Is that you ladies are looking for genuine advice, because you plan on following that advice and aren't just using this sub to air your dirty laundry and not do anything about it. The importance of a place like this is for women who truly want and need help. It is so tiring seeing others posting about their situation in other subs (won't name names) without any intention of following advice given to them, because they can't take off those damn rose tinted glasses to see their man is a waste of time.

So coming here makes me happy because I see effort in bettering yourselves and doing for yourselves and not waiting for men to change <3

This is a positive space for women.