the numbers. If you listen to interviews with various serial killers, they frequently choose their victims based on arbitrary criteria like hair color, height, personality, someone who reminds them of their mother, etc.

2020-01-06T08:41:28+00:00

Not relevant to the sub, but I fully agree. If you put yourself in potentially dangerous situations and encounter said danger then I’m not gonna feel sorry for you. Girls who get “raped” at parties typically get wasted drunk, pass out, and are then molested by almost equally drunk men and/or women. At my Uni this happened a couple times and it prompted all of us to take this sexist, bullshit module on sexual assault that made it seem like all men were like rapist supervillains just waiting for their chance to rip off the button up and reveal their true costumes.

They claimed that if both parties are drunk and have sex then it was still the girl that was raped. Apparently feminism stops when you drink alcohol, because I even emailed them that their test was retarded, sexist, and misrepresented the issue on campus (as it was virtually non-existent and is based on an incident that occurred years before my freshman year).

jinladen040 · 2020-01-06T11:36:34+00:00

I'm just curious how the fuck they stay warm during the winter dressed that way. The thermals go on in October and stay on until March for me.

seanisgeynt · 2020-01-06T10:06:09+00:00

Actually no, they can dress however they like, but it is absolutely their responsibility if they get drunk. It isn't their fault for falling victim, but they increased the likelihood dramatically by dulling their senses and cognitive ability willingly

slimeyslime123 · 2020-01-06T14:02:15+00:00

On one hand, that's absurd. You should be able to keep your doors unlocked, windows open, and have your skirt as short as possible. On the other hand though, you're right and some people just live in a fantasy world where bad people wont exist if we tell them to stop. You're not the bad guy if a bad thing happens to you, but nobody will feel sorry for you when you're freely increasing your chances of becoming a victim. That hurts to say, but I think it's true. We do not feel sorry for people who play with fire and get burnt.

Also, I think she was wrong in the first place. "I'm not dressing like a slut". Actually, you are. Let's define slut. A sexually promiscuous woman. Do such women have a certain stereotypical appearance? Yes they do. If one were to say "you're dressed like a priest", would you respond "you're just religious"? No. That wouldn't make sense because you look like a priest and she looks like a slut. End of story.

KingMaegorTheCool · 2020-01-06T05:52:35+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrollXChromosomes/comments/ekhv4v/no_one_is_ever_asking_for_it/fdcfjue/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf In case anyone want to check it for yourself

Ser-Palme · 2020-01-06T04:23:32+00:00

You're definitely in the wrong here and you're not at all using FSW in correct context.

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SupremeGentleman92 · 2020-01-06T17:01:45+00:00

That bitch looks like she’d make a good pornstar tho

mkjohnson1127 · 2020-01-06T19:54:28+00:00

I just got banned for r/feminism for making a comment that didn’t fit their narrative. They basically delete any comments their they don’t agree with.

Edit: Lost some karma because of these feminist bitches so if you can kindly bump my karma back up a bit, I would greatly appreciate it. 😁

ChilledEfilist · 2020-01-07T21:03:01+00:00

I've articulated that same argument in a different way in the past. That was brilliant pal!

murderexplosionlord · 2020-01-06T05:09:59+00:00

i can understand the getting mad drunk part but blaming it on the clothes is unfair a women should have to cover everything to not get raped i mean men literally dont have to wear shirts

Malicious84 · 2020-01-06T06:15:37+00:00

You're wrong man. Let her wear whatever the fuck she wants to. I recently read a tweet from a girl saying "Guys, Boxers are not shorts you cannot wear them in public", to that a guy responded "don't tell us what to wear, teach girls not to stare". If I go with that logic, you are basically telling her that wearing something will get her raped. Sure it does increase the attention she gets from men but it depends on the man.

Vriwhulth · 2020-01-06T07:52:28+00:00

Not ban worthy, but also not a great analogy

Ikeriro90 · 2020-01-06T09:10:26+00:00

Technically you said the truth, however, maybe you made a bad election of words

kondenado · 2020-01-06T14:42:50+00:00

WTF!!! A woman should be able to dress as she wants without being afraid of being raped!!!!

Title	FSW got banned from r/trollxchromosome, though I feel like it is a little bit of my fault, they ban me before I can reply to all the comment
Author	KingMaegorTheCool
Upvotes	259
Comments	41
Date	January 6, 2020 4:03 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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