Guy asked me to "hang out". So, I immediately wasn't interested because if they can't use the word "date", they can't handle me. They just want to know if they have a shot but they're too scared to ask.

So I did what I always do in that situation. I asked what he wanted to do. I knew the answer but I like forcing them to admit that they're lazy, dumb, boring, unimaginative, and/or just plain wasting my time with their feeble bullshit.

"I don't know. You pick."

I picked no.

The more of these lazy guys I see and talk to out there, the more I'm ok with the possibility of never being with a man again. I can see why STI transmission rates are so high when men put zero effort into obtaining sex and just wait until they luck into some equally lazy person who is willing to exchange fluids with them.