First off, this sub has had a huge impact on me. After two emotionally abusive relationships this sub really changed my perspective and has helped me regain confidence and power in myself.

I apologize if this has been answered somewhere on this sub before. I will no longer travel to men. They must come to me. However, I often get asked the question why? I know I don't need to answer this question. But I'm wondering if there are any respectful ways to explain to a guy, why not. Maybe I already answered my question (because honestly I don't need to provide any explanation) but I'm wondering how some of you respond to this.