Is planning and paying for dates still HVM behaviour if they always ask what you want to do on the dates?

popfriday · 2020-01-29T20:27:18+00:00

Why wouldn’t it be?

Actually - never mind. The answer is yes.

take1990 · 2020-01-29T21:00:11+00:00

I’d say it’s ideal. Ask me what I want and then plan it.

NecessarilyDark · 2020-01-29T21:02:18+00:00

Can someone clarify for me? We say it's bad when he makes you plan the dates, but then we say this is good. Sure, we dont want him to just drag us along to what he wants to do, but is this guy not essentially making her plan it?

throwaway_46572Kiw · 2020-01-29T20:39:39+00:00

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Blackishcat27 · 2020-01-30T19:33:38+00:00

It's a good thing. He's trying to be thoughtful and considerate.

Title	Is planning and paying for dates still HVM behaviour if they always ask what you want to do on the dates?
Author	throwaway_46572Kiw
Upvotes	8
Comments	10
Date	January 29, 2020 7:36 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/evrus5/is_planning_and_paying_for_dates_still_hvm/
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