Just curious if you would consider this a red flag. I met this man because our kids are in the same activity and we became friends pretty quickly. We went through divorces about the same time. His divorce came about because his wife cheated on him and left him with three kids. We have been talking for several months and recently we seem to be getting closer and I feel like he might ask me out soon. The thing that worries me is my son recently had a sleep over at his house for his sons birthday and told me that he has cameras in his kids rooms. Now his kids are 9 and 7 year old twins. It sort of weirded me out, it certainly weirded out my son. I realize he just recently became a single dad a year ago so he's still navigating the waters but i'm a little worried that it may point to a control issue. do you think its a red flag or should I give him a chance?