😣😔 OP sleeps with a guy before exclusivity is established. She's hurt when he pulls the slow fade.

AnniaT · 2019-09-18T23:35:08+00:00

If one wants a serious relationship it's safer to wait until exclusivity or at least actual emotional intimacy to have sex.

throwawayy92838383 · 2019-09-19T08:24:12+00:00

I think we’ve all been there before. You’re dating a guy, getting to know him, and taking it slow. Then, when it finally feels right to have sex, his whole demeanor changes afterwards and you’re left chasing the scraps of his attention.

If a man pulls this shit on you thank u, next the motherfucker. Even if your relationship is casual, they shouldn’t treat you and your feelings like shit. It’s a 1-800-His-Fucking-Loss situation.

Loiacono3137 · 2019-09-20T00:03:34+00:00

It sucks :( she will heal and move on

Take this as a lesson in the future

THE_ANGRY_SHARTER · 2019-09-18T19:07:09+00:00

I hope she's okay! This is such a painful position to be put in.

666manhater666 · 2019-09-19T02:19:32+00:00

Men are awful and short sighted.

jessicaslovely · 2019-09-18T19:19:09+00:00

he may have already been seeing someone, or dealing with an ex.. some men just lose interest after sex because that is all they are looking for. This has happened to me and a month or so later I seen the guy at Ihop with what looked like his GF

Title	😣😔 OP sleeps with a guy before exclusivity is established. She's hurt when he pulls the slow fade.
Author	THE_ANGRY_SHARTER
Upvotes	12
Comments	17
Date	September 18, 2019 6:59 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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