So, I really like the MAKEHIMWAIT2020 thing, BUT I date guys 35+ and I am finding a lot of porn sick dick out there. Because of this, I'm going to have to at least go for some heavy petting at some point to see if the guy can even get hard. I experienced this just the other night. We've been dating, texting, and talking on the phone for a few weeks now. I don't know if there was just no sexual chemistry (I felt there was) or if it only works when porn is involved. He was talking a big game, but it was as limp as a wet noodle. He seemed awkward at kissing. It killed the vibe big time and now I'm not interested in another date. I'm going to tell him no sexual chemistry since he seems like a big boy that can take rejection.

Thoughts?