An update to the emotional cheating thread from yesterday, most commenters: tHeY'rE jUsT fRiEnDs

Datonecatladyukno · 2020-03-13T21:07:59+00:00

Some people will defend a crappy man when they are literally watching him cheat. Makes no sense

thedrunkcuteblonde · 2020-03-13T21:17:07+00:00

I never understood these types of posts. If something like this makes you feel uncomfortable or is making you unhappy, freaking leave the relationship! What does it matter how strangers on the internet feel about your relationship.

Emma_Lemma_108 · 2020-03-14T01:10:17+00:00

This is a classic lesson: don’t date “sad bois.” They’re 1000% trash who will use their supposed fee fees to justify their ego inflating, disloyal bullshit behavior until they, and you, are blue in the face. Look at the actions, don’t justify, and YEET that man!

AyemHerself · 2020-03-13T21:19:06+00:00

I think people just want to be contrary. If the guy was posting his side of the story they'd be all over him for emotional cheating.

ghygdryhchmmmmjj · 2020-03-14T05:28:42+00:00

H Sounds like hes sucking in a new girlfriend by getting her to empathize. That's what sociopaths do too! I have no idea how bad he is but the whole situation is crap and she needs to leave. Hes triangulating. Telling them both different information. Flattering the other girl, "confiding" in her, while avoiding talking about his actual girlfriend to her mysteriously 🙄. He hands his actual girlfriend the phone so she can see how funny and great his conversations with the other girl are 🤢🤮 yes. So if shes mad and hurt its because he wants her to feel that way. Shes not crazy. Terrible people can use depression as an excuse to cheat, lie, steal, sponge off others. I know plenty of people who truly struggle with depression and manage to avoid manipulating people as a way to feel better.

2020-03-14T08:36:44+00:00

I'm so sad for her. The moment you have to type long paragraphs you know it's done

ana-moss-city · 2020-03-13T21:39:01+00:00

Is this emotional cheating? Idk, i mean if friend was a guy this would be okay right? Besides its unrealistical to expect a romantic relationship to be your whole emotional support, its easier to talk to a stranger since they have no real effect on your life. Where is the line between confiding in a friend vs emotional cheating? Also we are only getting the girlfriends perspective, which can be tainted aith insecurities, its just one prespective.

Title	An update to the emotional cheating thread from yesterday, most commenters: tHeY'rE jUsT fRiEnDs
Author	traditsh
Upvotes	28
Comments	18
Date	March 13, 2020 8:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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