maybe its just me but I'm sympathetic If someone has family members that are the absolute worst but you can't ever abandon cause they are family, maybe its cause I have family members that are like this, but that's not what I want to get into right now

My In-Laws are very difficult, e.g one of my SO's uncles used to be an actual skinhead Neo-Nazi but then converted to baptism and is now actually married to a black woman weirdly enough, he also has a annoying FTM cousin, now I'm very lucky cause I have a no issues with both my mother and father in-law

My mother-in-law is a very intimidating but strong and kind woman, and father-in-law is not quite right in the head anymore due to a number of issues but he's a good guy as well

the Issue is with my brother and sister-law, My brother-in-law is a little worse then my SIL, he's a meathead who has to bring up that he was a marine every time you meet him, he has porno magazines just lying around his house and he has a girlfriend who he hasn't married in like 7 year now, thankfully I don't have to meet him often but the one I'm stuck is my sister-in-law and she is the literal worst

for context you have to understand that she lives with us, while she goes to collage, both me and my SO agreed on it, you also have to understand that during my Husbands childhood both his parents had full time jobs, so he was the one left raising his younger siblings, so cause of that, they seem to have more of a father/daughter relationship then brother/sister

now I have tried to be friends with her and have tried to be a good person(I did actually consider her a good friend sometime age) but she is just insufferable

She’s really passive aggressive and just plain rude. and makes subtle jabs at me all the time

she spends majority of her time playing videogames and sometimes doesn't bathe for a whole week, she's also a NLOG and loves South Park

she has south park dolls and her laptop background is a picture of stan kyle cartman and butters on picture day. her smartphone background is a fujo picture of two south park characters making out, she sometimes says offensive stuff just to get a reaction out of people, she does not clean after herself and does no chores around the house

dealing with her is just hell